Let me say this please...

[OhMissScarlett]

No advice. Just an observation:

Nothing ordinary happens here.
Unpaid bills don't pile up on the bedside table.
The toilet doesn't overflow.
Dinner isn't leftovers.
There are no mothers-in-law here.
No one squeezes the toothpaste tube from the middle.
It's easy to believe you wouldn't care if they did.

No one snores.

No one is ever "not in the mood."
No one, no matter how exhausting their day was, lacks the energy to at least type good sex.

In PM, you can delete the boring story about your bad day.
You can un-hurt someone's feelings.
You always know the right thing to say. The clever thing, the supportive thing. If you don't, you aren't really trying.

No one's nose runs.
No one has a zit.
No one wears an old bathrobe at the dinner table.
No one gets crumbs in the bed.
Nobody farts. Everybody fucks.



Who wouldn't fall in love with us? What is there not to love?

Stellar, Sher.

Things move quickly when all you have are words. A lot of us here have been through or are going through the same thing. I know what it feels like to want to jump when you've found the love of your life. Like Bel said, be careful. Make sure if you do jump, you have somewhere to land.

 

[carsonshepherd]

Stellar, Sher.

Things move quickly when all you have are words. A lot of us here have been through or are going through the same thing. I know what it feels like to want to jump when you've found the love of your life. Like Bel said, be careful. Make sure if you do jump, you have somewhere to land.

 

[tolyk]

I met my wife through the internet, and I do honestly love her even now that she lives a life without me. But she wasn't ready for a serious relationship, unfortunately we didn't figure that out until we were already married.

Now, the reason I mention this is just to show that I'm not adverse to meeting people online. However, I have stopped letting myself fall head over heels in love, I make myself move slow. If I am to fall in love again, it will be with someone I truly know. I know that you get to know people rather well online, but as someone hinted at (not so subtlely ), you learn a person's best side on here. You don't learn all their peculiarities and quirks. You don't learn of any annoying habbits they do (my ex didn't really have any that annoyed me, beyond constantly appologizing)

Anyways, I'm just trying to say be careful, as others have expressed. Sometimes things aren't always quite what they seem.

I'm all for romance on the internet, but love.. thats reaching for it.

Tolyk, the cynic.

Editted to fix my typo.. *gasp* I made a typo!!!

 

[Guest]

I met my wife through the internet, and I do honestly love her even now that she lives a life without me. But she wasn't ready for a serious relationship, unfortunately we didn't figure that out until we were already married.

Now, the reason I mention this is jsut to show that I'm not adverse to meeting people online. However, I have stopped letting myself fall head over heels in love, I make myself move slow. If I am to fall in love again, it will be with someone I truly know. I know that you get to know people rather well online, but as someone hinted at (not so subtley ), you learn a person's best side on here. You don't learn all their peculiarities and quirks. You don't learn of any annoying habbits they do (my ex didn't really have any that annoyed me, beyond constantly appologizing)

Anyways, I'm just trying to say be careful, as others have expressed. Sometimes things aren't always quite what they seem.

I'm all for romance on the internet, but love.. thats reaching for it.

Tolyk, the cynic.

minus the cynic remark, wonderful post, sweetie.
i guess i went in the opposite direction with Lucky. in chat i would tell her everything... i mean every little aspect of me that 'i' thought would be a horrid habit. i think this was because i was so attracted to her that i wanted to make sure that she knew everything. too many people are ready to believe that 'you' dont fart... crack knuckles...leave clothes on the floor...ect. thats just because thats what we want to believe or a romantic view of the person we want to love.
btw, even face to face i dont believe that you would leave the door open to the bathroom when you first meet. even after 17 years being married, i wouldnt do that.
dear god, ive lost my point... did i even have one?
*sigh*

 

[tolyk]

minus the cynic remark, wonderful post, sweetie.
i guess i went in the opposite direction with Lucky. in chat i would tell her everything... i mean every little aspect of me that 'i' thought would be a horrid habit. i think this was because i was so attracted to her that i wanted to make sure that she knew everything. too many people are ready to believe that 'you' dont fart... crack knuckles...leave clothes on the floor...ect. thats just because thats what we want to believe or a romantic view of the person we want to love.
btw, even face to face i dont believe that you would leave the door open to the bathroom when you first meet. even after 17 years being married, i wouldnt do that.
dear god, ive lost my point... did i even have one?
*sigh*

The cynic remark was more a joke

And nope, I wouldn't leave the bathroom door open upon the first meeting, and surprisingly enough, I always put the toilet seat down. *chuckle*

As for telling someone about all your quirks, it still isn't quite the same as experiencing them, unless of course a person has already dealt with quirks that are of a similiar nature. We don't really know how we will respond to certain situations, until those situations are thrown our way.

I could go on and on about relationships, online relationships, or human nature, but I think I'm going to go play a video game instead.

 

[shereads]

too many people are ready to believe that 'you' dont fart... crack knuckles...leave clothes on the floor...ect. thats just because thats what we want to believe or a romantic view of the person we want to love.

Once you've revealed that your special fragrance is derived from the oil of Burger King Whoppers, which you apply by rubbing your lunch directly on your body, the other stuff is implicit.

 

[eric shawn listo]

This is very distressing...you people don't fart?

Don't mean to make light of the situation Nik and Rik but shit...no farting.

Seriously, I wish you both well.

 

[Guest]

Once you've revealed that your special fragrance is derived from the oil of Burger King Whoppers, which you apply by rubbing your lunch directly on your body, the other stuff is implicit.

as long as it is quite understood!
*grin*