Let's talk about sex baby...

[JennyNo1]

I have never been clear on the difference between a fetish and a kink or even just a preference, so being the ex-teacher that I am, I went to the dictionary:

"Fetish - an object or bodily part whose real or fantasied presence is psychologically necessary for sexual gratification and that is an object of fixation to the extent that it may interfere with complete sexual expression."

Given that, then no, I don't have any fetishes, as no one thing in particular is needed for me to get off. I've got my kinks that really get me going, and my preferences, like a quick wit, gorgeous smile, or broad shoulders, but in the end it comes down to how well certain of my body parts get stimulated!

 

[suckonsimon]

So, me wearing a steel cock ring round my whole junk virtually all day and most nights: fetish? kink? preference? something else really terrible? Or just, 'well, nice bulge, and ready to go'?

 

[Little_Sister]

I chose the username Little Sister on a porn message board. Need I say more?

 

[Trekka]

Of late, I think I have a Viking fetish. Is that a thing?

 

[ViciousTease]

Yeah I agree on your definition. I'm just trying to understand the mentality that it takes to get off by soiled panties or feet.

Like you the fantasy is much better than the reality. I've enjoyed a few piss play stories, even a few non consent, but if my wife peed on me I would probably scream like a 12 year old at a Bieber concert.

OK, that made me spit coffee all over my tablet. Too funny!

I have never been clear on the difference between a fetish and a kink or even just a preference, so being the ex-teacher that I am, I went to the dictionary:

"Fetish - an object or bodily part whose real or fantasied presence is psychologically necessary for sexual gratification and that is an object of fixation to the extent that it may interfere with complete sexual expression."

Given that, then no, I don't have any fetishes, as no one thing in particular is needed for me to get off. I've got my kinks that really get me going, and my preferences, like a quick wit, gorgeous smile, or broad shoulders, but in the end it comes down to how well certain of my body parts get stimulated!

What she said! Naughty teacher adds a whole knew layer to your sex appeal, BTW.

Of late, I think I have a Viking fetish. Is that a thing?

I know what you mean, Vikings are on my preference list. Or kink list. Or both.

 

[cowslinger64]

Well I've been to numerous so called "fetish events".. call them that, call them kinks ....those are really just semantics in my book...


Over the last year I've really opened up my world to new things.. with the prodding of scentofawoman her and I have explored things I never thought I would care to.. While I've loved giving spankings for a very long time, giving them in a public play party was something I hadn't considered... Now I've done it many times, have some beautiful paddles, have a pair of incredible buffalo teal floggers, and a mile of rope that I use for bondage and just for artistic tying. I built a suspension frame to suspend people from, and it has a cross on the end for flogging.. and hooks to tie up to as well.

The next thing I'll buy is probably a violet wand... tho scent is dying for me to build her a spanking bench.. We'll see..

 

[Suz_anne]

#7. Do you have a sexual fetish? If so how did it come about? If not, do you feel you're missing out in some way?

No, I don't have any fetishes. And I don't feel like I'm missing out because I am not sure that I would like that I must have this one particular thing in order for me to be sexually gratified. When someone has a fetish and they are able to indulge in it freely, it must be an amazing feeling. But if they have a fetish that is difficult to fulfill (for whatever reason), that has to be a bit frustrating.

I definitely have some kinks - things that really butter my biscuit and I can trace many of them back to a specific experience from my formative years. Still not sure why I like ass hooks, but it's better not to overthink certain things.

I chose the username Little Sister on a porn message board. Need I say more?

Okay, I'm a dumbass… but I didn't connect the dots on your username until about 2 weeks ago. Yes, I'm a little slow.

 

[cowslinger64]

No, I don't have any fetishes. And I don't feel like I'm missing out because I am not sure that I would like that I must have this one particular thing in order for me to be sexually gratified. When someone has a fetish and they are able to indulge in it freely, it must be an amazing feeling. But if they have a fetish that is difficult to fulfill (for whatever reason), that has to be a bit frustrating.

I definitely have some kinks - things that really butter my biscuit and I can trace many of them back to a specific experience from my formative years. Still not sure why I like ass hooks, but it's better not to overthink certain things.



Okay, I'm a dumbass… but I didn't connect the dots on your username until about 2 weeks ago. Yes, I'm a little slow.

The nice boobs help.

 

[Suz_anne]

The nice boobs help.

Boobs help lots of things.

 

[cowslinger64]

Boobs help lots of things.

Butts do more tho.. lets see it.

 

[RubenesqueAphrodite]

sadly, I do have a fetish. If I can't hear the urgency in your voice, I can not get off.
Ergo, the audio section has been my friend on many occasion.

*goes back to analyzing spreadsheets*

 

[tolyk]

I have kinks and preferences, no fetishes. Unless you count requiring an emotional connection to get aroused a fetish.

 

[makemewet69]

Okay, so I didn't really realize the difference between a fetish, kink, and a preference. I'm fairly new to all this. So after reading more comments mine would be preferences as I don't have to have them to get off.

 

[Little_Sister]

Okay, I'm a dumbass… but I didn't connect the dots on your username until about 2 weeks ago. Yes, I'm a little slow.

LMAO.



I was actually just talking about this in PM to Trekka. I only like story/rp incest. I am not a fan of RL incest and I have never crushed on anyone I am related to. I like the taboo of it in stories and play though. I feel the same way about non-consent. I LOVE it in stories and RP but real life rape, no way jose.

 

[Trekka]

I was actually just talking about this in PM to Trekka. I only like story/rp incest. I am not a fan of RL incest and I have never crushed on anyone I am related to. I like the taboo of it in stories and play though. I feel the same way about non-consent. I LOVE it in stories and RP but real life rape, no way jose.

Tie me up and pee on me.

 

[cowslinger64]

Tie me up and pee on me.

Half of that statement was rather hot.


First part.. not the second. Blech

 

[DayMaker]

I have kinks and preferences, no fetishes. Unless you count requiring an emotional connection to get aroused a fetish.

Well said.

 

[Trekka]

Half of that statement was rather hot.
First part.. not the second. Blech

I love it when you talk judgy. Say "blech" some more... Mmm... *bites lip

 

[Suz_anne]

Half of that statement was rather hot.


First part.. not the second. Blech

Hey! No judging. We're in the trust tree here.

 

[Suz_anne]

I love it when you talk judgy. Say "blech" some more... Mmm... *bites lip

*high fives Trekka* *and by high fives, I mean boobie rubs*

 

[Trekka]

Hey! No judging. We're in the trust tree here.

*tweaks her trusty nipple

Yanno, hippies like trees....

 

[Azuldrgon]

#7. Do you have a sexual fetish? If so how did it come about? If not, do you feel you're missing out in some way?

In real life, I don't have any fetishes. The wife and I are wired differently in that regard.

Fetishes that look interesting are minor bondage (scarves, belts and zip ties), nipple play (concentration on her nipples or clamps), voyeurism, things of that nature. I have discussed these with different cyber partners in the past and that's how I became interested.

I'm not into water sports, scat play, blading, and extreme things like that.

I think if I was more sexually active at a younger time, I might have experienced more, but we are the way we are for a reason.

 

[cowslinger64]

Hey! No judging. We're in the trust tree here.

Did you just meet me?



Ok.. well the board fetish at the moment is you two splashing around in a kiddie pool of baby oil, clad in string bikinis.


No judging and we'll need you to get right on that..

 

[DarkSimian]

Of late, I think I have a Viking fetish. Is that a thing?

*has a Thor helmet and hammer*

 

[IhateClowns]

I have never experienced bondage or leather. I think the closest I got was when my wife wore some spanx when she was pregnant.