Let's talk about sex baby...

[Todger65]

I was shocked when i read an incest story and it turned me on so much I ended up masturbating to it. I came onto this site for the stories and one night I got curious and went to that section . I had no intention of it doing anything for me. I was surprised that it did and even more surprised I came to it. It isn't a go to by any means. My fantasies rarely go that direction but sometimes they do. I was highly embarrassed with myself at first. Now I just chalk it up to my perviness.

It's the thought of a taboo subject that turns people on, especially in the heat of the moment. If you had to indulge in incest in reality when you was turned on by the thought of it, you would probably be fine at the time and enjoy it more than you would having 'normal' sex but later you would get confused and initial thought would be, I'll never do that again, but if the offer came up again, I bet you would..

Next time don't maturbate alone, call me, this daddy would like to help you

 

[suckonsimon]

#38 answer:

When in my early 50s [I'm turned 60 now] I realised I was aroused by fit, handsome confident men. I had before that, of course, admired and to a degree lusted after their women. But now it was the guy of a sexy couple I was looking at as much as the lovely lady. About the same time I began to have this slight envy of my wife's pleasure giving me oral. So there was a "What the hell's happening to me!" time to work through.

I have come to see that this is a spin-off of what it means to me - how very much it means to me - that I have such pleasure in my sexual relationship. Not only do I love all of it, her pleasure and my pleasure, but I love the notion of it: I adore the sexiness of sexually active people whose satisfaction and joy shows through in their lives and in the way they present. The male appreciation aspect of this is a kind of 'solidarity of studs' if you will. At least that's how I see it. And it's how I play some of my friendships with men on Lit. And I like that a lot. Having arousing admiration for fit men who it seems to me give it good to their women, is not a problem at all!

 

[ViciousTease]

#38. Have you ever been shocked or embarrassed by something that has turned you on? Something that you never thought would ever do so? How did you handle it? You don't have to explain what it was. I just want to know how you handled the situation.

I once read an incest story that had me extremely aroused. In reality, just the thought of incest creeps me out. Definitely not my thing! I was also quite turned on by a "ghost encounter" erotic story I read. Again, not my thing. In both cases, the writing was exceptional. Both times, I decided it was the writing that did it, not the subject matter.

 

[LibraStud]

Waht happened to #37?

 

[AKentuckyLady]

Seems some are interested in starting this thread back up. I closed it because the participation had dwindled quite a bit. I will post another question and see if it goes anywhere again.

#38. Have you ever been shocked or embarrassed by something that has turned you on? Something that you never thought would ever do so? How did you handle it? You don't have to explain what it was. I just want to know how you handled the situation.

There have been a few things that I said (before I experienced them) that I would never, ever, EVER do. Mainly to do with a D/s lifestyle - kneeling, collaring, calling a man "Sir" or "Daddy". The way I was raised by a fiercely independent mother made me think that I would never be able to put myself in a position to willingly be subservient to a man.

After research and talking out my feelings with a few chosen friends, I realized that it was my own preconceived notions of how society today views those things, not what they actually mean.

Now, nothing turns me on more. Go figure

 

[beachbaby179]

Wow, Clowns. You started it back up with a really good question today.

#38: there are two specific things that come to mind. The first is restraints of any kind. They've always been a hard limit for me. I was the victim of a sexual assault many years ago, during which I was restrained and gagged, so obviously it has really negative connotations for me. But the longer I spend here, and the more I'm exposed to people who really enjoy it, I'm rethinking that whole thing. Now it's more of a "never say never" situation. But he'd have to be very patient and I'd have to trust him completely.

The second is being watched. Because, let's face it, in an online world that is sort of a given when you get close to someone. But I never really thought about it before Lit.

 

[IhateClowns]

#39. Does the word taboo have the same meaning to you now than when you first learned what it meant? With the internet allowing you to pretty much watch whatever you wish, is there really anything that you would consider to still be taboo?

 

[AbsintheFather]

#39. Does the word taboo have the same meaning to you now than when you first learned what it meant? With the internet allowing you to pretty much watch whatever you wish, is there really anything that you would consider to still be taboo?

After being here this long, I'm so jaded I'd say no. Is there anything that would make you blush at this point. I think not.

Hiya clowns. I hope your new gig is going well

 

[aussiegeekygal]

#39. Does the word taboo have the same meaning to you now than when you first learned what it meant? With the internet allowing you to pretty much watch whatever you wish, is there really anything that you would consider to still be taboo?

My boundaries have been pushed, however I still have hard limits. Most of my limits align with the rules of lit, however the internet has opened my eyes to the flexibility within those rules
I have always had quite an open and curious mind. The internet have me an avenue to answer some unanswered questions I'd been hoarding.

 

[Suz_anne]

#39. Does the word taboo have the same meaning to you now than when you first learned what it meant? With the internet allowing you to pretty much watch whatever you wish, is there really anything that you would consider to still be taboo?

No, it doesn't have the same meaning that it first did. Like aussie, my boundaries have been expanded (thank goodness) and things I found to be distasteful and/or taboo before are no longer so for me.

Yes, i think there are things that still taboo - at least to me. I try to be less judgmental about how other people view these taboo things. As long as everyone is of age and it's consensual... knock yourself out.

 

[*professorx*]

No, it doesn't have the same meaning that it first did. Like aussie, my boundaries have been expanded (thank goodness) and things I found to be distasteful and/or taboo before are no longer so for me.

Yes, i think there are things that still taboo - at least to me. I try to be less judgmental about how other people view these taboo things. As long as everyone is of age and it's consensual... knock yourself out.

real time age is a deal breaker indeed

top 3 fantasies that you go to to get you over the threshold ?

 

[SCcouple1990]

#39. Does the word taboo have the same meaning to you now than when you first learned what it meant? With the internet allowing you to pretty much watch whatever you wish, is there really anything that you would consider to still be taboo?

I now think of taboo as more of a sexual thing (wanting to fuck a sibling is taboo) rather than a social thing (asking a woman how much she weighs is taboo).

There are things that would be taboo to me (having sex with my parents or children), but if that's your thing and everyone consents then it is really noe of my business.

 

[IhateClowns]

#40. How would you describe your current sex life?

 

[JenniBean]

#40. How would you describe your current sex life?

Kinky.

 

[Suz_anne]

Not kinky. *sigh*

 

[aussiegeekygal]

#40. How would you describe your current sex life?

Vaginal rest

 

[aussiegeekygal]

Not kinky. *sigh*

Huge sigh. Come borrow my husband anytime. He could use some kinky whilst I'm out if commission x

 

[suckonsimon]

#40. How would you describe your current sex life?

Remarkable: given we are early 60s, married 40 years, that it is frequent and great.
Loving: being intimate, joined, profoundly pleasuring each other, giving each other esteem.
Imaginative: within the bounds of what we are both comfortable with, we play and do some new things still!
Satisfying and Energising: she's radiant, I smile, we rise to the challenges of life better, because we have this.

We are both more grateful than we can say, that our sex life has panned out this way.

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

Lonely, but hopeful.

 

[dead_niinja]

#40. How would you describe your current sex life?

Pretty good. Not kinky enough though.

 

[TheSilverLining]

Lost.

 

[beachbaby179]

#40. How would you describe your current sex life?

There are no words to describe it. Because I don't have one...

 

[AbsintheFather]

Sporadic

 

[makemewet69]

#40. How would you describe your current sex life?

Adventurous, kinky, gentle, rough, loving, everything I always wanted but never had until now. I feel safe and that's so so important to me. I also like that if there's something new I want to try, anything at all, he makes it happen for me.

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

Adventurous, kinky, gentle, rough, loving, everything I always wanted but never had until now. I feel safe and that's so so important to me. I also like that if there's something new I want to try, anything at all, he makes it happen for me.

I hope you two enjoy a very long, very happy union.

Union, get it?