Long edging sessions, orgasm control, orgasm denial and huge cumshots

[Wonderer67]

My wife released me today after 31 days without cumming. I wrote her a short story describing my release and she followed it.

She tied me to a chair this afternoon and masturbated me, vibrated me. She brought me to the edge and stopped 10x. It took almost two hours. I was in agony and ecstasy.

Finally she brought me to a 1/2 ruined orgasm. It didn’t just leak out but my cock jumped a bit with involuntary spasms and a lot of cum came out. It was not a full orgasm and she took her hand away so I lost all sensation and my cock just flopped and jumped Involuntarily and came heavy.

A lot of cum came out, but it was not a super heavy and powerful cumshot.

It was super hot.

She said she’s gonna let me cum again tomorrow before work. I can only imagine I will not cum again after that for a long period of time.

Orgasm control has really changed our sex life and relationship in a positive way.

 

[Wonderer67]

Before we made love Sunday, I asked her if she would hand job me and give me a good long and frustrating edging hand job.

And she did just that.

We had a great session of sex. I brought her to many orgasms and withheld from cumming.

When we were done, she put one of my bands around my balls and then another one around the base of my cock in my balls, lubed up and gave me an excruciatingly, difficult edging, hand job!

I mean, excruciating in the best possible way… Holding me just on the brink of orgasm, but not quite enough power or speed to tip me over the edge! I find that heavenly!!

She was using different grips, one from above one from below, and she was masturbating me exceedingly slowly, speeding up and seemingly knowing exactly when I would be ready to cum! She held me on the brink for at least 20 minutes.

“Please let me cum, I begged…” 99x out of 100 she will say no. She knows how much I love it and I think it turns her on to keep me all horny.

But yeaterday she said yes, and kept on going. Soon enough, I knew I was going to erupt. But she kept me on the edge frustratingly so.

Finally, she sped up, and I knew it was time. I felt my orgasm rising and rising, and finally, I passed the point of no return. I absolutely fountained cum. Four or five powerful cum shots all over.

More, less powerful eruptions.

It had been a week since I last came, and this was a very strong and powerful, good feeling orgasm!

Well worth the wait!

 

[Boat1]

Before we made love Sunday, I asked her if she would hand job me and give me a good long and frustrating edging hand job.

And she did just that.

We had a great session of sex. I brought her to many orgasms and withheld from cumming.

When we were done, she put one of my bands around my balls and then another one around the base of my cock in my balls, lubed up and gave me an excruciatingly, difficult edging, hand job!

I mean, excruciating in the best possible way… Holding me just on the brink of orgasm, but not quite enough power or speed to tip me over the edge! I find that heavenly!!

She was using different grips, one from above one from below, and she was masturbating me exceedingly slowly, speeding up and seemingly knowing exactly when I would be ready to cum! She held me on the brink for at least 20 minutes.

“Please let me cum, I begged…” 99x out of 100 she will say no. She knows how much I love it and I think it turns her on to keep me all horny.

But yeaterday she said yes, and kept on going. Soon enough, I knew I was going to erupt. But she kept me on the edge frustratingly so.

Finally, she sped up, and I knew it was time. I felt my orgasm rising and rising, and finally, I passed the point of no return. I absolutely fountained cum. Four or five powerful cum shots all over.

More, less powerful eruptions.

It had been a week since I last came, and this was a very strong and powerful, good feeling orgasm!

Well worth the wait!

Absolutely LOVE this!

This weekend, as I'm still offshore, my Wife/Domme and Her best friend (both authors) got together for a "Writing Weekend" which put me on a "Radio Silence" weekend, as to not interrupt them and break their train of thought...

She gave me some beautifully Sadistic slave tasks to keep me occupied and had me write about them as well..
She allowed me to cum for Her, after work (midnight) and made me send Her the video... it was definitely an INTENSE weekend!
Edit:
IMHO, the MOST Sadistic of Her tasks, was me not being allowed to touch myself, but having to look at pics and watch videos of us together... talk about DIFFICULT!
That led me to try something I'd NEVER tried or even CONSIDERED trying, as it had always been a bit of a "turn-off" for me.... so, yesterday was my FIRST time in chastity! My C&Bs were tightly "sleeved" in a cloth sleeve, then, bound tightly to the inside of my left thigh for 4 hours.
A little less than 3 hours in, due to pushing so much precum, in addition to my Lovely Domme's reactions (after She ended my radio silence) I was surfing Amazon for chastity cages to get ideas on styles and making some prototypes.

 

[Wonderer67]

Absolutely LOVE this!

This weekend, as I'm still offshore, my Wife/Domme and Her best friend (both authors) got together for a "Writing Weekend" which put me on a "Radio Silence" weekend, as to not interrupt them and break their train of thought...

She gave me some beautifully Sadistic slave tasks to keep me occupied and had me write about them as well..
She allowed me to cum for Her, after work (midnight) and made me send Her the video... it was definitely an INTENSE weekend!
Edit:
IMHO, the MOST Sadistic of Her tasks, was me not being allowed to touch myself, but having to look at pics and watch videos of us together... talk about DIFFICULT!
That led me to try something I'd NEVER tried or even CONSIDERED trying, as it had always been a bit of a "turn-off" for me.... so, yesterday was my FIRST time in chastity! My C&Bs were tightly "sleeved" in a cloth sleeve, then, bound tightly to the inside of my left thigh for 4 hours.
A little less than 3 hours in, due to pushing so much precum, in addition to my Lovely Domme's reactions (after She ended my radio silence) I was surfing Amazon for chastity cages to get ideas on styles and making some prototypes.

She sounds like a fabulous lady!!

 

[Sol41]

I used to edge, before I even knew what it was.

Untill one night I guess I pulled back way too late and when I did finally cum (pre hrt) there was red in it.

I turned out okay, whatever it was healed but it put me off edging for good lol

 

[Boat1]

She sounds like a fabulous lady!!

Thank you sir, She definitely is!
Having read MANY of your posts etc, I think it's safe to say that you and I (and our wives) share many commonalities in our relationships!

 

[Wonderer67]

I meant to add that we have engaged in chastity for many years. It’s highly erotic.

We haven’t done so in a few years… I was never able to find a device that was all that comfortable.

 

[Wonderer67]

Thank you sir, She definitely is!
Having read MANY of your posts etc, I think it's safe to say that you and I (and our wives) share many commonalities in our relationships!

I believe so!

Hats off to our fabulous wife’s and partners.

 

[Wonderer67]

I used to edge, before I even knew what it was.

Untill one night I guess I pulled back way too late and when I did finally cum (pre hrt) there was red in it.

I turned out okay, whatever it was healed but it put me off edging for good lol

Wow - that sounds scary. Glad you’re ok now.

I can see why you might say “no thanks.”

FWIW - my wife and I will sometimes go a month of sexual activity, edging, and giving her pleasure without me cumming. I once went 6 weeks.

 

[Sol41]

Wow - that sounds scary. Glad you’re ok now.

I can see why you might say “no thanks.”

FWIW - my wife and I will sometimes go a month of sexual activity, edging, and giving her pleasure without me cumming. I once went 6 weeks.

Yeah, in no way am I using ny experience to say "edgings bad, dont do it".
Just sharing my weird experience. Ive never heard anyone else have this experience so I chalk it up to "bodies are weird".

 

[Boat1]

I meant to add that we have engaged in chastity for many years. It’s highly erotic.

We haven’t done so in a few years… I was never able to find a device that was all that comfortable.

I know what you mean, as that was part of the "turn-off" to me, hence my desire to make my own from quality leather.

 

[Wonderer67]

Yeah, in no way am I using ny experience to say "edgings bad, dont do it".
Just sharing my weird experience. Ive never heard anyone else have this experience so I chalk it up to "bodies are weird".

Everyone is different, and what turns on one person is an immense turn off to another.

What works for one person may not work for another, we’re all different and unique.

Sorry edging didn’t work well for you.

 

[Sol41]

Everyone is different, and what turns on one person is an immense turn off to another.

What works for one person may not work for another, we’re all different and unique.

Sorry edging didn’t work well for you.

Well it did for about a month prior is the thing, and I did enjoy it fwiw.

 

[Boat1]

I used to edge, before I even knew what it was.

Untill one night I guess I pulled back way too late and when I did finally cum (pre hrt) there was red in it.

I turned out okay, whatever it was healed but it put me off edging for good lol

I remember my first time pissing blood, lots of it, in the snow, no less!
Eventually, begrudgingly, I went to the Urologist, who drove the equivalent of a roto-rooter up in me to watch my kidney function. That was AFTER injecting something in my veins for a series of x-rays... no anesthesia, no dope, no nothing... it felt like metal shavings being pulled out of my entire body with an electromagnet... I left there and headed STRAIGHT TO the liquor store, vowing to bleed out, before ever going through THAT again!

 

[loveseethrough]

my wife and I planned for a sexy morning but it didn’t happen. Phone ringing, texts shooting this way and that. Then we got caught up in the morning… breakfast, a quick errand.

But then things got sexy within a short timeframe, before my chiropractor appointment…

Kissing, cuddling. It was really nice. I got super hard as I was feeling up my wife and moving my hands all around her beautiful body. We missed some more.

She started to hand job me, and give me an excruciatingly frustrating very slow, edging, hand job…

https://vlix.io/video/eefba931bb03a835b1fa/

I wish I had kept the vid running for about 10 seconds more, as the drop of pre-come slid down the head of my penis.

Then she blew me for a few minutes. But it was quick. I was running late for my appointment.

https://vlix.io/video/8d2722580858573fd081/

I still haven’t cum in 29 days… (one tiny ruin)

this is crazy hot

 

[Boat1]

this is crazy hot

Absolutely!
He's DEFINITELY worth "following!"

 

[loveseethrough]

Absolutely!
He's DEFINITELY worth "following!"

no question!

 

[Maturestepdadd]

Anyone get off on long intense edging sessions that last several weeks or span several sessions or more without cumming?

This thread is for men and women.

Would love to hear your stories of long term edging and orgasm control.

I would like to try it never done it didn't know or learn about it until 5 yrs ago.

 

[Smoothshavendad]

this is crazy hot

Hot as fuck!!! So hard and smooth!

 

[Wonderer67]

You good folks who are on this thread prob know that my wife and I practice orgasm control. I’m a huge fan of it and she likes how attentive and horny it makes me.

Earlier this week, she informed me that she was not gonna let me cum till the end of the month… so while I had a great orgasm last weekend, it was my last one for about four weeks…

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My wife was not quite in the mood for sex this morning, although we talked about it last night, she just wasn’t quite there this morning. So he asked her if I could masturbate and she told me yes.

We have this great masturbation sleeve that goes over the head of her Hitachi vibrator. I’m able to use it and edge and get very close to cumming. It’s crazy how much closer I can get to orgasm with this rather than my hand.

So, we had a nice observed masturbation session, while she watched me masturbate using the sleeve… I went at it for about 25 or 30 minutes coming so close many times.

She said we might do a nice mutual masturbation session tonight before bed… hope so!

 

[9to5]

good luck

 

[stevey42]

Unfortunately I get bored or life gets in the way, so I don't get long edging sessions done any more

 

[Wonderer67]

Unfortunately I get bored or life gets in the way, so I don't get long edging sessions done any more

Everyone’s different.

The main point is to enjoy what we have time wise and sexuality wise!

 

[Boat1]

You good folks who are on this thread prob know that my wife and I practice orgasm control. I’m a huge fan of it and she likes how attentive and horny it makes me.

Earlier this week, she informed me that she was not gonna let me cum till the end of the month… so while I had a great orgasm last weekend, it was my last one for about four weeks…

———

My wife was not quite in the mood for sex this morning, although we talked about it last night, she just wasn’t quite there this morning. So he asked her if I could masturbate and she told me yes.

We have this great masturbation sleeve that goes over the head of her Hitachi vibrator. I’m able to use it and edge and get very close to cumming. It’s crazy how much closer I can get to orgasm with this rather than my hand.

So, we had a nice observed masturbation session, while she watched me masturbate using the sleeve… I went at it for about 25 or 30 minutes coming so close many times.

She said we might do a nice mutual masturbation session tonight before bed… hope so!

I love y'all.... Salt of the earth!

 

[Wonderer67]

We were watching a good basketball game and chatting about our days. My wife told me about a very handsome guy that she worked with today. She owns a gardening business and she was really turned on by a Hispanic man who is a landscaper who was working on the property. She’s super monogamous, but I like that she looks at other men.

It turned me on.

A bit later she mentioned maybe watching me jerk off.

The game went into double overtime.

It was 1030 when we retired. I asked her if she wanted to still watch me jerk off. She said yes.

I put some stretchy cock and ball bands on and started edging for her. I was super hard and turned on being watched by her. I came close and edged and edged for an hour, staving off my orgasm time and time again when I got too close.

Towards the end I asked her to take over, but instead, she used her hitachi on my and told me not to cum. She held the vibrator right on the super sensitive area on the underside. Then she took out her riding crop and lightly spanked me on the balls and underside of my cock. I was soooo close!

She said she will not let me cum this month. It’s been about ten days since I’ve cum so I’m starting to get to “super horny.” She loves me like this and withholding my orgasm for a long period of time.