Yep, totally get it... And I did as well.. For decades... Until, I suddenly and inexplicably didn't. When I started to find myself turned on by it, I asked my wife if I could use it instead of Pussy. ...To my incredible surprise, she said, "Sure, it's just a word - I see no harm.."There are some yes. I hate the C word I just do.
To all the world, my wife would appear to be the LAST person on earth to say 'cunt' when referring to her vagina. So when I hear her use it that way, it's incredibly exciting.
But I get hating it. ..It's harsh.
Sex is weird.