Lost my temper. I HATE that.

So it's okay if I go over there and stir up some more trouble then? ;)
 
Something Abs said in a PM prompted this. I agree with what you said, btw, sweetie.

I decided to post this here, instead of that thread, to try and minimise any embarrassment Savage might feel. I know they are reading this thread anyway, so it really doesn't matter...

I'm just very sad right now. There does actually seem like a nice, caring and likable person, beneath all the bullshit.

Such a shame that Sarahhh got her claws into him. What was it that did it, her beautiful body? It's obvious to all that what goes on inside is incredibly ugly.

His poor wife. I feel so very sorry for her. She is beautiful, and I mean that most sincerely.

It's so easy to type such venomous diatribe from behind the security of a computer screen. I wonder if his lovely wife knows the person he becomes when he posts in that thread?

They can go ahead, do their worst, drag my good name through the mud. It really doesn't bother me. My conscience is clear. I can sleep at night, knowing I lead a fair and decent life.

Can they say the same thing?

I am done with all this crap now. It is achieving nothing.

Lou

P.S. Raphy, good to see you, babe. :rose:

P.P.S. Just for the record, not once have I ever cast a one vote. Why would I? I don't understand those who do - I haven't got that type of mentality.
 
Tatelou said:
Something Abs said in a PM prompted this. I agree with what you said, btw, sweetie.

I decided to post this here, instead of that thread, to try and minimise any embarrassment Savage might feel. I know they are reading this thread anyway, so it really doesn't matter...

I'm just very sad right now. There does actually seem like a nice, caring and likable person, beneath all the bullshit.

Such a shame that Sarahhh got her claws into him. What was it that did it, her beautiful body? It's obvious to all that what goes on inside is incredibly ugly.

His poor wife. I feel so very sorry for her. She is beautiful, and I mean that most sincerely.

It's so easy to type such venomous diatribe from behind the security of a computer screen. I wonder if his lovely wife knows the person he becomes when he posts in that thread?

They can go ahead, do their worst, drag my good name through the mud. It really doesn't bother me. My conscience is clear. I can sleep at night, knowing I lead a fair and decent life.

Can they say the same thing?

I am done with all this crap now. It is achieving nothing.

Lou

P.S. Raphy, good to see you, babe. :rose:

P.P.S. Just for the record, not once have I ever cast a one vote. Why would I? I don't understand those who do - I haven't got that type of mentality.

The important thing about a good name is that it is very difficult to drag it through the mud. More often than not the person doing the dragging comes up covered in filth.

I don't know Sarahh, didn't mention her in my original posting, not sure why she decided to attack me. I do know I read some of Wolf's crap & had to say something.

Your good name and your reputation haven't been dmaged in the least by that thread Lou. If anything, the number of people who felt they had to say something when you & Lauren & coudy were being maligned should show you just where you stand in the respect and admiration of those here who know you. I had no stake in it, beyond feeling I had to speak out in defense of people I admire and care for.

All the nasty words & 1 votes that can be mustered, with all of the malice and spite behind them, cannot do anything to damage you. Your talent is unquestioned & admired. Your beauty, both physically and on the inside are blatant to everyone.

Feel sorry for them if you must, but realize no amount of ugliness can touch you unless you let it. No one here thinks any less of you. Those who choose to attack you are the ones who ostracize themselves from this community. That choice is theirs. Their venom and spite are theirs. When all is weighed in the balance of judgement, the name being villifed isn't yours.

-Colly
 
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Colleen Thomas said:
The important thing about a good name is that it is very difficult to drag it through the mud. More often than not the person doing the dragging comes up covered in filth.

I don't know Sarahh, didn't mention her in my original posting, not sure why she decided to attack me. I do know I read some of Wolf's crap & had to say something.

Your good name and your reputation haven't been dmaged in the least by that thread Lou. If anything, the number of people who felt they had to say something when you & Lauren & coudy were being maligned should show you just where you stand in the respect and admiration of those here who know you. I had no stake in it, beyond feeling I had to speak out in defense of people I admire and care for.

All the nasty words & 1 votes that can be mustered, with all of the malice and spite behind them, cannot do anything to damage you. Your talent is unquestioned & admired. Your beauty, both physically and on the inside are blatant to everyone.

Feel sorry for them if you must, but realize no amount of ugliness can touch you unless you let it. No one here thinks any less of you. Those who choose to attack you are the ones who ostracize themselves from this community. That choice is theirs. Their venom and spite are theirs. When all is weighed in the balance of judgement, the name being villifed isn't yours.

-Colly

I feel much the same Lou does, and it is incredibly sad. I feel that behind all the juvenile posturing, there is a decent person. I hope so anyway.

For Colly, and everyone else who jumped in in defense....I love you guys! Finding this place has truly been a blessing.

:heart:
 
Beautifully put Colly.
I went behind the scenes on Savages's web page. He is really a very family oriented man that has had his share of ups and downs like us all.
I think that's why he maintains a loyalty to sarahhh just as we maintain a loyalty to each other here.
I have no gripes with him eiither and bid him peace.
Hopefully sarahh can put aside her banal witicisms long enough to know that if circumstances where different, anyone of us would rise to the occasion to support her.

I guess the taste of humble pie isn't really all that bitter.
~A~:rose:
 
I think it's sad the way Sarah is not even pretending not to be making fun of him, and knowing he still won't get it. Just sad.
 
Remember that almost everything in this place is both ephemeral and permanent.

Ephemeral because as it slips down the threads it becomes invisible and forgotten:

Permanent because it can always be found on a search of your postings.

It is better not to respond to apparent hatred or a direct attack because it will pass and if you do respond in kind your words will always be there to remind you.

I regret some of the things I've said in the past but I can't delete them. They are still there and hurt, not just the person I intended to argue with, but me as well.

Og
 
oggbashan said:
Remember that almost everything in this place is both ephemeral and permanent.

Ephemeral because as it slips down the threads it becomes invisible and forgotten:

Permanent because it can always be found on a search of your postings.

It is better not to respond to apparent hatred or a direct attack because it will pass and if you do respond in kind your words will always be there to remind you.

I regret some of the things I've said in the past but I can't delete them. They are still there and hurt, not just the person I intended to argue with, but me as well.

Og

Very well put Og. I bow before your wizdom.

:)
 
Lauren Hynde said:
Is there any other way? :)

*blushing* Aw shucks!

Hey People, check out Lauren's new poem! It's fabulous!

Oh almost forgot........Hi Lauren.:D
 
Does this mean we will let the other thread slip away?

I found myself nearly responding in anger today and that made me stop and think. There's nothing to achieve by posting there. No reasonable or logic answer will ever come back.

I think it would be more dignified to let it go. Even Mismused, who started the thread has long bowed out because of the mud flying.

Mother Superior has spoken, amen.

:D
 
To quote the little lady in Poltergiest..........
"That thread is clean":cool:
 
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