male new to pegging

[MrMrsSexy]

My wife and I are newly married and doing alot of experimenting..or at least alot of talking about experimenting. We have bee ndoing alot of talking about using a strap on and we are both very excited. First, let me give you some background. I have been very adventurous throughout the years while she hasn't had too much experience sexually. I"m bi and have been with guys before but the one thing that always eluded me was being fucked by another guy. I've used butt plugs, some smaller dildos, random toys but never a guy or a woman with a strap on. Now on the other hand, even though she is not as experienced as I, she has used a strap on with guys a few times. She has the experience but I don't. My dilemma is this...

I want everything to go smoothly and without incident. I have seen the strap on she bought and it is a beginner size but Iwant to be as prepared as possible. Does anyone have any advice on the matter from a fuckees perspective lol? I mean from relaxation to hygiene. This is something we both enjoy fantasizing about and would like to do pretty often. Thanks

 

[bailadora]

Strap-ons aren't something that are utilized in my household, so I can't offer you advice based on personal experience. That said, I did want to direct you to this post in the Blank Manual (stickied at the top of the HT forum).

If you haven't already, I'd advise you and the Mrs. to take a look around there when you have some time. Lots of good advice there regarding a variety of topics.

Welcome to Lit.

 

[saskatuna1]

I would say just use lots of lube, go slowly, start with smaller things like fingers and plugs until you get reasonably close to the size of the dildo, and then go for it.

In my experience, it pays to be patient enough to realize you might not actually get to the honest-to-goodness fucking the first time around, and that's alright. You'll get there soon enough.

 

[artoo93]

Practice makes perfect!!!!