Male subs. . .

[DirtyPet]

I agree totally weakness does not necessarily equal submissiveness or vice versa. That's interesting that the Dom's wanted you to Dom them that easily. If you had to truly describe yourself - are you Dominant or submissive?

I have Dominant submissive in my profile..I get asked alot what that means and the easiest way is a Dominant with submissive tendencies but I need to be properly inspired lol..So most of the time I will say Switch but I've noticed most switches are equally comfortable in either role..I am not.

 

[Etoile]

Bwahahaha. Anybody who thinks SW is an asshole needs to get their head checked.

 

[Sir_Winston54]

Bwahahaha. Anybody who thinks SW is an asshole needs to get their head checked.

:: checking head ::

 

[Homburg]

Never seen her in an SM shot, have you?

In her solo pics, my brain translates the image into something she's not. I can't help it; it just does. I'm already on record noting how much this fucks with my head.

Seen solo pics, pics where she is tied, pics where she is tying, etc. It's all good stuff.

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You're kind of a cool dude, Homburg.

That's kind of a compliment. Thank you, mostly.

 

[Herefornow]

I have Dominant submissive in my profile..I get asked alot what that means and the easiest way is a Dominant with submissive tendencies but I need to be properly inspired lol..So most of the time I will say Switch but I've noticed most switches are equally comfortable in either role..I am not.

Ok I think I understand. I would think your admission of that description is somewhat unique but as a matter of fact, more true than most Dominants would admit.

 

[Stella_Omega]

Ok I think I understand. I would think your admission of that description is somewhat unique but as a matter of fact, more true than most Dominants would admit.

I've always said;
Bottoms top as soon as they learn they can-- Tops bottom whenever they get the chance."
( pissed off some tops by saying it, I admit)

 

[NomadLady]

Your av is hilarious, smotherman. The irony is intentional - yes?

I hope so but his pics are HOT HOT HOT!!!!!!!

 

[00Syd]

I'm a female sub, and I don't think I have much of a toppy bone in my body, so I don't know quite why this is, but seeing pretty men with tortured looks on their faces, bound, gagged, face to the floor, in pain, etc., to be incredibly, astoundingly sexy. Photos of women in similar situations? Meh.

 

[BiBunny]

I'm a female sub, and I don't think I have much of a toppy bone in my body, so I don't know quite why this is, but seeing pretty men with tortured looks on their faces, bound, gagged, face to the floor, in pain, etc., to be incredibly, astoundingly sexy. Photos of women in similar situations? Meh.

I think it's called being heterosexual.

 

[Herefornow]

I think it's called being heterosexual.

always an obvious answer for a probing question

 

[00Syd]

I think it's called being heterosexual.

Well, yeah, but why would I be so into the D/s part of it? I don't know, it's always seemed weird to me.

 

[FungiUg]

I'm a hetero dominant male. I don't find pictures of men in bondage disturbing, although they are not to my taste. Where the squick factor comes in for me is for things like genital torture (of either gender). I know some people get off on that, which is fine, it's not for me and I move on.

That's part of dealing with BDSM: it's such a big umbrella for a lot of different fetishes and sexual behaivours that you run into stuff that doesn't appeal. Adults wearing nappies? Not so much. Etc, etc.

Sadly, learn to deal with it. People who are into stuff you're not are still fun to hang out and talk to. At least, that's what I have found.

 

[FungiUg]

I've always said;
Bottoms top as soon as they learn they can-- Tops bottom whenever they get the chance."
( pissed off some tops by saying it, I admit)

I give me my vote at being the world's worst bottom. I really really suck at it. I'm whiney and sarcastic and totally uncooperative and don't enjoy it at all.

I think I'll stick to topping.

 

[Winter_of_62]

This is more in line with where I am. I'm het, but what I dig is the power. I've found erotic beauty in M/f, F/m, F/f, and, yes, M/m. It's the portrayal of power that I dig, and the right emotional vibe in a photo will interest me regardless of the actual participants.

Then again, I tend to look on photos of that sort from an erotic standpoint, not wank material, so maybe my perspective is different. Power is my thing, not male power or female powerlessness. Just power.

And to poke at some of the Mdoms here, who among us hasn't enjoyed Netzach's photos? She's done some brilliant stuff, and I know I've certainly dug it.

I agree with this - it is all about the Power Exchange!

Winter

 

[Stella_Omega]

Well, yeah, but why would I be so into the D/s part of it? I don't know, it's always seemed weird to me.

That's just another note in the symphony that is your identity, darling!

 

[Homburg]

I'm a hetero dominant male. I don't find pictures of men in bondage disturbing, although they are not to my taste. Where the squick factor comes in for me is for things like genital torture (of either gender). I know some people get off on that, which is fine, it's not for me and I move on.

I'm the same way about genital torture porn. Not my thing, regardless of flavour.

 

[00Syd]

That's just another note in the symphony that is your identity, darling!

Word. I just can't get enough of those very pretty, very tortured men. I wish there was more good F/m porn. You know, more than just boot licking and worship and stuff. I wish InsexM was still around

 

[4bidnfruit]

I consider myself hetro but I'd prefer to see women in bondage, especially when there is a sexy man in the picture viewing his work or taking advantage of the situation. When i see men in bondage it is a total turn off. In my mind, i see weakness (even if that isn't the case). I am not submissive but I do enjoy my man taking control.

 

[Stella_Omega]

I consider myself hetro but I'd prefer to see women in bondage, especially when there is a sexy man in the picture viewing his work or taking advantage of the situation. When i see men in bondage it is a total turn off. In my mind, i see weakness (even if that isn't the case). I am not submissive but I do enjoy my man taking control.

Yes, exactly-- and that's what the OP sees as well, when he wants to see women as the ones in control. You've hit the nail on the head.

M, I love the site devicebondage.com (HHHHAAAAAARRRRRDDDDD core female bondage, forced orgasms and stuff). They really display their bottoms beautifully, and to me it always looks like a celebration of strength. In the text they talk about how tough and resilient their women are, in such contrast to some of the other sites I've seen.

Recently they began a F/m site, meninpain -- it's getting going, but I wish they would use the kinds of bondage situations for the men more often, as they use for the women. I would like to see men stretched out like that.

 

[satindesire]

I think we scared him off.

/off topic/

I got two new pairs of shoes today! *dances*

 

[infinity706]

I think we scared him off.

/off topic/

I got two new pairs of shoes today! *dances*

I don't even own 2 pairs of shoes. Congrats, though.

 

[FungiUg]

I got two new pairs of shoes today! *dances*

Now all you need are the male subs to dance over!

 

[satindesire]

I don't even own 2 pairs of shoes. Congrats, though.

At last count, I now own 20 pairs of shoes!

Now all you need are the male subs to dance over!

For the 1% of Top in me, that sounds like a lot of fun. I especially think they'd like my cute new boots.

 

[NomadLady]

Word. I just can't get enough of those very pretty, very tortured men. I wish there was more good F/m porn. You know, more than just boot licking and worship and stuff. I wish InsexM was still around

I'm glad I'm not the only one who gets a little tired of the boot licking stuff...

 

[Homburg]

Didn't much care for female genital torture either till I tried it out on my wife.

Fun, but not porn worthy.

Oh, I don't have a problem with the act, just don't care for the pictures.