Male subs. . .

[Netzach]

Word. I just can't get enough of those very pretty, very tortured men. I wish there was more good F/m porn. You know, more than just boot licking and worship and stuff. I wish InsexM was still around

Liability, cherie.

Men with bevvies of babes have more money and lawyers to throw down the shitter. A little indie like me sticks to boot licking at most, and mostly showing off my prodigious butt.

 

[Netzach]

Seen solo pics, pics where she is tied, pics where she is tying, etc. It's all good stuff.

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Correction: pics where she has tied herself.

 

[Netzach]

For the record, I personally find some girl-on-bottom stuff to be "ew, triggering." Some to be hot. Most to be fucking DULL. I'm kind of an "I'll watch anyone doing anything" person, but I get really bored with the assumption that SM is embodied by some naked chick on a leash and some ungroomed schmuck on the other end, the end. Attractive is attactive is attractive though, see the old "black and white" threads for stuff that works for me.

However I've also seen some dude on bottom stuff that I find "ew triggering" much as I like pretty boys suffering badly on film. With both men and women being mean to them, usually in ways that involve what I consider "too much blood" (I like some and there's diminishing returns on it)

I'm not a good person to ask this question because hot/not is really unmoored from gender for me. I just know certain things aren't and certain things are. Sometimes the most boilerplate hetero stuff can totally work, sometimes the gayest of gay media that *should* get me going on paper is "meh."

I would really like a site that was all tranny Dommes with attractive bio girl bottoms, if I could vote on "most underserved niche that would be hot". I am not holding my breath.

It's just how smut works. Some of it will probably gross you out. Don't look at it.

H, as a sample, is fine with F/f bondage material and identifies with the fembottom in this case. He'd probably be OK with some M/f too but the more aesthetically pleasing bondage, even if it's rough (the kink.com sites JUST skirt this kind of thing - Gwen Media does some "absent master" storylines that aren't too obnoxious.) What doesn't work for him is that very amateur hetero another rough fucking oh whee stuff, nor does it work that well for me.

I don't really care if it's guy/girl, but there's a Dominant energy that is usually tied to being femme and it's the "I'm here to torture you, if you want to fuck someone fuck the cabbie on your way home" denial-based kind of stuff, and once in a great while I will find a dude doing it to a woman and that is the hotness. If it's just "and then I tied her up and stuck huge penis things in her!" I'm bored already.

 

[Stella_Omega]

If it's just "and then I tied her up and stuck huge penis things in her!" I'm bored already.

You win.

 

[YourCaptor]

Male dom, but I understand it. I don't feel it but I get it.

 

[Corruptible]

Do you find photos of women in bondage or being sexually abused distressing? I do, I understand a lot of people like that sort of image, but I do wish we could find a way to keep male dom and Fem dom photos and themes separate. That's why I've been a member for so long but only have a few posts.

After a bit, my nerves are on edge and I can't come back here without a long rest.

I might get bored with it, with either M/f or F/m (or M/m or F/f for that matter) but no, not disturbed. I'm wired a bit differently. I don't attach dominance or submission to gender (or attraction). It's all about the power of the exchange, the control, for me. If that's not there, then I'm just, bored.

I'm a male submissive. I understand why it might disturb you to see a woman in bondage, to see her submitting, when women are your ideal for Dominants. Personally, I attach those feelings to an individual, to the woman I'm submissive to, not the gender as a whole. And, even then, if she's submissive to someone I know she trusts, that she in turn has gotten me to trust, someone I also feel submissive toward, it's not an issue.

I know the line of thinking you're applying here, or at least, the line of thinking I'd apply in the same situation. You'd feel the need to protect her (I'd consider that inherent in being male; it's certainly a gut reaction for me) and seeing her like that, seeing your ideal of a Dominant in what on the surface appears to be a harmful situation is not easy. Compare it to your own submission, I suppose. Submitting doesn't make you weak. A Domme choosing to submit would not be weak either or any less of a Domme (broad general statement, devils in the details could change that).

As to images online, pick your poison. It's easy enough to just choose to not view the images that disturb/don't arouse you.

I don't honestly understand male subs that choose to submit to the female gender as a whole, that is, they choose to consider themselves lower than any woman, even their fellow submissives. I apologize if I'm misreading you, but that seems to be the case, that you'd put every woman above you and then to see someone else above her... disturbing for you.

I know. He's probably gone by now. Let me ramble in peace.