Married and Cheating Statistics

[Blackbird93]

I have never physically cheated, but I would say that I have had a couple of experiences where I became closer to friends than I needed to and found out they were as sexually repressed and kinky as I am. We would end up sharing pics and talking about our experiences, but I'd come to my senses once any actual talk of hooking up started. I genuinely love my wife and know I would not find the love and trust I have in her with another woman, but I know her struggles with showing me the level of desire and sexual passion I try to show her makes it tempting when another woman starts showing me that attention.

 

[Ed_Sumner]

I came across a few interesting stats on cheating in marriages and thought I would pass them along for discussion and responses.
44% of women said it was with someone their husband knew.
The top cheating occurrence was Business trips.
The percentage of affairs that begin at work: 60%
Up to 60% of all spouses will take part in some form of infidelity at least once during their marriage.
56% of men who have affairs claim to be happy in their marriages.
Women and men cheat at the same rate within a marriage, although the reasons why women cheat are very different from the reasons that men cheat.
34% of women who had affairs claimed to be happy or very happy in their marriages
The most common reason why a woman cheats on her spouse: emotional satisfaction.
Men [74%] and women [68%] say that they would have an affair if they knew that they wouldn’t be caught.
17% of cheating spouses have an affair with one of their in-laws.
The percentage of cheating spouses who have a fling while on a business trip: 35%.

I sure as fuck can vouch for the stats on business trip cheating. It's so tempting, easy, and low-risk for the cheater. The non-traveling spouse like me, at home minding the kids, can be clueless for years. A decade even.

 

[Beth_Anne90]

Statistics and polls are so unreliable. At least that's what statistics show!

 

[saintcero]

What kind of things?

she won’t do oral of any kind with me but at one point said she gave him a blowjob. She now denies that. She is so tight lipped about any details of her tryst that I wonder if she gave up her butt to him. I have never even got a fingertip in her ass. My imagination fuels this suspicion more than anything. It just seems like the most plausible reason for keeping things to herself and being inconsistent with her story. For example, she says they didn’t fuck but she went to get tested for STDs. Why?

 

[Roadratt]

This is a subject that I have pondered for so many years.Im happy married and love my wife so much but don’t want to die not having experienced some sexual desires.
First post new to the platform

 

[MarsterKevin]

So on a thread about cheating stats. You posted a fantasy of yours SMH!

That’s not a f*

So on a thread about cheating stats. You posted a fantasy of yours SMH!

why would I lie ????

 

[cockford]

I sure as fuck can vouch for the stats on business trip cheating. It's so tempting, easy, and low-risk for the cheater. The non-traveling spouse like me, at home minding the kids, can be clueless for years. A decade even.

I think my wife was genuinely surprised that i hadn’t ever cheated on a business trip. She on the other hand, was playing while i was away…

 

[lifeis2short2b]

That’s not a f*


why would I lie ????

Why would any guy lie about there sexual endeavors?

 

[JuanVato]

As a woman who has affairs, I cheat because of a lot of reasons. I stopped being seen as a woman, in my marriage. I became a maid, cook, personal shopper and all the tiny things women do that get so taken advantage of. I was a self cleaning masturbation tool for my husband. We haven’t kissed in over a decade. It was “take your panties off, we are having sex” as foreplay. Or just locking the door and putting on a porn. I told him no, but it was hell in my house after, think toddler getting wrong sippy cup tantrum, until I gave in. Now, I use toys to cum, turn around and let him have doggy, so I don’t have to look at him.

He’s also extremely controlling and manipulative. I know, why don’t I just leave? He turned my kids against me when I tried. He has stated he would spend every penny we have in court rather than me see a dime, after being a housewife and sahm for 16 years. I am scared to leave. I have been working but the jobs I have pay awful and the hours are worse.

Affairs, emotional and sexual, I feel seen, beautiful, sexy, desired. I feel wanted. That is what I needed.

Yes
What you posted.

 

[000777]

I sure as fuck can vouch for the stats on business trip cheating. It's so tempting, easy, and low-risk for the cheater. The non-traveling spouse like me, at home minding the kids, can be clueless for years. A decade even.

Yeah, I totally agree and I experienced that.

 

[HotflixLust]

Two weeks ago my wife went to her business conference in a different city with mostly her male colleagues and she had been naughty

 

[000777]

Two weeks ago my wife went to her business conference in a different city with mostly her male colleagues and she had been naughty

Care to share any details?

 

[HotflixLust]

Care to share any details?

She face timed me at night and she was quite drunk and was dancing in a night club very provocatively almost grinding against a guy who was her coworker. Her sequen dress was almost close to her ass, I felt a jolt of jealousy yet arousal.

 

[Ed_Sumner]

Yeah, I totally agree and I experienced that.

As the cheater, or the cheatee?

 

[000777]

She face timed me at night and she was quite drunk and was dancing in a night club very provocatively almost grinding against a guy who was her coworker. Her sequen dress was almost close to her ass, I felt a jolt of jealousy yet arousal.

Anything happen beyond that?

 

[000777]

As the cheater, or the cheatee?

I was the cheatee. My wife and her boss on a business trip.

 

[HotflixLust]

Anything happen beyond that?

DM to know more

 

[Ed_Sumner]

I was the cheatee. My wife and her boss on a business trip.

Hot. How did you find out? Happy to take this to DM land if you'd rather discusd in po private.

 

[sexfest2016]

As a woman who has affairs, I cheat because of a lot of reasons. I stopped being seen as a woman, in my marriage. I became a maid, cook, personal shopper and all the tiny things women do that get so taken advantage of. I was a self cleaning masturbation tool for my husband. We haven’t kissed in over a decade. It was “take your panties off, we are having sex” as foreplay. Or just locking the door and putting on a porn. I told him no, but it was hell in my house after, think toddler getting wrong sippy cup tantrum, until I gave in. Now, I use toys to cum, turn around and let him have doggy, so I don’t have to look at him.

He’s also extremely controlling and manipulative. I know, why don’t I just leave? He turned my kids against me when I tried. He has stated he would spend every penny we have in court rather than me see a dime, after being a housewife and sahm for 16 years. I am scared to leave. I have been working but the jobs I have pay awful and the hours are worse.

Affairs, emotional and sexual, I feel seen, beautiful, sexy, desired. I feel wanted. That is what I needed.

My sister was in the same situation, but in a 38 year marriage. Sux. I’m sorry. DM me if you’d like to talk…

 

[000777]

Hot. How did you find out? Happy to take this to DM land if you'd rather discusd in po private.

It was a couple years when we were at her company holiday party. I happened to catch her boss and a coworker being very cozy and handsy with her. They were off by themselves sitting together and I watched them play with her. I didn't say anything at the party but later when we got home I did and she confessed that she had sex with them several times.