married couple wanting a threesome

[sehenry10]

Hi every,

My wife and I have decided we would like to have a MMF threesome. She really gets turned on and has huge orgasms when I describe them during sex and she. Has made it clear she would be interested.

Now here's the kicker. She gets the most turned by the thought of being seduced into one.

Any ideas on how? I have brought up scenarios with strip poker and a friend but I still need more ideas on how 2 guys can plan a seduction scenario.

Any ideas?

 

[coastal-boy]

a hot tub and 3 bottles of good wine

 

[roomfor1more]

There is a difference between talking about a threesome in the "heat of the moment" and having the discussion outside of the bedroom. This means just because the idea brings her to orgasm does not necessarily mean she is willing to go through with it. Before setting up a threesome where she is seduced into it, a good idea would be talking with her outside of the bedroom. By talking to her outside of the bedroom you can discuss likely scenarios, the type of person to invite, boundaries, and any other issues that may come up. Also, it will help to prevent any misunderstandings about her intentions thereby minimizing the potential for conflict that could damage your relationship with her. If after talking with her she is open to the the idea then you will have a better idea of how to set it up and finding a willing male will be relatively easy for you. Finally you may want to search this site as there are a lot of good resources on how to have a threesome and stories that can give you some ideas.

 

[BertrandRussell]

a hot tub and 3 bottles of good wine

..and condoms.

 

[tomwantstosee]

Hello,
we had the same idea- have a look at the thread "threesome". Maybe you get some good advice there. I thought some of the comments very helpful and thoughtful.
Where are you based?

 

[NomadLady]

Great advice here and talking outside of the "heat of the moment" is the most important thing. You seem to want this to be a wonderfully pleasureable experience for her and I would hate for her to back out at the last minute and leave you all wondering WTF happened????

Also, how do you feel about sharing your wife with another man?

 

[subwannabe]

Like the others said. If she is still interested, I would personally think she would rather actually be "seduced" rather than gotten drunk and taken advantage of or playing strip poker. Maybe you could all go out somewhere like dinner or a bar or both or something and then the two men could kind of cozy up to her and whisper sweet nothings into her ear, like talking about a threesome or maybe going home to play strip poker. Sometimes the chase or being chased is even more exciting than just downing some booze and getting it on.

 

[stockman35]

How about getting a "foursome together" first. With two couples together, either in a hotel room or at a secluded beach, you get to visualize your options. Does she really feel comfortable with another guy's hands rubbing her tits? It might help to get that small step out of the way first.

 

[sehenry10]

We live in central oregon...dead center of oregon. Yes I love my wife very much and this is going to be a long planned out process. How do I feel about another guy touching her? As long as I am there I have no problems. I know I'm the one she wants to spend her life with. I also know how turned on she gets talking about it. Another couple would be great also but central oregon is not a large area. I have thought about a trip to vegas though and maybe plan something with that. She has made it clear she would like to be seduced into it. She gets really turned on being lightly drunk but she isn't sure how she would feel with another woman although she loves couples together in porn. Neither of us are what you would call beautiful people but do have very good attitudes and we love trying new things sexually

 

[heljosef]

... let her flirt on internet, after some time pick up two males, let her have her first MFM with them and then take part on the game.

Perhaps this way it is rather a theme for literotica story but i think it could work...