Men, What are you looking for? Honestly
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Magic Merlin
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She must have a heart that is caring and kind, in its truest sense.
A dry witty sense of humour that compliments mine.
Demands my honesty in all matters and appreciates me for it.
Appreciates me when I'm acting silly, yet knows that this is only one part of me.
Knows that I love to make her smile
Is comfortable with an abundance of affection.
A brilliant and sharp mind, one that is able to keep me on my toes.
Will never seek to control me, yet know that one of my greatest joys is doing for her.
When she needs to know I love her, all she has to do is look in my eyes. Even in a noisy crowded room, she will be able to see in my heart.
Wants a true friend in life, not only a lover. Someone that will share life, and not just be a part of it.
Confidence in herself. Able to stand up to me when she believes I am wrong, even if I don't think I am
Eyes that are warm and loving. When I get excitable, she will know that a look or glance from her will calm me down and bring back to my center.
And most importantly, when those moments arise where disagreements do occur (and they always do), she will be able to see in my eyes that I love her and that we will get through this.
And knows she is the only one for me...
[Edited by Magic Merlin on 09-04-2000 at 06:12 AM]
A dry witty sense of humour that compliments mine.
Demands my honesty in all matters and appreciates me for it.
Appreciates me when I'm acting silly, yet knows that this is only one part of me.
Knows that I love to make her smile
Is comfortable with an abundance of affection.
A brilliant and sharp mind, one that is able to keep me on my toes.
Will never seek to control me, yet know that one of my greatest joys is doing for her.
When she needs to know I love her, all she has to do is look in my eyes. Even in a noisy crowded room, she will be able to see in my heart.
Wants a true friend in life, not only a lover. Someone that will share life, and not just be a part of it.
Confidence in herself. Able to stand up to me when she believes I am wrong, even if I don't think I am
Eyes that are warm and loving. When I get excitable, she will know that a look or glance from her will calm me down and bring back to my center.
And most importantly, when those moments arise where disagreements do occur (and they always do), she will be able to see in my eyes that I love her and that we will get through this.
And knows she is the only one for me...
[Edited by Magic Merlin on 09-04-2000 at 06:12 AM]
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MM you do know what you are looking for and don't you dare give up until you find it. You are a cool dude and deserve someone who can challenge you and love you at the same time.
Wizzie, No you didn't do anything wrong, I am just wondering what other people want. I have found what I want it is important to know what the others want too.
And Siren I just don't know what to say to you.LOL.
Xander we know you have found what you are looking for and we are all glad for you.
Please let me know of the others like dudley he seems to know what he wants too so don't stop now this is important to everyone. It can make or break a truly good relationship if you settle for less than you want.
Wizzie, No you didn't do anything wrong, I am just wondering what other people want. I have found what I want it is important to know what the others want too.
And Siren I just don't know what to say to you.LOL.
Xander we know you have found what you are looking for and we are all glad for you.
Please let me know of the others like dudley he seems to know what he wants too so don't stop now this is important to everyone. It can make or break a truly good relationship if you settle for less than you want.
what a man really wants.
What a man wants changes with every woman. Sometimes he looks for a mother, a friend, or a confidant. Other times he looks for his intellectual equal, or his model of idealistic beauty. Most of the time he is looking for someone who he is physically attracted to and turned on by.
When a secure man is choosing his life long mate though...he is searching for someone who makes him whole, who is strong where is weak, and who he believes or at least hopes that he will never grow tired of making love to. If that man is a natural cheater though, he will look for someone smart enough to intrigue him every day yet dumb enough not to catch him in his lies.
AND THATS MY FINAL ANSWER.
What a man wants changes with every woman. Sometimes he looks for a mother, a friend, or a confidant. Other times he looks for his intellectual equal, or his model of idealistic beauty. Most of the time he is looking for someone who he is physically attracted to and turned on by.
When a secure man is choosing his life long mate though...he is searching for someone who makes him whole, who is strong where is weak, and who he believes or at least hopes that he will never grow tired of making love to. If that man is a natural cheater though, he will look for someone smart enough to intrigue him every day yet dumb enough not to catch him in his lies.
AND THATS MY FINAL ANSWER.
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Where the fuck did dee_cole come from he disappeared a while before i started but Angelique gave me the gist of things!!
I have always wanted to say this....
Ahh Naked Hunny, I SEE THAT MY REPUTATION PRECEDES ME....
I never knew when I would get a chance to say that. Naked my dear I hope that you've heard all good things about me. Of course you know that there was a dee-cole impersonator on the BB for a while. It was strange because even though he had guest under his name people seemed to hold me accountable for his misgivings. I had long before instituted a truce. But enough about me....What do you think about me? Smile...Baby.
Ahh Naked Hunny, I SEE THAT MY REPUTATION PRECEDES ME....
I never knew when I would get a chance to say that. Naked my dear I hope that you've heard all good things about me. Of course you know that there was a dee-cole impersonator on the BB for a while. It was strange because even though he had guest under his name people seemed to hold me accountable for his misgivings. I had long before instituted a truce. But enough about me....What do you think about me? Smile...Baby.
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As KillerMuffin stated in one thread im nice to everyone till you piss me off!! At that point KillerMuffin is ready to kick your ass!!!
Is that supposed to be a friendly greeting
I have been on vacation for a month and is this how you greet someone whom you havent seen in a long time or never met. It sounds as if you are either waiting for or expecting me to piss you off. Don't be so defensive.
I'll try it again...Hello how are you today? Hows your daughter? I am fine just doing a little laundry in sunny Washington DC.
I have been on vacation for a month and is this how you greet someone whom you havent seen in a long time or never met. It sounds as if you are either waiting for or expecting me to piss you off. Don't be so defensive.
I'll try it again...Hello how are you today? Hows your daughter? I am fine just doing a little laundry in sunny Washington DC.
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im gonna forget you got nasty with me and say hello do it again and im calling in Muff!!
wolfie69
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a woman for me
Well ladies the woman for me has to be someone who is secure within herself. I must be physically and emotionally attracted. I have been in a few relationships where one of the two was not there and they do not work.
Now as far as physically attractive....I have been with many women, many of which did not share any resemblence to one another. I guess what I am trying to say is that I have no ideal "body type". It could be one womans eyes, anothers lips or hair... the way she walks ect....
A sense of humor is a must! I cannot live without laughing. I need to be able to trust and be secure with the woman I am with. I don't want to be wondering if she really wants to be with me or that guy across the room.
Unfortunately, the two times I found what I thought was the ideal woman, after a time neither turned out to be. So ladies I am still searching!
Well ladies the woman for me has to be someone who is secure within herself. I must be physically and emotionally attracted. I have been in a few relationships where one of the two was not there and they do not work.
Now as far as physically attractive....I have been with many women, many of which did not share any resemblence to one another. I guess what I am trying to say is that I have no ideal "body type". It could be one womans eyes, anothers lips or hair... the way she walks ect....
A sense of humor is a must! I cannot live without laughing. I need to be able to trust and be secure with the woman I am with. I don't want to be wondering if she really wants to be with me or that guy across the room.
Unfortunately, the two times I found what I thought was the ideal woman, after a time neither turned out to be. So ladies I am still searching!
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Brilliance... love and trust. And of course putting up with me.
Da chef
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KillerMuffin
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*grinz toothily at Nekkie* I'm here for ya babe.
Well so far I'm oh for uh, one two three, hell all you guys.
I shoulda known I'd not be attractive to men since I never fullfilled all the requirements of the List
to wit:
"You will have long blonde hair, big green eyes, world class breasts, ass that won't quit and legs that go aaaaaaaalllllllll the way!"
And if you know where that came from and could even name whom it describes, well you probably have too much free time.
Oh well, my truck adores the heckins outta me.
Well so far I'm oh for uh, one two three, hell all you guys.
I shoulda known I'd not be attractive to men since I never fullfilled all the requirements of the List
to wit:
"You will have long blonde hair, big green eyes, world class breasts, ass that won't quit and legs that go aaaaaaaalllllllll the way!"
And if you know where that came from and could even name whom it describes, well you probably have too much free time.
Oh well, my truck adores the heckins outta me.
Svedish_Chef
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Does that mean you couldn't put up with me miss muff?
OK, here's what I want.
1. A big, kind, beautiful heart. Someone who loves children and animals and who doesn't have a mean bone in her body.
2. A sweet personality. Someone who makes me laugh and who I can make laugh. Someone who I can connect with without even trying, where there is never a dull moment. Someone I can be myself with, without holding back at all.
3. Someone who loves and respects me as much as I love and respect her. Someone who misses me when I'm gone.
4. Someone who would never cheat on me, or hurt me in any way. Someone I know I can trust because she just doesn't have it in her to hurt me.
5. Someone who I can share everything with without any inhibitions or fear of persecution. Whether it be dreams, fantasies, desires, likes, dislikes... everything.
6. Someone who makes me be a better person.
7. Someone who is not afraid to be a little vulnerable so that I can be there for them. I love helping people. It's in my nature to try and lift peoples spirits in any way I can. If they let me get close enough to be able to do that when they need it, that is really attractive and important to me.
8. Someone who believes in me without reservation.
9. Someone who won't judge my faults and label me.
10. Someone who will hold me when I'm sad. Someone who will stick by me in the good times and the bad. Someone who will go out of her way just to show me she cares.
11. Someone I can do stuff with. Someone with a lust for life - who doesn't put much emphasis on make up, and is more geared towards "living" life than watching it.
12. Someone who likes her sex and is not afraid to put all her heart and soul into it.
It should never be dull.
13. Someone "attractive" - but my tastes vary. I'm a face man. I prefer cute to hot, but hot is good, and if the girl meets the above criterior or comes close, looks are just the icing on the cake.
Physically, I guess I prefer brunettes in the 5ft 3 to 5 ft 9 range. But I love blondes just as much. I just have a thing for brunettes at the moment. I prefer curvy women to skinny ones - and by that I mean I like sensual lines (like Laetita Casta or Catherine Zeta Jones).
I guess that's asking a lot, but that's my ideal. Any girl who can give me anything like that is definately my type.
MADDOG
1. A big, kind, beautiful heart. Someone who loves children and animals and who doesn't have a mean bone in her body.
2. A sweet personality. Someone who makes me laugh and who I can make laugh. Someone who I can connect with without even trying, where there is never a dull moment. Someone I can be myself with, without holding back at all.
3. Someone who loves and respects me as much as I love and respect her. Someone who misses me when I'm gone.
4. Someone who would never cheat on me, or hurt me in any way. Someone I know I can trust because she just doesn't have it in her to hurt me.
5. Someone who I can share everything with without any inhibitions or fear of persecution. Whether it be dreams, fantasies, desires, likes, dislikes... everything.
6. Someone who makes me be a better person.
7. Someone who is not afraid to be a little vulnerable so that I can be there for them. I love helping people. It's in my nature to try and lift peoples spirits in any way I can. If they let me get close enough to be able to do that when they need it, that is really attractive and important to me.
8. Someone who believes in me without reservation.
9. Someone who won't judge my faults and label me.
10. Someone who will hold me when I'm sad. Someone who will stick by me in the good times and the bad. Someone who will go out of her way just to show me she cares.
11. Someone I can do stuff with. Someone with a lust for life - who doesn't put much emphasis on make up, and is more geared towards "living" life than watching it.
12. Someone who likes her sex and is not afraid to put all her heart and soul into it.
It should never be dull.13. Someone "attractive" - but my tastes vary. I'm a face man. I prefer cute to hot, but hot is good, and if the girl meets the above criterior or comes close, looks are just the icing on the cake.
Physically, I guess I prefer brunettes in the 5ft 3 to 5 ft 9 range. But I love blondes just as much. I just have a thing for brunettes at the moment.
I prefer curvy women to skinny ones - and by that I mean I like sensual lines (like Laetita Casta or Catherine Zeta Jones). I guess that's asking a lot, but that's my ideal. Any girl who can give me anything like that is definately my type.
MADDOG
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*Starts tossing books, clothes, critters, movies, spare auto parts, transmission, the shifter kit, the NP203, the four cases of 10w40 she got on sale, the Mickey Thompsons she hasn't gotten rims for yet into boxes. UPS guy'll be here in 20 minutes. Calls the shop to see if the drive shaft is ready or if it can be forwarded to Victoria, Australia when it's done. Emails live plants and contents of the fridge down under.*
The question isn't can I put up wif da Chef, its can da Chef put up with me
The question isn't can I put up wif da Chef, its can da Chef put up with me
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Babe I got a drive shaft... all that car talk! So which car are you sending out for the backseat expeditions, babe?
