MM sex what is your preference
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Number 1 is a huge turn on for me, I always love a nice thick cock to fill me up with cum, whether it be my asshole getting stuffed or my throat getting fucked. I'm not so much for the kissing and massaging part unless I'm really into the person.
I save the passion for the ladies.
I save the passion for the ladies.
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i always fantasize about kissing and touching and stuff like that...never anal. that might change if i ever actually get with a guy. 
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I only like to cuddle with my wife, but I enjoy kissing a handsome, clean-shaven guy because seeing me do that drives her nuts.
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dashd said:
I too am bi-curious. I've touched only 1 cock and loved it.
For me its #1 - Just the sex.
From the people I've talked to guys that are more into women would answer #1 but guys that are more into guys would answer #2.
Don't kill the messenger...
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Just into the sex part here. JO, oral, maybe give anal on a special occasion.
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with a guy it would be just #1, just the sex.
with a girl it would be both.
with a girl it would be both.
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I'd definitely want both in a relationship, although kissing and romance would have to come before the sex. On the other hand, I could enjoy no-frills sex if I knew and trusted the person and we had agreed on just getting off together.
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Kissing and romance with my partner are always a part of it, with others it's just sex. Still it can be hot sex, but never the same as with my partner.
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hollyu said:
its so funny how about 99% of bi & curious guys feel the same way.
In my opinion this is the main difference between being bi (or curious) and gay. Bimen are just about the cock and gaymen are into the kissing & cuddling.
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RowanMist said:
are you married?
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south_florida_bicur said:
I don't think that's true at all. I'm most definitely bi and I've been with guys were it was just about the sex and others where I got the whole deal, for me it just depends on what kind of sex I want to have.
The same goes for having sex with woman, sometimes I want to be all cuddly and sometimes I just want the sex
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Ferion said:
like I said before I think most (not all) bi guys think this way. The guys (bi or gay) that are more into other men normally are into the hugging & kissing.
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depends
When I was first finding my gay/bi side, I really only wanted the sex, and I was that way for a long time. It was a lot harder for me to kiss my male lover than it was to have sex with him...and since he was gay himself and was very turned on by romance, he was really frustrated by this, but he didn't want to say anything because I so totally turned him on (and I do-- I know that all I have to do is be in the room with him and he gets hard).
But finally he admitted to me that he missed the cuddling and kissing. So for his birthday, I obliged him. It was a little strange at first, but with the same degree of adventure that brought me to try men in the first place, I just let go and did it. What I discovered was that kissing was very arousing as foreplay with him, just as it always was with my women lovers. It turned him on so much-- he had whole other levels of arousal past his rock-hard cock-- that it was a pleasure to do this, and gradually it became a regular part of what we did, and sometimes when we couldn't have sex, we could kiss and cuddle and it reminded me of what was good about what we have.
We've been friends and fuck buddies for over six years now and we've grown and evolved a lot in that time.
When I was first finding my gay/bi side, I really only wanted the sex, and I was that way for a long time. It was a lot harder for me to kiss my male lover than it was to have sex with him...and since he was gay himself and was very turned on by romance, he was really frustrated by this, but he didn't want to say anything because I so totally turned him on (and I do-- I know that all I have to do is be in the room with him and he gets hard).
But finally he admitted to me that he missed the cuddling and kissing. So for his birthday, I obliged him. It was a little strange at first, but with the same degree of adventure that brought me to try men in the first place, I just let go and did it. What I discovered was that kissing was very arousing as foreplay with him, just as it always was with my women lovers. It turned him on so much-- he had whole other levels of arousal past his rock-hard cock-- that it was a pleasure to do this, and gradually it became a regular part of what we did, and sometimes when we couldn't have sex, we could kiss and cuddle and it reminded me of what was good about what we have.
We've been friends and fuck buddies for over six years now and we've grown and evolved a lot in that time.
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ars_amatoria said:
I enjoyed your post. I used to think that the cuddling, snuggling, making-out that I was used to with women wasn't something I could get into with a man, but once I opened myself up to it, I found it to be just as satisfying with a man as it was with a woman. I was really surprised at the time, but realized that my hesitance about getting really warm and cuddly with a guy was just more of my conditioning coming out.
Anyway, I obviously want both-- the sex and the intimacy.
