My girlfriend will not do anal

[porn69]

I have tried for 2 years now and she will not go for it.

I found these pics the other day and showed them to her and she said that it turned her on at the thought of doing it but the pain scares her.

Any advice?

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[College_geek]

You should go to the how to board and see if they have any suggestions. The pic board isn't the place to do it. Good luck, though.

 

[statusq]

This question comes up a lot, and i always wonder why don't people just try a finger first? Sliding a finger in a woman's ass during sex is hot (you should ask first, of course), and then she'll see how she likes the feel of it. If she gets used to it, then you might proceed to 2 fingers sometime. And if she digs it, she'll pbly start thinking of anal sex on her own. Or when yr eating her out, a little analingus is a great and noninvasive way to start bringing someone around to the anal pleasure.

But if she's not into it, then she's not into it.

Good luck.
wiL

 

[Guest]

I have tried for 2 years now and she will not go for it.

I found these pics the other day and showed them to her and she said that it turned her on at the thought of doing it but the pain scares her.

Any advice?

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Funny this should come up. I've taught a number of women how to really, seriously and thoroughly enjoy it, and I'm even on IM right now with another woman whom I teaching this to...

It doesn't start with you, it starts with her or it won't get done.

 

[crazybbwgirl]

Re: Re: My girlfriend will not do anal

Funny this should come up. I've taught a number of women how to really, seriously and thoroughly enjoy it, and I'm even on IM right now with another woman whom I teaching this to...

It doesn't start with you, it starts with her or it won't get done.

All I can say - (other than read the manual there's TONS of stuff about anal in there Porn69) - is thank gods for men like you Art. I passed on anal thru 5 years of marriage and others because of the fear of pain. Then one summer I met 'Jungle Jim'. wow - he was a really great teacher. And I have been a fan of the joys of anal pleasure ever since.

 

[Guest]

Re: Re: Re: My girlfriend will not do anal

All I can say - (other than read the manual there's TONS of stuff about anal in there Porn69) - is thank gods for men like you Art. I passed on anal thru 5 years of marriage and others because of the fear of pain. Then one summer I met 'Jungle Jim'. wow - he was a really great teacher. And I have been a fan of the joys of anal pleasure ever since.

Sweet! It makes all the difference when you have someone that truly knows what the hell they're doing.

The big thing about anal delights is the patience involved in getting to the best parts, then it's pretty easy sailing from there.

The number one rule is to cater to the comforts of her body while she gradually explores her own limitations and works to surpass them.

Too many men rush this stuff rather than enjoying the trip.

 

[cyberflicker]

During oral sex, get a finger wet finger in there, very slowly and gently. It's amazing. Then get the tongue in there - that is also amazing! Once she appreciates that you are willing to soften up and prepare the area with fingers and tongues then she'll be more open to the real thing. Let her have an 'anal' orgasm with a finger or a tongue first, she'll soon be asking for more!

I am yet to get a whole cock in there but just a tip is great for me and my partner. Use lots of lube!

 

[crazybbwgirl]

this thread is making me horny....

 

[Guest]

During oral sex, get a finger wet finger in there, very slowly and gently. It's amazing. Then get the tongue in there - that is also amazing! Once she appreciates that you are willing to soften up and prepare the area with fingers and tongues then she'll be more open to the real thing. Let her have an 'anal' orgasm with a finger or a tongue first, she'll soon be asking for more!

I am yet to get a whole cock in there but just a tip is great for me and my partner. Use lots of lube!

Going about anal sex with her can be done in a broad variety of ways. Starting with fingers is the best and most obvious thing to do.

Her starting her own self-exploration of the subject, with or without her lover present, is by far the best way for her to begin learning how to enjoy the act.

Lube, lube and more lube. I've made two-person sex parties out of all the fun that can be had with lubes. Though lube is extremely important, it's not the most important factor of doing this successfully. The most important factor is her mentality towards exploring this kind of fun. Fortunately that is something that can be exercised into a healthy outlook on the subject.

 

[Guest]

this thread is making me horny....

Well, get to it...!!!