Need advice? Help? A beer?

[p_p_man]

OK I'm back...

...and have I got a problem.

EBW where are you?...

Where's my guiness?...

I need some advice...

Aw shit...

**goes out door kicking an empty bottle rolling around on the floor on the way...

 

[Willing and Unsure]

got anything else?



maybe some tequila?

 

[Willing and Unsure]

hey Morden.....

how's your shoulder feelin tonite?

 

[Morden]

<smiles at willing>
"I would say good hun."

<comes over to willing and rests her head there gently pulling her close and wrapping her up>
"Whats up hun?"

 

[scylis]

i got a problem..







i miss Angel already...

and i miss Myst too...

and i don't drink, so i can't drown the loneliness i feel at the moment...

sure, i talk to other people, but it's not the same, ya know? a part of me is lonely b/c they're not here.. i'd feel the same way if it were Mistress who was gone instead of them, or if it was someone else i talk to that doesn't come here, and so on...

i dunno..

*thumps head on bar top and stays like that*

 

[Willing and Unsure]

not a whole lot... just feeling lonely right now

*cuddles up close to Morden*

 

[Morden]

<smiles and makes room for Willing on his bench>

"Well then perhaps I can alieviate some of that milady."

<wraps my arms around her and strokes her hair softly>

 

[Willing and Unsure]

*turns face into your shoulder to cry quietly*

 

[Morden]

<smoths your hair and lets you cry. hollding you gently>

"Its ok hun. Whats wrong?"

 

[Willing and Unsure]

i'm just feelin a bit lonely... i just realized that i have pretty much lost one of my closest and oldest friends to a bad breakup with another friend of mine... and i'm not the least bit happy about it


*turns face back into your shoulder and keeps crying*

 

[Morden]

<whipes your tears with a soft hanky, and bushes a few stray hairs aside.>

"Time will tell hun. Sometimes things seem bad and you think you are losing but you really aren't. Things tend to change, but old friends usually find a way of sticking through."

 

[Willing and Unsure]

i hope they do... i really dont want to lose a friend cuz of the little whore (she really is... its not just an insult)... just things have been going downhill with him since they first started having problems.. and now that they broke up, the outcome of it all looks a little bleak right now and has for several months

*keeps crying*

 

[Morden]

<smiles and holds Willing close so she can let it out.>

"I know hun it feels as if you are alone and unable to do anything. All those years together may be casusally tossed aside and never remembered, but they won't be. Your friend is gonna miss you too. It may not be an immediate realization till things calm down but you will both look back on this and laugh"

<tried not to sound to cliche but cliches can speak truth>

 

[Willing and Unsure]

*sniffle* you really think so? *sniffle*


it just seems so hopeless right now... i'm starting to believe it is

*cries harder*

 

[Morden]

<comforts Willing>

"Trust me. Bonds formed over long periods of time are incredibly hard to break. I have faced this kind of situation more then once and I can tell you that it is not hopeless. give the person time and let them know you still care in small ways that will reassure yourself as well as them. time is needed now and when done you will have your friend back."

<yawns and falls asleep>

 

[Willing and Unsure]

thank you Morden... i do hope you're right bout this

*slowly cries myself to sleep on his shoulder*

 

[Ally C]

A sobering thought?

i got a problem..


and i don't drink, so i can't drown the loneliness i feel at the moment...

I never suffer from this problem.

 

[unusuallyconfused]

Hell, I am paying $70 Hr for a therapist, I need your HELP. Could of used you for weeks, didn't know you had the ability. Well, then, wheres the beer?

 

[Weevil]

i got a problem..

i miss Angel already...

and i miss Myst too...

and i don't drink, so i can't drown the loneliness i feel at the moment...

sure, i talk to other people, but it's not the same, ya know? a part of me is lonely b/c they're not here.. i'd feel the same way if it were Mistress who was gone instead of them, or if it was someone else i talk to that doesn't come here, and so on...

i dunno..

*thumps head on bar top and stays like that*

HUzzah!!! My first real opportunity to dish out advice.

Hhmmmmmmmm. I would definitely say that it would really help if you could drown yourself in a new hobby. Model Airplane building? Bocci Ball?

The important thing to remember is that you can always make new friends. Cool people are joining the board on a daily basis. Oh sure we may miss DCL and the others who've decided that they should kick it for a while but we shouldn't lose sight of the great folk we have to talk with.

 

[Weevil]

Hell, I am paying $70 Hr for a therapist, I need your HELP. Could of used you for weeks, didn't know you had the ability. Well, then, wheres the beer?

Lay it on me soul sister. The EBW is open for business. And I only charge 65 an hour

 

[unusuallyconfused]

Lay it on me soul sister. The EBW is open for business. And I only charge 65 an hour [/QUOTE

What a deal. Ok, my socialist friend, here it is.......ps (one of my best friends is as far left as you can throw her!)
Ok. I am in trouble. Big trouble. I should be happy right now, but I am not. I should be jumping up and down that the man of my dreams finally came to me as my husband but waited until I threatened to leave him and had enough rejection to fall out of love with him after worshiping him for over 9 years. Sigh*

 

[Weevil]

Lay it on me soul sister. The EBW is open for business. And I only charge 65 an hour [/QUOTE

What a deal. Ok, my socialist friend, here it is.......ps (one of my best friends is as far left as you can throw her!)
Ok. I am in trouble. Big trouble. I should be happy right now, but I am not. I should be jumping up and down that the man of my dreams finally came to me as my husband but waited until I threatened to leave him and had enough rejection to fall out of love with him after worshiping him for over 9 years. Sigh*

Hmmmmmm. I better revise that to "Social Democrat" (Sheesh my politics are getting softer by the day)

Obviously you aren't happy and it doesn't look like you can be in that situation. You need to sit down and look at what you really need in life at this moment and whether or not the aforementioned Husband is a piece of that jigsaw puzzle. You truly need to take a step back and re-examine your relationship priorities because you should never be in a situation that can be described as trouble.

BTW the Bar is once again open.

 

[Willing and Unsure]

took ya long enough to reopen it

 

[Weevil]

Well the bar can only be open when the Barkeep who never forgets a tab is online.

 

[Morden]

<saunters in and takes his usually comfy spot with room to spare>

"Aye lass can I have wee drop of that bitter you have on the tap o'er tere?"