Need some advice . . .

[DustyRoads]

I, a single guy who is not unattractive and who is well educated, turn 35 y.o. in another few months and do not want to spend that night alone.

Unfortunately, no sex for me in almost three years for reasons I really do not understand. It is difficult to reveal these facts to close friends & I have not done so. ALL of the women I have been with in the past say I am a good lover, but I do have some anxiety since it has been so long.

I want to stay away from hookers but would like some steam. My dating prospects are not so good right now . . . can any one give me some suggestions?

I am not looking for pity just some constructive ideas on how to improve my situation . . . thank you for reading and for any suggestions.

 

[Mz_Scarlett]

Have you tried meeting someone online? Match.com and Kiss.com are both great sites to meet people. Membership fees are reasonable and you can start slowly getting to know someone from the inside out

Best wishes to you on meeting that special someone!

Scarlett

 

[Bindii]

I'm a little bit confused - is it sex or a relationship that you ae after?

 

[DustyRoads]

I would like both sex and a relationship but not necessarily with one in preference to the other at this point. Biologically, I feel driven and unfulfilled.

 

[Bindii]

I would like both sex and a relationship but not necessarily with one in preference to the other at this point. Biologically, I feel driven and unfulfilled.

Well if I were you I'd aim for the relationship, the sex is a natural progression of a good relationship.

Do you have any hobbies? Perhaps you could join a group of people with similar interests to you.

The thing is to get out there and enjoy yourself and your life, most people are attracted to happy people. People are drawn to others that are happy within themselves, its almost magnetic.

I'm still a little confused over your question, is it that you are worried that when you do have sex you won't 'perform' to her or your expectations?