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[Texguy84]

An update on Army girl.

Good News/Bad News:

Good News: She broke up with her new boyfriend...

Bad News: ...because she's still hung up over her old boyfriend. *slams head into desk forcefully and repeatedly.

Also, she is getting reclassified as a helicopter mechanic, and she leaves for her new school within the month.

 

[rhyst_hatchyk]

Gah. What makes parental units think they can force you to do something?

I just want to be on my computer in peace

 

[Texguy84]

Hm, so some more update. Been hanging out with Army Girl some more, trying out the friends thing since she'll be leaving soon and is still hung up over old boyfriend. Was talking to her today after PT, and she had to go see one of her sergeants about something, she said she'd come meet me for chow if she had time after talking to the sergeant.

She never came to chow, and she hasn't replied to any of my texts today. Hopefully, she just turned off the phone when she went to talk to the sergeant, and forgot to turn it back on, but this sort of thing worries me.

 

[Lady Reiha]

Grouchy.

Rhystcracker: Reason with your parents, communicate, give them a piece of mind. Let them trust you before reasoning them that you rather have the computer in your room. If it's curiosity they are looking for, explain to them that you are trying to write a book, and privacy helps you concentrate. Having your computer in a public area will not reach your own personal goal- see if that may help. Don't respond back with negatives, only positives. I'm not in the mood for unreasoning.

TexMex: Stop worrying and trying to find a way to win army girl's heart. Girl's- no matter how tough or not they all need time to heal, and that is not to be rushed. If you like her that much, you would consider how she is dealing and feeling. Put your feelings aside for a moment or two. She may just need a friend- not a lusting object.

 

[Lady Reiha]

check out my new title

done at rei-chan's request

Retardacon?


I said that?


retard...maybe..but con? Okay. I like it




I'm not having sex with you because of it.

 

[Texguy84]

TexMex: Stop worrying and trying to find a way to win army girl's heart. Girl's- no matter how tough or not they all need time to heal, and that is not to be rushed. If you like her that much, you would consider how she is dealing and feeling. Put your feelings aside for a moment or two. She may just need a friend- not a lusting object.

Well, the worrying in this case is more about how she said she'd talk to me later today, and proceeded to completely drop off the grid after leaving to see what her sergeant wanted to speak to her about. Although I didn't think to actually *call* her phone, since I mostly text her.

Bah, I guess I'll call her after class tomorrow, see what's up. Hopefully she's not in trouble with her higher ups for something.

 

[ZJPV1]

I wish I had a nerdy girl in my life

 

[Lady Reiha]

Grouchy 2.

*sighs* I give up! I do.




You men seriously have no concept on how girls feel.



TexMex- She's grieving! Okay? She broke up with her boyfriend- that's hard. Hell, I'm still grieving over my good-for-nothing ex boyfriend from a gazillion years ago! She needs time and there is NOTHING to worry about. She probably said she'd call you to make you feel a little better and not to hurt your feelings. Her mind's so full of things right now that she probably simply forgot. She probably missed chow because she didn't feel like eating. Some people grieve differently than others. Give her space and just be there for her when she realizes that what she did- she did out of good, not bad.

Leave it alone for now- trust me. She will come around. Just have some patience. But seriously? What does my post matter?? Your just going to ignore what I say and do the exact opposite.
Great now I wasted 2 minutes thinking and posting how I was trying to help you help here, and for what? Probably nothing. That's okay. I don't care.

Do what you want.But if your not willing to except help from your friends on here, then why bother post updates on "army girl?" Obviously your doing it because your looking for some answer that apparently I cannot give you. Sorry to waste your time.

And the higher up thing- they probably noticed something's wrong. They are most llikely trying to figure out what can be done to bring her back to her peak performance. Leave it as it is.
Ugh! Here I go again- I'm stopping now.

 

[Lady Reiha]

I wish I had a nerdy girl in my life

Then stop moping and find one.

 

[rhyst_hatchyk]

Then stop moping and find one.

*hugs* You sound like you could use one.

 

[Lady Reiha]

*hugs* You sound like you could use one.

*smiles, hugging* Thanks : )


Sorry newbie, and TexMex. Had a rough couple of days..

 

[rhyst_hatchyk]

*smiles, hugging* Thanks : )


Sorry newbie, and TexMex. Had a rough couple of days..

Shouldn't you be in bed? GO TO BED. You work tomorrow

 

[Lady Reiha]

Shouldn't you be in bed? GO TO BED. You work tomorrow

I can never sleep without Chronie here.. Honestly.

 

[rhyst_hatchyk]

I can never sleep without Chronie here.. Honestly.

Aww. You should know he is safe and sound at his mother's house.

 

[Texguy84]

*smiles, hugging* Thanks : )


Sorry newbie, and TexMex. Had a rough couple of days..

Eh, I figured you were having a rough day, and decided against sending a perfectly snarky reply that I had prepped.

So, tonight, I ended up dancing for a good while with a cute redhead girl from my squadron. I'm not a terribly good dancer, and we ran into at least one guy who was a much better dancer, but we'll see how things play out there.

 

[Lady Reiha]

Aww. You should know he is safe and sound at his mother's house.

I know, I know...but still...

 

[Lady Reiha]

Eh, I figured you were having a rough day, and decided against sending a perfectly snarky reply that I had prepped.

So, tonight, I ended up dancing for a good while with a cute redhead girl from my squadron. I'm not a terribly good dancer, and we ran into at least one guy who was a much better dancer, but we'll see how things play out there.

Thanks- I appreciate it : )


And good luck with the cute red-head!!!


I'm off boys- be good. *yawns* Work is getting too ugh!

 

[Texguy84]

Thanks- I appreciate it : )


And good luck with the cute red-head!!!


I'm off boys- be good. *yawns* Work is getting too ugh!

Thanks for the good luck wishing, the redhead is cute, and endearingly odd in some ways.

Also, she looks really good in boots and a skirt.

 

[Lady Reiha]

Thanks for the good luck wishing, the redhead is cute, and endearingly odd in some ways.

Also, she looks really good in boots and a skirt.

*laughs* Down boy!



Okay, seriously- g'night.

 

[Trombonus]

Well, I guess I'll chip in with my stuff.

School has kept me crazy busy, but at least it's finally Spring Break. I can't believe how fast time has flown by this year.

I made a profile on OKCupid.com, but it's basically turned into a dead end. Had a conversation going with a girl for a while, but she just stopped talking to me. I think the hardest thing was that she wasn't honest with me. I feel like I wasn't good enough. It's kinda hard for me to understand that that's not the case. Plus I really liked her. We talked about Final Fantasy and Kingdom Hearts mostly, and she had a picture of her dressed up as a question block from SMB. It had a coin coming out of it and everything. *sigh* Anyway, I've given up on trying to find someone for a while. It didn't make sense for me to do it in the first place. I have no money and I live with my family. But, I was (and still am) so lonely. Guess I'll just have to live with it.

 

[Texguy84]

Well, I guess I'll chip in with my stuff.

School has kept me crazy busy, but at least it's finally Spring Break. I can't believe how fast time has flown by this year.

I made a profile on OKCupid.com, but it's basically turned into a dead end. Had a conversation going with a girl for a while, but she just stopped talking to me. I think the hardest thing was that she wasn't honest with me. I feel like I wasn't good enough. It's kinda hard for me to understand that that's not the case. Plus I really liked her. We talked about Final Fantasy and Kingdom Hearts mostly, and she had a picture of her dressed up as a question block from SMB. It had a coin coming out of it and everything. *sigh* Anyway, I've given up on trying to find someone for a while. It didn't make sense for me to do it in the first place. I have no money and I live with my family. But, I was (and still am) so lonely. Guess I'll just have to live with it.

Eh, I've got a profile on OKCupid too, and in the three years that I've had it, I've met exactly two girls from it. You just kinda gotta be patient with it if you're not a hot chick, as far as I can tell.

 

[Lady Reiha]

Well, I guess I'll chip in with my stuff.

School has kept me crazy busy, but at least it's finally Spring Break. I can't believe how fast time has flown by this year.

I made a profile on OKCupid.com, but it's basically turned into a dead end. Had a conversation going with a girl for a while, but she just stopped talking to me. I think the hardest thing was that she wasn't honest with me. I feel like I wasn't good enough. It's kinda hard for me to understand that that's not the case. Plus I really liked her. We talked about Final Fantasy and Kingdom Hearts mostly, and she had a picture of her dressed up as a question block from SMB. It had a coin coming out of it and everything. *sigh* Anyway, I've given up on trying to find someone for a while. It didn't make sense for me to do it in the first place. I have no money and I live with my family. But, I was (and still am) so lonely. Guess I'll just have to live with it.

Tromby, cheer up my friend : )

Honestly, if I wasn't with Chronie and I were closer, I'd be so up to having a date with you! I'm sorry we live so far away from eachother -_-"
But I guess what I am trying to say is that I find you attractive, and you know what? That should tell you something. No, not "Okay Reiha...your crazy... your flirting with me while you have a boyfriend...umm..that's just odd." I mean, that you are worth something- and that you are attractive. Simply put. The best way to find love or anybody is not to look. Someone will come along- you just need to be very patient. You have a ton of good qualities that I see in you every time you post! Your hilarious- you seriously make me smile! Your handsome- which you already know that, you play music which alot of girls would be interested in- even if it's a Trombone. Your smart, talented and very sweet to your friends. Your always thoughtful, and you have been there for me when I needed you most. If your not worth it to someone else, at least know that you are worth something to me. And I want to see you happy. Don't give up on love- that is the worst thing you can possibly do. Don't settle for anything else- believe in what I see within you. You have so many good qualities, Tromby. Ask anyone here and they will tell you the same thing.

 

[Trombonus]

Tromby, cheer up my friend : )

Honestly, if I wasn't with Chronie and I were closer, I'd be so up to having a date with you! I'm sorry we live so far away from eachother -_-"
But I guess what I am trying to say is that I find you attractive, and you know what? That should tell you something. No, not "Okay Reiha...your crazy... your flirting with me while you have a boyfriend...umm..that's just odd." I mean, that you are worth something- and that you are attractive. Simply put. The best way to find love or anybody is not to look. Someone will come along- you just need to be very patient. You have a ton of good qualities that I see in you every time you post! Your hilarious- you seriously make me smile! Your handsome- which you already know that, you play music which alot of girls would be interested in- even if it's a Trombone. Your smart, talented and very sweet to your friends. Your always thoughtful, and you have been there for me when I needed you most. If your not worth it to someone else, at least know that you are worth something to me. And I want to see you happy. Don't give up on love- that is the worst thing you can possibly do. Don't settle for anything else- believe in what I see within you. You have so many good qualities, Tromby. Ask anyone here and they will tell you the same thing.

Thanks Rei, I know I can always depend on you for exactly the right kind of encouragement. I've come to realize that lack of sleep makes me mopey. I dunno, I just wish she'd given me a chance. Everything was great, then she found out I was living with family and she wanted nothing more to do with me. Gave me some bullshit reason about being afraid of talking on the phone, then never spoke to me again. Grr.

But I do know I have stuff going for me, and I am worth it, I just needed to be reminded every-so-often.

Thanks again, and no I don't think you're crazy at all. Eccentric maybe, but I like it that way.

 

[Texguy84]

Heh, spent the late afternoon/evening with redhead girl and some mutual friends from the squadron. Mostly she went with us to hang out at Circuit City (yeah, I know, wild people us), and then we all got Mexican food, after which she had to go back to post for her dorm guard shift.

So we get back to post, and we're about to part ways, and she asks if I want to hang out with her for her dorm guard shift (there's a big screen TV in the room where the dorm guard hangs out, so lots of movie watching). And then towards the end of the shift, we were talking about going to church for Sunday, and she said I could go to her church service if I wanted.

So, I still don't really know what's going on here, but cute redheaded girl seems to not mind me hanging out with her at all, so that's a good start, right?

 

[tolyk]

Heh, spent the late afternoon/evening with redhead girl and some mutual friends from the squadron. Mostly she went with us to hang out at Circuit City (yeah, I know, wild people us), and then we all got Mexican food, after which she had to go back to post for her dorm guard shift.

So we get back to post, and we're about to part ways, and she asks if I want to hang out with her for her dorm guard shift (there's a big screen TV in the room where the dorm guard hangs out, so lots of movie watching). And then towards the end of the shift, we were talking about going to church for Sunday, and she said I could go to her church service if I wanted.

So, I still don't really know what's going on here, but cute redheaded girl seems to not mind me hanging out with her at all, so that's a good start, right?

Very good start Just don't talk about "army girl" and don't push things.. just see where they lead for now.