New bi-guy

I hated to start a whole new thread. I have been on a lot of different porn sites,etc. and seem to find very few bisexual men. On the other hand, every single woman is bisexual. I just wanted to say hi to everybody, and I guess for the guys, when and why did you first consider yourself bisexual. For women, I saw this a few threads below me, what do you like about bi-men?

Well, it all started by swinging! We started it and usually, besides swapping couples, the women who enjoy time together while me and the other guy watched...after some time I started to wonder about cocks... I talked to my wife and she was ok with that, even excited, so next time I tried to touch the guy and it went from there! I loved to suck and finally anal...it's just wonderful. Now we also have our strap-on so my wife can fuck me whenever we feel like!
 
Well, it all started by swinging! We started it and usually, besides swapping couples, the women who enjoy time together while me and the other guy watched...after some time I started to wonder about cocks... I talked to my wife and she was ok with that, even excited, so next time I tried to touch the guy and it went from there! I loved to suck and finally anal...it's just wonderful. Now we also have our strap-on so my wife can fuck me whenever we feel like!

what a great wife your a lucky guy
 
every single women is bisexual ??

I hated to start a whole new thread. I have been on a lot of different porn sites,etc. and seem to find very few bisexual men. On the other hand, every single woman is bisexual.

Interesting. do you really believe that "every single woman is bisexual"? I've heard this before and the theory is that all woman are to some degree bisexual.

Has anyone ever read anything related to the theory that all women are to some degree bisexual?
 
I think that's just wishful thinking. Kind of like my fantasy about all men being bisexual!
 
Played around with a couple of guys in my teens, including my best friend, where I was the 'aggressor' and usually would get horny and want to suck him when we were stoned together. For most guys it's a phase but while I've always preferred women I've also always admitted to myself that cocks can turn me on. It's been a long time then but I'd love to do it again - I've been out on a few dates with guys but havent been to bed with anyone yet. Never been fucked but I'd like to be - I do have a dildo that I use from time to time.
 
I wonder how many men are married to women like you but have never gotten the hint to spill the beans. Instead, we think our marriages would be over if they found out we wanted to suck a dick. Have you ever laid down any hints that you'd like for it to happen? If my wife did, I'd be all over it.

Well by the discussions I've had with some guys so far...only one has an issue.

The others have said that the wife loves it, which is awesome by the way.
 
Personally

Well in my personal life hubby is not even remotely interested. LOL

But thats ok cause I love him anyway.

I have enough bi stories and dreams to last me a life time.
 
I realized that I'm bi in high school and acted on it, like so many others (which actually surprised me), with my best friend. I was somewhat open about it with a couple of girl friends. I later 'decided' it was a phase and denied myself the fun that could be had.

I'm now married, and wish it was to one of these great ladies that find guys being together such a turn on. Unfortunately, I don't dare even talk about my desires with my wife for fear of losing her and my children. So I'm stuck living life vicariously here, and having the odd encounter every now and then. (Which I end up feeling guilty as hell over.)
 
When and why? At first I just started sleeping with men because it was fun. But I felt sort of ashamed for years, it took my wife to make me feel comfortable identifying as bisexual. Too bad she isn't as understanding about me actually doing anything, now that we're married!
 
Has anyone ever read anything related to the theory that all women are to some degree bisexual?

I think all *people* are bi to a degree. If you consider men, they grow up playing with their own dicks, seeing and feeling a hard cock... how can they not be somewhat turned on by the sight and feel of other cocks? Why do you think blowjobs, cumshots, facials, etc., are so popular in straight porn. The straight guys totally have dick fetish. :)
 
I hated to start a whole new thread. I have been on a lot of different porn sites,etc. and seem to find very few bisexual men. On the other hand, every single woman is bisexual.

Interesting. do you really believe that "every single woman is bisexual"? I've heard this before and the theory is that all woman are to some degree bisexual.

Has anyone ever read anything related to the theory that all women are to some degree bisexual?

It might be that when he was looking at GLBT boards he was seeing a lot of bisexual women and not many men (at least that would admit it). I know it seems to me when I'm in chat rooms that many of the women identify as being bi. But when a guy says he's bi, he's immediately labeled a fag that occasionally likes a woman.
 
My former lover and I both "discovered" our bi sides - although I had acted on it years before, thanks to the Web; we were able to meet and experiment. The internet and access has provided more opportunities than ever. We certainly met many, many married men who wanted cock. Craigslist has the men who want men, and the men who pretend to be women who want women. I am confused! ; ) His wife has no idea, and whilst we are no longer in touch, I am certain he finds plenty of men to suck and now fuck him. I am shy and do not seek out women very often. I do enjoy male-male sites and posts like yours.
 
RANTING Bi Man thoughts

If the world were more accepting of bisexual men, I'm sure that we (women who like bi men) would meet more.

Like I said to one of my new chat buddy's, this country is sooo hypocritical: It is ok for a Lesbian (Ellen) to have a talk show but it is not ok for a gay man (Adam Lambert) to be on Good Morning America because he kissed his male keyboard player.

In Britain, I believe they are more open minded. It really is a shame that this country is so full of hypocrits.

Love and respect each other...period.
 
The internet and access has provided more opportunities than ever. We certainly met many, many married men who wanted cock. Craigslist has the men who want men, and the men who pretend to be women who want women. I am confused! ; ) I do enjoy male-male sites and posts like yours.

'Men who pretend to be women who want women.'?? That is strange. No wonder you are confused. I agree with your post though. Well said. I am sure there are plenty of married men looking for cock. Just hard to get it all to work out. (Pun intended...in case you missed it.)
 
If the world were more accepting of bisexual men, I'm sure that we (women who like bi men) would meet more.

Like I said to one of my new chat buddy's, this country is sooo hypocritical: It is ok for a Lesbian (Ellen) to have a talk show but it is not ok for a gay man (Adam Lambert) to be on Good Morning America because he kissed his male keyboard player.

In Britain, I believe they are more open minded. It really is a shame that this country is so full of hypocrits.

Love and respect each other...period.

At the risk of offending just about everyone, I think you might be right. Of all places, it does not make sense.
 
I first realized I was bi when I was about 13 when I started finding myself attracted to male and females. I didn't act on any of my fantasies until I was about 14 or 15.
 
If the world were more accepting of bisexual men, I'm sure that we (women who like bi men) would meet more.

Like I said to one of my new chat buddy's, this country is sooo hypocritical: It is ok for a Lesbian (Ellen) to have a talk show but it is not ok for a gay man (Adam Lambert) to be on Good Morning America because he kissed his male keyboard player.

In Britain, I believe they are more open minded. It really is a shame that this country is so full of hypocrits.

Love and respect each other...period.

I actually brought up lesbian vs gay man at work the other day because I work with a lot of close minded people. We have three employees who are lesbians and I've kept the fact that I'm bi secret. One night joking around someone said they were going to fire me for being gay. It was a joke made in good fun but turned serious quick when I said back I could sue the shit out of the company if that actually happened. I asked him, still in the joke, what about Carrie(one of the lesbians). He said he was cool with her because shes a lesbian and not "a gay" has he put it. It was a fucked up thing to say on his part but unfortunately that is how a lot of society views, at least here in the states.
 
Men are turned on by women with women because it doesnt seriously threaten their masculinity. Because of course all that lesbians really need is a real man to make them change their tune. [/sarcasm]. A man whose female lover left him for another woman would, I expect, be more pissed off than if she left him for a guy, because it would imply that he is inadequate. Male-male attractions, on the other hand, directly threaten 'masculinity' - "If I like cock, I'm a faggot, thus not manly". Or so, I think, the societal conditioning goes.

What's good for the goose is, sadly, not as good for the gander.
 
True

Male-male attractions, on the other hand, directly threaten 'masculinity' - "If I like cock, I'm a faggot, thus not manly". Or so, I think, the societal conditioning goes.

What's good for the goose is, sadly, not as good for the gander.

And that is what is unfortunate. I mean don't get me wrong, I love lesbians! I just think it is sooo hypocritical that it is easier for people to accept lesbians than gay men.

They are both part of the GLBT community!

BTW, kudos to Washington DC for passing gay marriage!!!
 
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