New faces, come say hello....

[aManHasSaid]

Hello!

As many others have experienced, I've been a Lit reader for quite a while but now have signed on to pickup graduate-level information about the lifestyle.

In reading offerings in this genre over the years, there has seemed to be very little material available that matched my interests. Except for a few Lit wordsmiths such as dr_mabeuse, finding appropriate source material has been challenging.

My specific interests are the more subtle and psychological aspects of this sport. I'm a one-woman man with my SO for 40+ years; for the last 10 years or so have taken us on a journey of discovery with reward levels beyond our expectations.

I believe I'm seeing more folks here with my focus--education to enhance experiences in our current situation. So, I'll look for opportunities to contribute understanding as I can, and hopefully get further educated as a member of this group in that process. Good to be among you.

 

[UtopiaBound]

I keep typing and erasing - guess I'm a little nervous! But I'll give an introduction a go...

I'm married and monogamous to someone who has always had dominant, aggressive, forceful tendencies. Trying to be vanilla nearly broke him and us. So we have started this journey and I'm trying to catch up to his lead. Trying to learn to let my submissive side run free and tame my dominant side around him.

It'll take me a while to get the terms and titles right... Hope not too long though.

 

[Bound2One]

Where do I start...

I've been a Dominant person at heart since as far back as I can remember. Up until recently, I was a "caged animal". I've always known what and how I was, but I was afraid of myself. I know what I'm capable of doing, and it ain't pretty. I'll start with a little backstory:
When I was alot younger I had the same feelings and tendencies as I do now. I just didn't know what it all meant, or how to express, any of it really, so things got ugly (really ugly). Off and on for a few, plus a few more, years my life was a roller coaster, never really happy, because the side of me that really makes me feel complete, was caged up inside.
So, fast forward a decade (almost 2) and here we are. My wife and I are back to really feeling happy again, and much closer to who we used to be. She's having a hard time adjusting, but is definitely trying. I'm sure in time, you'll all get to know us. Lots of questions, interests, and general inquiries.

 

[RawHumor]

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Are you two together, by chance?

 

[UtopiaBound]

Yes, we are.

 

[RawHumor]

Welcome. Good luck. There are some knowledgeable people around here.

 

[La damnee elle la licorne]

 

[Bound2One]

Thank you very much. I look forward to a ton of information, and discussion.

 

[GingerFun1]

Hi all,

I'm a 23 male from the NE of Scotland (not many like minded individuals up here it seems) and so after a good few years of keeping to myself I've decided to venture into the big bad inter-web and speak to other similar minded folk !

I might not be that active at first but after I "find my feet" and get a bit more comfortable speaking about "wierd stuff" you'll find me to be quite the chatter box !

 

[Collar_N_Cuffs]

Hi all,

I'm a 23 male from the NE of Scotland (not many like minded individuals up here it seems) and so after a good few years of keeping to myself I've decided to venture into the big bad inter-web and speak to other similar minded folk !

I might not be that active at first but after I "find my feet" and get a bit more comfortable speaking about "wierd stuff" you'll find me to be quite the chatter box !

And just who are you calling weird, Mister?!
Sorry you haven't found anyone IRL to explore with, but you'll be welcome to discuss it all here. We need more chatter boxes! Takes one to know one.
Enjoy!

 

[La damnee elle la licorne]

 

[La damnee elle la licorne]

 

[Collar_N_Cuffs]

Do you remember me saying 'I won't be saying much?'

Elle.

No, that all got buried under your subsequent onslaught

 

[SpunThings]

Do you remember me saying 'I won't be saying much?'

Elle.

You were being ironic, right?

 

[La damnee elle la licorne]

 

[Messier82]

Hello all,
just registered and thought it would be polite to post here to say "Hi!".
I used to be a member of a BDSM forum about 10 years ago, but I can't remember if it was Literotica or not. This was before "50 shades" and the community seemed a lot smaller then

Anyhoo, no doubt speak to some of you soon, I'm off to post a question about where to find the right kind of DVD

Salut!
M82

 

[DarkStarie]

Home

Hey

I think I found my home.

Just want to say hi

 

[Badthoughtsgal]

Oops, I've just seen this after posting in a few threads, don't cast me down with the trolls just yet, please

Im a female who would internally identify myself as a submissive though that is a label I have no right to wear as I'm rather too new and green to this to really say that is what I am, though I very much feel it and certainly when I'm having some me time my thoughts are never ever dominant.

Anyway I'm rambling, I just wanted to pop in and say hi

 

[SpunThings]

Oops, I've just seen this after posting in a few threads, don't cast me down with the trolls just yet, please

Im a female who would internally identify myself as a submissive though that is a label I have no right to wear as I'm rather too new and green to this to really say that is what I am, though I very much feel it and certainly when I'm having some me time my thoughts are never ever dominant.

Anyway I'm rambling, I just wanted to pop in and say hi

Only you get to decide how you identify yourself. The labels in BDSM are not easily defined, because there are as many ideas of what makes an X-label as there are people with opinions on the matter. Welcome

 

[SpunThings]

I was genuinely terrified. . But......you know.....you need to ask questions to learn...and unless I post about stuff like what's cooking....I'll not be brave enough. .

I get it. I'm always terrified when joining a new online community. I lurk for a good long time, and those first few post are nerve-wracking for me.

Anyways, I appreciate your posts and the perspective you bring to discussions.

 

[SpunThings]

Welcome to Messier82 and Darkstarie too!

 

[RedButtWetSlut]

Hello

I've been here for about just a bit after a friend recommended it to me. I'm enjoying it, especially the bdsm topics. I'm a 37 yr old mwf with more than a passing interest in being spanked, paddled, etc. Quite unfulfilled in real life so I'm left with my fantasies. I plan to lurk around some more until i get a feel for the community, but thought it would be polite to pop in and say hello.

 

[Toowet2stop]

Hi! My name is Too. I'm new to this site and definitely new to the idea of orgasmic pain.

I get motivated by nonconsent, humiliation, and first time (painful) stories...and have been curious about pain/humiliation for me.

My partner is a little too vanilla ... And am looking for solo stimulation and orgasm...

Thank you for welcoming me into the lair!

 

[valhallacanwait]

I'm so new to this but being brave!

Hi everyone. I'm fresh out of a longterm disaster and finally free to be me. My mind won't stop spinning...which apparently has led me here. Haven't a clear game plan but know what keeps me awake at night. I wield power all day long and need to put down the sword and shield sometime! I am so much more than my pretty face....if only someone would have the courage to look deeper. Sigh.....

 

[Collar_N_Cuffs]

Welcome, newbies!!
Grab a spot and then jump in the pool and have fun