New faces, come say hello....

[vrtcpl2share]

Well I have some idea. Lol
But I need help exploring the possibilities. Today is my first visit here. I am definally a submissive

Would love to help you out....pm for possibilities

 

[cliteatingman]

One helpful hint: turn on your private messages

 

[LuvingMyHotWife]

Just joined LIT a few weeks ago though I didnt know about this thread !

Never fails but whenever I log into LIT I get craaazy horny

 

[feistyrose]

Hi, I'm Rose.

I'm a sub - I've identified as such for the past 7 years or so, so I'm not a newbie, but I don't really consider myself highly experienced either. I'm intermediate, I guess?

I've been a Literotica reader for years now, and my lurking tendencies run strong, so you may not hear from me often, but I thought I'd pop in and introduce myself.

Kink wise: I'm into most of the mainstream BDSM interests - but particularly D/s.

Other wise: theatre, films, MMOs, books (esp. Sci-Fi/Fantasy), and binge-watching Netflix.

 

[kalligeneia]

I'm an owned slave in a closed/monogamous/exclusive relationship that is as much vanilla as it is D/S, with Gor influences in there as well. I am not massively keen on opening up much further than that at this point, but no doubt I will pop my head into various threads here and there to contribute my opinion and thoughts.

I'm also a volunteer editor on here, not a writer. I *can* write, but all of my writings are predominantly non-Lit' suitable regarding subject material*.

*By non-Lit'suitable, I mean non-erotic writings. As the site is called LitEROTICA, I won't be uploading any non-erotic writings here as, to me, that would defeat the main named purpose of the site. I do not write anything that is against Literotica's TOS or rules.

 

[Collar_N_Cuffs]

Welcome everyone!

 

[dims]

Hello.. I've been lurking the main site for years and decided I wanted to see a bit more..
And by the way I'm not a native English speaker.
Oh and by the way dominant sadist and much much more, engaged to my sub, though we wouldn't turn down a woman more.

 

[La damnee elle la licorne]

 

[Gamegirl]

Confused

Hello
I am new here. I hope I don't appear rude. I know I should take the time to read how to post correctly and in the right places. However I am just anxious to make some new friends and also I am so curious about the whole Dom / sub thing. I know I am sub but finally found the nerve to seek answers to my curiosity

 

[RawHumor]

Hello
I am new here. I hope I don't appear rude. I know I should take the time to read how to post correctly and in the right places. However I am just anxious to make some new friends and also I am so curious about the whole Dom / sub thing. I know I am sub but finally found the nerve to seek answers to my curiosity

There's no strict protocol here. Post where you'd like, be polite (unless it's time to not be polite), and ask questions as much as you want to. Make yourself at home.

 

[leninocala]

I

Well I have some idea. Lol
But I need help exploring the possibilities. Today is my first visit here. I am definally a submissive

promise to have you less clueless each and every day

 

[leninocala]

Hello
I am new here. I hope I don't appear rude. I know I should take the time to read how to post correctly and in the right places. However I am just anxious to make some new friends and also I am so curious about the whole Dom / sub thing. I know I am sub but finally found the nerve to seek answers to my curiosity

You have already learned some small lessons....baby steps till you become the perfect sub.....

 

[kalligeneia]

Welcome all.

Kalligeneia, someone has recently suggested to me reading some of the Gor series, maybe 'meeting' someone citing it as influential on will inspire me to get to that.

I'd recommend reading through them in order - while the stories can be taken as stand-alones, it is a little bugbear of mine to read any sort of book series out of order. Oh? I'm open to discussions on it if that is what you mean by meeting, but there are naturally others out there who are far more authoritative on the Gor subculture than I am.

Although that said, anyone can just state that they are THE authority on just about anything, which is risky more so when it comes to BDSM so, take any websites with a pinch of salt, cross-reference and keep a logical head on your shoulders.

 

[La damnee elle la licorne]

 

[kalligeneia]

It might be interesting to have a thread on the Gor stuff. . I have no knowledge about anything, . I am, I think, good at relationships, but it am no expert on kink in any way shape or form. And will never, ever pretend to be. All I want is to have a good, fulfilled life, to be a good fulfilling wife and live an ethical life that pleases us both and scratches both our itches. I find myself here for that. . I have enjoyed your responses to posts.

Thanks!

A good place to go for BDSM discussions - Gor included - is Collarspace and Fetlife. I recommend the discussion areas for both, as I didn't use them as a place for a personal ad as I frequented the sites when I was already owned. I'm owned now but, haven't been bothered to re-join/don't want to.

 

[La damnee elle la licorne]

 

[kalligeneia]

Thanks. For now I am happy here. . I feel safe and happy here. I can ask stupid questions and people are very patient. I am addicted to a particular thread here too.

I bought the first six books in a bundle tonight. I will try and get to them soon. . So much to read ATM.....

Priest-Kings is my personal favourite out of the early ones but, I can't say why as spoilers! But I've read the first five or so in order, and one or two of the later ones; some I possess in physical copy, some via an e-reader.

 

[PetLucy]

Hi y'all! I'm Lucy, a newbie. A friend told me about this site and I started reading the stories first. Then I discovered the boards and I must say, I am learning a lot. I'm a little bit of a lurker on the threads, though I kind of like to think of it as being a voyeur . I think I've always known I was submissive since my 20's but never had the courage to "come out of the closet" until recently. Turning 40 and having a life-threatening scare kind of woke me up and I decided life is too short to let it pass me by. So now, I'm just looking to meet some new friends and learn a few things. Thank you in advance for your patience and advice!

 

[Collar_N_Cuffs]

Hi Lucy - welcome!
I hope you find what you are looking for

 

[PetLucy]

Hi Lucy - welcome!
I hope you find what you are looking for

Thank you very much!

 

[GeekyLittleBBW]

Hello!

Hello all!
I'm new to Lit on the discussion board side, but have lurked around reading for a long time. I am a thorough geek, and well versed in BDSM but certainly no expert. I identify as a little, but my day job is intellectually rigorous (is graduate student a day job? I would say so), so you can say I'm a bit too smart for my own good. Now while I do love my caring, cherishing Daddy doms I also thoroughly enjoy the sadist side of things as I am something of a masochist. Various forms of spanking and flogging, predicament bondage, nipple/breast torture, clitoral torture, face slapping, impact play, hair pulling, breath play. I enjoy being left bruised and sore but then cuddled and loved after. I'm a deviant sapiosexual who enjoys Disney movies and being treated like a sweet princess when I'm not being savagely taken. I hope to make some friends here with other submissives and maybe even meet a Daddy!
xo

 

[Terranim]

Hello, all!

I've been delaying posting here because I've been busy. But, I am male, single, a dom, 30, and currently enjoying life. I will be writing fiction that features BDSM, some of it decidedly not sexual and some of it definitely so, and will be working on other projects if they come up. My tastes are varied, but my focus on BDSM is not the pure kink side of it but the more romantic, very personal side of how much two or more people can know each other and their limits.

Expect a lot of sci-fi and fantasy bent as well. I love exploring how it might play out in those scenarios.

 

[Collar_N_Cuffs]

Welcome newbies, lurkers, and procrastinators alike

 

[MoonChameleon]

Hello, I'm new

Hi,
I actually hadn't heard of the idea of there being "dominant types" and "submissives" until very recently, but was in a relationship from the age of 15 until 26 that definitely was of that nature. My partner passed away almost 3 years ago, and about nine months ago, I got together with another man, who, when I spoke to him about my last relationship, became very upset and believed it was abusive, and that I needed therapy. Him and I broke up a month or so ago, but I have had a really hard time with this, because I have been aware that my relationship was not normal, and yet it was beautiful, full of intensity, amazing. I was very relieved to discover that there is a community of people who have had the experiences I have had -- of the actual joy and sweetness of being in a relationship where one person submits to another, and loses themselves in the process. I don't really know to what extent my experience matches the experiences of others here, or the bdsm tradition, but I know there are at least a lot of parallels.
Anyway, once I found out about it, I thought I'd read about it online, and wound up here. Hi. Nice to "meet" you all.

 

[SpunThings]

Hi,
I actually hadn't heard of the idea of there being "dominant types" and "submissives" until very recently, but was in a relationship from the age of 15 until 26 that definitely was of that nature. My partner passed away almost 3 years ago, and about nine months ago, I got together with another man, who, when I spoke to him about my last relationship, became very upset and believed it was abusive, and that I needed therapy. Him and I broke up a month or so ago, but I have had a really hard time with this, because I have been aware that my relationship was not normal, and yet it was beautiful, full of intensity, amazing. I was very relieved to discover that there is a community of people who have had the experiences I have had -- of the actual joy and sweetness of being in a relationship where one person submits to another, and loses themselves in the process. I don't really know to what extent my experience matches the experiences of others here, or the bdsm tradition, but I know there are at least a lot of parallels.
Anyway, once I found out about it, I thought I'd read about it online, and wound up here. Hi. Nice to "meet" you all.

Welcome! I'm sorry for the loss of your partner.

Just remember that there are as many ways of doing this as there are couples doing it. Some people write/talk in a way that makes it sound like everyone does it one way, or there's only one correct way. It may seem like there's a "BDSM community", but it's no more a solid community than there's a "tennis community" or a "foodie community" or any other community of people who participate in the same sorts of activities.

Anyways, I'm sorry that person made you feel bad about your past relationship.