New faces, come say hello....

Hello! I've been inactive in the kink community for a while. I was a previous user here and on fetlife as well. I'd forgotten my login information for both sites, but I decided to rejoin here finally. I'm 30 and have previously had mostly sub and babygirl experiences. However I'm finding myself more drawn to switching lately. I'm here to learn and grow, get to know some like-minded folks, and maybe feed my exhibitionist side in the amateur photo section! :rolleyes: :p

Welcome to the lit chat. I am sure you will find enough diverse people to tickle your sens of adventure.

🌈😜
 
Hello, in 2020!

I haven't been on here in sooooo long! My mame is Bel, I'm from the Southern Missouri Ozarks, USA, I'm a sub, looking for kinky doms, and/or just friends, and am looking for new people to meet!

Blessings,

Bel
 
Hi,

Happily married for twenty-something years. The wife and I have always enjoyed playing around (with each other) a little, but she may have drunkenly admitted that she wanted to play a little more. Found this site while doing some research (forwarded to the stories section from a shibari site, in an article on consensual-non-consent play - something that's always appealed, apparently! and then found the fora from there)

Doesn't the internet make it easy to find all those little toys? Fortunately the ball-gag arrived last week. It kept the squeals from alternating ice and wax from disturbing our son....

Yours,

Herbert West
 
Hello. :) I'm quite new to BDSM, I've read some articles about it online and I know trust is very important especially when you find the right Dom that you connect with. In order to build a great relationship, you have to build up a lot of trust. Without trust, it won't work and you won't be able to tell them anything about yourself. I'm 37 years old and I'm very bashful. May seem like I am, but when I open up to anyone, I can be quite bashful. This is why patience is a must for me.

I'm not new to Lit, I've been a member on here before but I always ended up being scared away by people on here for harassing me. This time I am sure I will enjoy my time on here and simply just block the person if I feel uncomfortable or if I feel as if I'm getting harassed by them. I'm hoping to learn more about BDSM and talk with others who I feel comfortable with. :) It's always nice talking to new people and learning new things about life. This is one thing I've always been interested in, I just ended up getting scared and trying to shut it from my mind because it's so new to me. Everyone gets nervous over new things. Especially kinks. Hopefully overtime I'll shake off the nervousness and it won't be so scary to me. :)
 
I am white man in my early 50s in the Maryland/DC/PA area.

I am very active, strong and masculine. I am very loving, caring and loyal as well. I plan on becoming single and embracing my kink and Dom needs soon. I have a high sex drive and am experienced in the kink community. I am private and discreet as well.

I am looking for a slim and attractive female submissive who is hungry for a dom to love her and feed her desires. With me you will never have to worry, be upset or embarrased that your kinks and hunger are dirty, strange or addictive.

Thank you.
 
Hello
How nice to be here
I am a hetroflexable male switch with strong submissive tendencies
At least that is what those tests tell me
I had the extreme good fortune to serve a Mistress in RL
Unfortunately she met a drunk driver
Very sad however I was able to experience serving her which I found to be thrilling I find myself still adhering to her directives so I have not cum in a very long time no one to give me permission
I do not regret any of my experiences , well I could do without the mini flogger being used on my erection she always had me protect my balls by holding them
It still hurt a great deal I can honestly say I don't miss that, I always failed at standing still and taking it
I will admit that talking about it still excites me I miss being naked and submitting to various people handling me for their pleasure andv/or amusement
 
Hi from England

Hi to A/all from the UK
I am on a journey. I divorced four years ago and accidentally became lesbian. I still blame Chardonnay :)
I had four years of experimenting until, just before Christmas I was invited to a local Munch. I'd had no interest in D/s other than light spanks both ways during sex. That evening I met my lovely Kat for the first time and, after a few dates and much discussion, I submitted to Her for the first time in late January.She moved in with me at the beginning of lockdown and I am now her devoted submissive and lover.
 
Hi. I recently started publishing gay erotica on this site. I'm curious about BDSM practices, partly because I seem to be masochistic, and partly because I am want to learn about the emotional content of BDSM relationships.
 
Long time flower on the wall

I've been on this site for quite some time now, however I rarely post. I took some time off, but recently rediscovered the joys of lit. I originally gave myself the name of shysub but over time I have learned that im much more of a brat than a shy sub. Though I hold qualities of both still. Life definitely gets in the way so I'm not consistently on, but for the time being, I am and would love any and all conversation!
 
I suppose I've been perving here for long enough that it's about time I introduced myself.

I never thought I was ever going to be lucky in love... until I met my gf when I started a new job. I didn't actually realize I was bi at this point, but it just felt so natural and right when it happened.

A power dynamic quickly developed between us, and I've now been her devoted sub for getting on for 2 years now.

Looking forward to chatting more here.

Kat
 
Hey Lit

I’m a long time reader of erotica, every kind. I’ve thoroughly enjoyed everyone else’s sexuality but find it’s now time to explore my own.

The main thing I’ve figured out so far is that being asked for and giving my consent turns me on. I think it will likely endure as my favorite part of BDSM play.

I’m 35 F, Central time zone. I dislike scammers to the point that I never want anyone to think I am one, so here’s my clothed proof pic: https://www.***********/s/p5z8u94600ci094/Photo Jul 23, 8 47 28 AM.jpg?dl=0

My best to everyone,
Rin
 
Rin in black

Hey Rin, Welcome! and enjoy! ---- in case you weren't aware of it --- you need to turn on Private Messaging in your User Profile for you and others to write one another here in Lit. Lovely to see you in black. G

I’m a long time reader of erotica, every kind. I’ve thoroughly enjoyed everyone else’s sexuality but find it’s now time to explore my own.

The main thing I’ve figured out so far is that being asked for and giving my consent turns me on. I think it will likely endure as my favorite part of BDSM play.

I’m 35 F, Central time zone. I dislike scammers to the point that I never want anyone to think I am one, so here’s my clothed proof pic: https://www.***********/s/p5z8u94600ci094/Photo Jul 23, 8 47 28 AM.jpg?dl=0

My best to everyone,
Rin
 
Hi guys,
new to the forum and to BDSM. I am happily married and have a wonderful sexual and loving relationship with my wife.
We have ventured out into other realms, we've learned we love to be watched, and so on. But recently we've both expressed our desires to step our toes into this world. I have always been a naturally dominant person with her, but never stepped over the line into total control and domination. She expressed to me some desires that quickly ignited a fire in me, and now I am excited to start experimenting and learning more about ourselves.
She is away for work, so I have some time to mentally plan the festivities. I look forward to reading through the forums :)
 
Hey there! I'm 39 years old a single mom of 2. I'm not new to submission just new to the board.

After 2 failed marriages and a failed relationship afterwards I've learned that being submissive is not something I can change or hide away or ignore. I'm hoping to find a long term relationship eventually with someone who is a Dom, a Daddy, and a Sadist all rolled into one.

I love to read. I'm a total nerd. I'm an emotional creature with a heart of gold. I'm sweet and sassy, and definitely a smart ass brat at times. I love to talk and am open to all new friends.
 
Hello

Um, newbie here. Not to BDSM but to this site and to the idea of actually posting my work and letting people read it. So pardon any and all mistakes I will probably make. I'm still learning.
 
Hey there!

Hello....New to Lit, new to this room. Trying to explore some new places and ideas and perhaps find out some new things about myself. Maybe this is it, I don't know. I'll need some assistance.
 
Not super new

I've recently joined, however I am not new. I've been reading the forms for years, lurking.

I am a 59 yr.old, former full-time submissive, not quite ready to stop kneeling when the right Dom comes along. But with age comes challenges. I am currently in the process of relocating with a few stops along the way. I'll be making my home again in Virginia.
 
Hi

Hey, I'm Sasha. I'm new and just poking about.

I'm a GAY woman. General interest is rope bondage. Mostly Shibari. Generally I'm dom.

Other than that like good clothes, smoke cigars and have fun.
 
DeviantLovers, redsilkenangel3, Jouleian, Live42Day, Agrippina60, Miss_Sasha_P,

Greetings and welcome to BDSM Talk. Be sure to check out the BDSM Cafe, too.

Agrippina60 - I know what you mean. Sooner or later we all reach the time when our mind's desires outpace our body's abilities.
 
Hello

Female, mid 50s, located in NJ. Not new to kink but recently joined this site. I lean toward submissive side, most enjoy the mental control aspects of BDSM. I am also enjoying a lot of the pics here, they are well done :)
 
Hi! I’m Ashlee - I’ve been a reader for years, but I just recently started logging in and I am working on some stories I hope to publish. I an a bi submissive female currently in a relationship with a man. He is new to BDSM, but is a very enthusiastic learner.

I am excited to learn about the experiences of others and share some of my own. I do not want to collaborate on stories or do any online role play- nothing wrong with either, I’m just not into it. I also do not want to meet up on any other sites. If we connect, I would like to. exchange personal messages and see where that goes. I hope to see you out there in the forums. Best wishes to all! Ash
 
Hi! I'm Jo. 👋 I'm exploring the sexual side of myself. I've always been curious about BDSM. I'd like to learn more about myself and BDSM in a safe place and thought this is a great place to begin. At this time, I believe I'm submissive, but not sure what type. Maybe a switch? There's so many flavors. :) Anyway, I'm hoping to make friends and maybe something more.
 
Hello, I'm new here. I'm very shy and I always have been. I've always had a problem opening up sexually. Grew up in a very strict home and for a very long tim I've always held myself back when it came to sex. All I've ever had was serious boyfriend's that's it. Feel like I've been missing out on a lot of things. This is taking me a lot to write all of this out. I've felt ashamed for a very long time about sex in general and I know this place can help me out.

I have no issues with posting my feelings and everything, I just have problems opening up privately. For a very long time I've always been interested in BDSM, the lifestyle and reading about things. Read a lot of Erotica stories on here and gotten aroused. Feel like I've been holding back on a lot of things. I'm tired of being scared and always feeling embarrassed when it comes to sexual things or my desires. So I guess you can say I'm here so I can open up, meet some new friends on here and get advice/tips on things. Think it's good that I decided to make an account on here. I've been debating to make an account on here for awhile and I'm glad I finally decided to create one.
 
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