New girl bombarded

Welcome to Lit! While there are a few turds in the punchbowl, lit's a fun place. Nice seeing new people participating...:rose:
 
What! A new girl who says she likes sex! Got to get my voice in before the good ones get to her! Yeah that is a common thought on here. Sorry you are getting swamped. Maybe other women have some thoughts on that, but seems like you are here at least to get a feel and have fun around the place. I might suggest turning off PM’s for a little while first till you find ones you want to talk to. But that is just a thought from a man who does not have that issue. Best of luck and hope you have fun.
 
So I joined lit this morning. Within minutes I had 24 messages. It’s like everyone pounced at once.
What are your fetishes, fantasies, wanna see my cock….what the hell?
Sorry you’ve been bombarded. I hope your experience here gets better. We need women to be able to express themselves freely and enjoy the site
 
Welcome to Lit!

You're a self-identified woman in a sea of wankers (literally). It was going to happen simply based on the ratio of men to women on this site. I'm sure every woman that posts on here could tell some stories; it's a veritable right of passage (derogatory). :cautious:

It will eventually slow down, especially if you establish firm boundaries. And don't let the weirdos get you down; the Ignore button is a wonderful tool.
 
So I joined lit this morning. Within minutes I had 24 messages. It’s like everyone pounced at once.
What are your fetishes, fantasies, wanna see my cock….what the hell?
It helps get all the fucktard bad apples out of the way fast.

Ignore them and you won’t have to worry about them any more. There are good people out there worth finding. Welcome to Lit.
 
So I joined lit this morning. Within minutes I had 24 messages. It’s like everyone pounced at once.
What are your fetishes, fantasies, wanna see my cock….what the hell?
I guess I am naive. I sort of thought that didn't start until after a woman posted her first sexually suggestive message.
I decided to take a look at your profile, even though I suppose that 20 or more of those men didn't bother. For anyone interested, it reads:

"Sex is an activity, shared by like minds and personalities. Freedom, exhilaration, stress relief, gratification. The more we think about it, the more we want it.
Feel free."

If I was in a snide mood, I would point to the "Feel Free" statement and posit that these men are just feeling very free.

But, perhaps, one would notice the "like minds and personalities" part. Someone might suggest that any gentleman who wanted to get free with you would first want to learn something about your mind and personality and interests.

And then, at least pretend to share some of those intersts.
 
I guess I am naive. I sort of thought that didn't start until after a woman posted her first sexually suggestive message.
I decided to take a look at your profile, even though I suppose that 20 or more of those men didn't bother. For anyone interested, it reads:

"Sex is an activity, shared by like minds and personalities. Freedom, exhilaration, stress relief, gratification. The more we think about it, the more we want it.
Feel free."

If I was in a snide mood, I would point to the "Feel Free" statement and posit that these men are just feeling very free.

But, perhaps, one would notice the "like minds and personalities" part. Someone might suggest that any gentleman who wanted to get free with you would first want to learn something about your mind and personality and interests.

And then, at least pretend to share some of those intersts.
I get that but I didn’t fill that out until later, had 10 messages before a description. I don’t mind the attention, just wasn’t expecting it so fast
 
I get that but I didn’t fill that out until later, had 10 messages before a description. I don’t mind the attention, just wasn’t expecting it so fast
That's good that you are enjoying it. You do have a sexy AV, but there are a lot of sexy women on Lit. (I would even venture to say that nearly all of them are sexy. Maybe even some of the ones who aren't really women. LOL. Not really.0
But, now that you have said that you enjoy the attention, it may accelerate.
 
I wonder ..... How a "newbie" can within 12 hours of joining

#1 Find the Forums where most of those new to Lit are reading stories.
#2 Find the forums and be slipping right into the threads
#3 Find and post an Avatar
#4 Be comfortable creating the profile you did.

I don't think you're as new as you claim but just another ALT for someone that knows the Lit real well. Don't know this for fact BUT is my general observation.
 
I wonder ..... How a "newbie" can within 12 hours of joining

#1 Find the Forums where most of those new to Lit are reading stories.
#2 Find the forums and be slipping right into the threads
#3 Find and post an Avatar
#4 Be comfortable creating the profile you did.

I don't think you're as new as you claim but just another ALT for someone that knows the Lit real well. Don't know this for fact BUT is my general observation.
Most people can do all of those things in under an hour. None of it’s that complicated.
 
I wonder ..... How a "newbie" can within 12 hours of joining

#1 Find the Forums where most of those new to Lit are reading stories.
#2 Find the forums and be slipping right into the threads
#3 Find and post an Avatar
#4 Be comfortable creating the profile you did.

I don't think you're as new as you claim but just another ALT for someone that knows the Lit real well. Don't know this for fact BUT is my general observation.
Interesting take....I guess maybe this happens a lot?
 
So I joined lit this morning. Within minutes I had 24 messages. It’s like everyone pounced at once.
What are your fetishes, fantasies, wanna see my cock….what the hell?
I’ll just say welcome and take it slow. It’s great to have you here. Pick and choose who you want to chat with. Lit is a great place to air out anything that crosses your mind.
 
So I joined lit this morning. Within minutes I had 24 messages. It’s like everyone pounced at once.
What are your fetishes, fantasies, wanna see my cock….what the hell?
Lit can be like that... oscillates between tidal waves and dead calm seas... as some have said, it slightly helps filter out the crap from the genuine : ] just do things your way, have fun and explore and remember you can step back or stop or whatever at any time, always your choice and control. Least that's my view (y) Welcome anyway, hope you're enjoying things so far :giggle:
 
So I joined lit this morning. Within minutes I had 24 messages. It’s like everyone pounced at once.
What are your fetishes, fantasies, wanna see my cock….what the hell?

sorry you had to deal with that! Hopefully most of them were polite, but I am sure some were less than. I struggle with how and when to PM, without wanting to cross those lines. I hope you find your place here, that it slows down, and you can enjoy yourself:)
 
Welcome to Lit!

You're a self-identified woman in a sea of wankers (literally). It was going to happen simply based on the ratio of men to women on this site. I'm sure every woman that posts on here could tell some stories; it's a veritable right of passage (derogatory). :cautious:

It will eventually slow down, especially if you establish firm boundaries. And don't let the weirdos get you down; the Ignore button is a wonderful tool.

It makes me wonder, frequently, at least from the sub male perspective, how much of my ilk are really just like "I want to get off," and how many are like "I want to be there for somebody else, and maybe that means I'll get off."
 
So I joined lit this morning. Within minutes I had 24 messages. It’s like everyone pounced at once.
What are your fetishes, fantasies, wanna see my cock….what the hell?
Well? Its a conversation starter

So what's your favorite cocktail? Do you want that served naked or with leather pants?
 
I know it's bad manners to propose one's own threads, insofar one can own a thread (I started it, sue me), but I think it's legit to be a little bit selfish at times and that leads me to the question, well, not exactly a question, but wait, come to think of it, how do I finish this darn sentence?
However:
https://forum.literotica.com/threads/a-beginners-guide-for-contacting-women.1622196/
I had fun writing it and maybe you and the other yous have fun reading it. Maybe you will find an idea how to reply.
 
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