New to MMF 3-some; need perspective

[SassySheDevil]

Don't mind? You would think you would down-right enjoy it!

You have me very curious about just watching.

haha meaning that it was fun. I enjoyed it. But I still prefer the one on one attention. DP is way more fun with two men then one man and a toy. So it was a learning experience, but I just find it hard to please another man when I'm being pleased. It as hard for me to focus on somone else while getting pleasured so the one who was getting my pleasure, probably felt cheated lol

 

[sugar_shaneh]

haha meaning that it was fun. I enjoyed it. But I still prefer the one on one attention. DP is way more fun with two men then one man and a toy. So it was a learning experience, but I just find it hard to please another man when I'm being pleased. It as hard for me to focus on somone else while getting pleasured so the one who was getting my pleasure, probably felt cheated lol

Would you prefer to have the men take turns? You saying that it is hard to focus on two while being pleasured is exactly what my wife has said.

 

[SassySheDevil]

Would you prefer to have the men take turns? You saying that it is hard to focus on two while being pleasured is exactly what my wife has said.

yes it was for me. Not saying it is for all women. But I just didn't feel like I was giving my best while being pleasured. So yes, either taking turns or understanding they are gonna get teased more then pleasured while I'm being pleasured lol.

 

[silverwhisper]

brian quoth:
peeling back the onion, i've discovered a whole new level of rich complexity here.

wait until the reality, dude. :>

while i'm not asking for a lit story or anything, i think i speak for all of us in wanting to know how it goes, at least generally. :>

ed

 

[sugar_shaneh]

yes it was for me. Not saying it is for all women. But I just didn't feel like I was giving my best while being pleasured. So yes, either taking turns or understanding they are gonna get teased more then pleasured while I'm being pleasured lol.

Im sure the teasing would help prolong the end. That wouldn't be all that bad of a thing...