EmilyMiller
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After the third bottle of wine with two of my lady friends, we got talking about piercings (one of them was pierced), they dared me and agreed to a show and tell if I did. So I got my nipples pierced about a year and a half ago. I love them and women love them. They are definitely more sensitive. I was with a new lady this weekend and she couldn't keep her hands off them
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There's finally something on an Emily post that I have actual experience with. I've never had nipple piercings, but way back when Ed Bradley (google is your friend if you don't know who he is) had a single diamond stud, and I thought it looked great so I got one. Then two, then three, then the other ear. I saw a couple of photos of punk rockers with safety pins in their ears, and since I had the holes, I gave it a try. That freaked people out.
A couple of decades later (early 90s), I read something about genital piercings, and it seemed like an interesting idea. My wife and I were regulars at the San Francisco Good Vibrations, so I asked for a recommendation for piercings. We ended up at a shop on Folsom Street that made Good Vibrations look like an Apple store (thinking about it, Good Vibrations did look like an Apple store). Entering the shop was a little like descending through the rings of hell but in a good way. The Dykes on Bikes jacket-wearing owners were kind and patiently explained everything and told me to step outside and walk around for a half hour to think it over.
I was determined. When we returned, my wife stayed in the front, and I was ushered into the curtained-off business section of the shop. I took my pants and underwear off and sat in a chair that was a combination of a hairdresser's shampooing chair and a gynecological exam chair. It had leg supports down to my feet, but separated and with access to my crotch. I'd kept shaved down there for years for nude modeling, so my inquisitor was pleasantly surprised she didn't have to do that chore. We proceeded directly to the procedure.
First were the two scrotal rings, one on each side. Those felt similar to an ear lobe piercing: a quick, sharp sting followed by a slight soreness, then another sting with the alcohol splash. I don't think they bled. The frenum piercing was another matter entirely. The ease of the scrotal work lulled me into believing it wouldn't be too bad. I was wrong about that. It was a sharp, searing pain that made me think passing out would work just fine to avoid. I didn't pass out, but I can say I never entertained the idea of having them done down the length of my dick (mine was near the tip). The very comforting practitioner said that she had regular customers that did have piercings down the length of their cocks and would orgasm when she pierced them. A whole realm of experience I will only imagine.
They all took a few weeks to heal before we could try them out. The scrotal rings were mostly decoration but would occasionally catch up in the seams of my briefs and provide some unexpected excitement to an otherwise dull day. Once my wife found out about that, she'd surreptitiously brush my crotch to enliven a dull class lecture. The frenum piercing was a straight bar with a steel ball on either end. My wife could feel the difference right at the opening, but once inside, it didn't make any difference. I could feel the unusual tugging, which was exciting until, like all such things, it became normal. It was the same with oral sex. Initially, the sensations were slightly different and interesting, then became normal.
The greatest benefit was in knowing we'd shared something intimately transgressive. A few years later, when everything was normalized, my wife would occasionally break out laughing, "You're fucking my ass with a steel bar." The other effect was on the occasional art student. I was asked many times if I could remove the jewelry as it upset some of the class members. I didn't have easily removable rings and bars, and although I was never kicked out of a session, I'm sure there were classes I wasn't invited back to.
With the frenum bar, after about a decade, the skin holding the bar became thinner, and I removed it to avoid tearing it out. I kept the scrotal rings a few years longer, but they also worked closer to the skin's surface, and I removed them as well.
A couple of decades later (early 90s), I read something about genital piercings, and it seemed like an interesting idea. My wife and I were regulars at the San Francisco Good Vibrations, so I asked for a recommendation for piercings. We ended up at a shop on Folsom Street that made Good Vibrations look like an Apple store (thinking about it, Good Vibrations did look like an Apple store). Entering the shop was a little like descending through the rings of hell but in a good way. The Dykes on Bikes jacket-wearing owners were kind and patiently explained everything and told me to step outside and walk around for a half hour to think it over.
I was determined. When we returned, my wife stayed in the front, and I was ushered into the curtained-off business section of the shop. I took my pants and underwear off and sat in a chair that was a combination of a hairdresser's shampooing chair and a gynecological exam chair. It had leg supports down to my feet, but separated and with access to my crotch. I'd kept shaved down there for years for nude modeling, so my inquisitor was pleasantly surprised she didn't have to do that chore. We proceeded directly to the procedure.
First were the two scrotal rings, one on each side. Those felt similar to an ear lobe piercing: a quick, sharp sting followed by a slight soreness, then another sting with the alcohol splash. I don't think they bled. The frenum piercing was another matter entirely. The ease of the scrotal work lulled me into believing it wouldn't be too bad. I was wrong about that. It was a sharp, searing pain that made me think passing out would work just fine to avoid. I didn't pass out, but I can say I never entertained the idea of having them done down the length of my dick (mine was near the tip). The very comforting practitioner said that she had regular customers that did have piercings down the length of their cocks and would orgasm when she pierced them. A whole realm of experience I will only imagine.
They all took a few weeks to heal before we could try them out. The scrotal rings were mostly decoration but would occasionally catch up in the seams of my briefs and provide some unexpected excitement to an otherwise dull day. Once my wife found out about that, she'd surreptitiously brush my crotch to enliven a dull class lecture. The frenum piercing was a straight bar with a steel ball on either end. My wife could feel the difference right at the opening, but once inside, it didn't make any difference. I could feel the unusual tugging, which was exciting until, like all such things, it became normal. It was the same with oral sex. Initially, the sensations were slightly different and interesting, then became normal.
The greatest benefit was in knowing we'd shared something intimately transgressive. A few years later, when everything was normalized, my wife would occasionally break out laughing, "You're fucking my ass with a steel bar." The other effect was on the occasional art student. I was asked many times if I could remove the jewelry as it upset some of the class members. I didn't have easily removable rings and bars, and although I was never kicked out of a session, I'm sure there were classes I wasn't invited back to.
With the frenum bar, after about a decade, the skin holding the bar became thinner, and I removed it to avoid tearing it out. I kept the scrotal rings a few years longer, but they also worked closer to the skin's surface, and I removed them as well.
KachinaDoll
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No piercings or tattoos. Hubby doesn't either but my girlfriend has a belly bar.
RachelWalsh
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No tattoos is hot.
HordHolm
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I have a friend who has his nipples pierced. He used to (and maybe still does) go to fetish clubs wearing a custom made gladiator muscle cuirass... with nipple rings moulded into the muscle cuirass. It looks seriously cool to my mind, though my wife finds it weird.
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I should add that the guy has the physique and look to pull off the gladiator thing. Without wanting to note anything that might reveal him (and thus me), he is Italian and has long dark hair and the swimmer body shape. Women literally fall at his feet (literally - I've seen it).
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How utterly creative of him. I hope it was always a good vibration.
Maybe I can talk Jo into getting one. NAW, I'm sure I can't.
I don't know, I'm not a guy, my tongue isn't pierced, and I don't don't suck guys.Goes the same way with the ladies though, and vibrating tongue rings are a thing.
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Umm, well, sounds like a personal problem to me. I guess the way you can find out, well, you can figure that out, right?
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Huh?
SeraphNocturne
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Oh no, I meant that as a woman into women they can still have an awesome purpose. Especially if your tongue ring vibrates. I've had it done though, it's a pain, and can damage your teeth if you're not careful. I didn't keep it for very long.
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I wasn't posting that to you. That was for @RachelWalsh. I have this annoying habit, as many have told me, of posting the response before I post the comment it was too.
SeraphNocturne
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All good Mrs. Dynamite.
DustofFallenStars
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I have no personal experience with piercings, but I once ended up in one of those candid-revealing-discussions-over-drinks with a girl who regretted them.
She had previously always had quite sensitive and arousing nipples, to the point where breast play was pretty much enough foreplay to set up an enjoyable sexual encounter for both participants, but after she lost some sensitivity and struggled with arousal from nipple play alone. She basically had to learn foreplay again in her early 20's, and ultimately had them removed. Unfortunately the full sensitivity never returned and she was left in a place where her partner had to actually put a 'normal' amount of effort to get her motor revving, so to speak.
She was a new mum when I met her, and she was at least a little philosophical about losing some sensitivity prior to breastfeeding; the loss had been disappointing for the better part of a decade, but she was somewhat grateful not to have a hairtrigger sensitivity to latching and the wear-and-tear newborns can put breasts through (this was actually where the conversation had started).
She also slipped in the fact that she had sometimes let her current partner look at her selfies from back then as an occasional form of foreplay, and he was appreciative of her 'wild phase', so years later they were actually finally paying off as the sexual enhancer they were intended to be. Although overall, her personal feelings were (at that time) mostly of regret, and she respected and accepted hers was an unusual bad case, but from her perspective, she didn't think the risk worth it.
Personally I have no problems with piercings or tattoos; some appeal, some don't, and I tend to take each on a case-by-case basis within the context of the person wearing them. I won't deny that I find body modification as a sign of devotion and commitment hot in the context of erotica, but that's really about the emotional intent rather than the physical or aesthetic outcome (that's just a bonus).
She had previously always had quite sensitive and arousing nipples, to the point where breast play was pretty much enough foreplay to set up an enjoyable sexual encounter for both participants, but after she lost some sensitivity and struggled with arousal from nipple play alone. She basically had to learn foreplay again in her early 20's, and ultimately had them removed. Unfortunately the full sensitivity never returned and she was left in a place where her partner had to actually put a 'normal' amount of effort to get her motor revving, so to speak.
She was a new mum when I met her, and she was at least a little philosophical about losing some sensitivity prior to breastfeeding; the loss had been disappointing for the better part of a decade, but she was somewhat grateful not to have a hairtrigger sensitivity to latching and the wear-and-tear newborns can put breasts through (this was actually where the conversation had started).
She also slipped in the fact that she had sometimes let her current partner look at her selfies from back then as an occasional form of foreplay, and he was appreciative of her 'wild phase', so years later they were actually finally paying off as the sexual enhancer they were intended to be. Although overall, her personal feelings were (at that time) mostly of regret, and she respected and accepted hers was an unusual bad case, but from her perspective, she didn't think the risk worth it.
Personally I have no problems with piercings or tattoos; some appeal, some don't, and I tend to take each on a case-by-case basis within the context of the person wearing them. I won't deny that I find body modification as a sign of devotion and commitment hot in the context of erotica, but that's really about the emotional intent rather than the physical or aesthetic outcome (that's just a bonus).
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No piercings or tattoos here. I intend to leave this world with the same number of holes in my body that I entered it — no more and no less.
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I would not recommend nipple piercings to anyone I love in real life - for all the reasons already cited: nipples can, in the fullness of time, be useful for other things. However, I must admit, in porn and smut, they are hot as fuck. Here's a story I wrote featuring them:
Tits!
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I think the appeal of piercings lies in the willingness to sublimate function in favor of potential pleasure given, and the basic attention to and sacrifice for sexuality.
That's hot. The idea that someone would harm themselves, to give pleasure to others, is arousing (particularly to anyone with dominant tendencies). The idea that someone thinks being sexy is that important is arousing.
But I mostly don't see it as such. I think function's more important. Nipples are for arousal and breastfeeding, on the simplest level, and I don't want those purposes subverted without clear intent. Mostly, I don't much like nipple piercings.
I've experienced a few. Sometimes they aided in arousal, sometimes not. I'm unconvinced that overall they're sexy, to me. I'm not opposed, but then I wouldn't suggest them to a partner.
Earrings and nose rings and eyebrow piercings are ok. Belly rings are ok. They have the upsides of piercings without the downsides. Fair enough.
Tongue piercings aren't terribly functional. They cause harm to teeth and inhibit speech (even if only a little) and are infection risks. I don't find them a turnon. I haven't found that they objectively improve blowjobs, beyond sometimes belonging to people who WANTED to give really good blowjobs. I think they could have accomplished that without the piercings, honestly.
Which is to say...
THIS.
That's hot. The idea that someone would harm themselves, to give pleasure to others, is arousing (particularly to anyone with dominant tendencies). The idea that someone thinks being sexy is that important is arousing.
But I mostly don't see it as such. I think function's more important. Nipples are for arousal and breastfeeding, on the simplest level, and I don't want those purposes subverted without clear intent. Mostly, I don't much like nipple piercings.
I've experienced a few. Sometimes they aided in arousal, sometimes not. I'm unconvinced that overall they're sexy, to me. I'm not opposed, but then I wouldn't suggest them to a partner.
Earrings and nose rings and eyebrow piercings are ok. Belly rings are ok. They have the upsides of piercings without the downsides. Fair enough.
Tongue piercings aren't terribly functional. They cause harm to teeth and inhibit speech (even if only a little) and are infection risks. I don't find them a turnon. I haven't found that they objectively improve blowjobs, beyond sometimes belonging to people who WANTED to give really good blowjobs. I think they could have accomplished that without the piercings, honestly.
Which is to say...
THIS.
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I've had a Prince Albert twice. The first time I took it out after a couple weeks.
The second one was a larger gauge and I took it out after about a week because it wasn't healing well, kept bleeding. The mattress looked like a murder had been committed.
I wasn't with anyone at the time so no idea how it would have been received and masturbation was kind of a hassle to be honest.
Peeing wasn't too bad, I just rotated the head and it prevented spraying everywhere.
The second one was a larger gauge and I took it out after about a week because it wasn't healing well, kept bleeding. The mattress looked like a murder had been committed.
I wasn't with anyone at the time so no idea how it would have been received and masturbation was kind of a hassle to be honest.
Peeing wasn't too bad, I just rotated the head and it prevented spraying everywhere.
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I have a fantasy of having a Prince Albert piercing chained to a naval piercing so that my limp shaft is held up while the balls I carry for Miss are exposed for her amusement.
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I don't have peircings other than my ears. I do have a tat of tiger, but none of you will see it. I don't show boobage to strangers.
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I'm pretty vanilla as well.
I have several ear piercings. I did experiment with a side nose piercing but then got the flu. Had a terrible runny nose, and decided it just felt wrong.
I also have my belly button pierced. I seldom wear jewellery in it as it kept getting caught on my polyester cotton blend cycling outfit when I go mountain biking. It was fun, but I think I grew out of it.
I did date a girl who had both nipples pierced and she absolutely loved them. (So did I) They were fun to play with.
She loved nipple play and could orgasm without any other stimulation. That happened before she got the piercings. She got them in the hope it would increase her sensitivity and enjoyment. Which is exactly what happened.
Personally I loved playing with the little bars. Flicking them with my tongue. Nibbling and pulling on them (Gently) She adored it as well.
She tried to get me to follow suit, but I was too chicken.
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