Opinions needed concerning women....

[elfin_odalisque]

Everyone means well and gives good advice - I specially go with Cloudy.

Bit older than you but when 'other' turned into SO, he told me he'd been stuck into Billy Joel to find a kinda balance without getting too hyper;

Maybe this won't last very long
But you feel so right
And I could be wrong
Maybe I've been hoping too hard
But I've gone this far
And it's more than I hoped for.

Who knows how much further we'll go on
Maybe I'll be sorry when you're gone
I'll take my chances
I forgot how nice romance is
I haven't been there for the longest time.

we've made 5 years and counting.

All my good wishes and keep us posted.

 

[SnoopDog]

Everyone means well and gives good advice - I specially go with Cloudy.

Bit older than you but when 'other' turned into SO, he told me he'd been stuck into Billy Joel to find a kinda balance without getting too hyper;

Maybe this won't last very long
But you feel so right
And I could be wrong
Maybe I've been hoping too hard
But I've gone this far
And it's more than I hoped for.

Who knows how much further we'll go on
Maybe I'll be sorry when you're gone
I'll take my chances
I forgot how nice romance is
I haven't been there for the longest time.

we've made 5 years and counting.

All my good wishes and keep us posted.

Thnx a lot...and keep on counting.

Snoopy

 

[Belegon]

sounds like things are fine buddy...just remember not to put pressure on yourself as much as you can* and enjoy the company...


* I know that you can't help but stress some. I am often the angst-ridden type myself. Just do the best you can *wink*

 

[Honey123]

Snoop there are signs if she is attracted to you...

A certain way she may touch you, without really needing to; although some may say that that doesn't necessarily mean she is attracted to you...but I think you could tell in the way her hand may linger on yours....

A certain way she brings your attention to her body, by touching herself...(Don't get perverted here, fellows!) I mean does she touch her neck in a certain way, bring your attention to her body by touching or brushing off a pretend piece of lint?

Does she end these "talk" sessions with a hug?

Also, does she go out of her way to be with you. The two of you seem to walk by your house alot...does she live by you? Or is she going out of her way so she can stay and talk with you?

You don't have to be obsessive on these particular "signs", but eventually she will make them become more apparent, especially if she is attracted to you.

But I do agree with everyone here, relax, enjoy this time. You met a girl who is really nice and fun....go with the flow!!!!

 

[fairysong]

Ok, I said I'd keep you guys updated so here's the news.

Yesterday we had our class together again. Me and her and two other co-eds were going home afterwards (it was quarter to nine p.m.) and it rained like...no it poured. So the other two rushed out into the rain, getting their bus. Me and her, since she couldn't run through the rain (her shoes...) wanted to wait till the rain stopped. But the building was set to be closed at nine so we had to walk through the rain. We ended up both soaked at a bus station where our ways would seperate. I asked her for her plans for the weekend and she told me she was going home over the weekend. However we agreed on doing something together next week. We swapped cell-phone-numbers. But then, both completely soaked and freezing, didn't go home into our warm and dry places but stayed at that bus stop, talking again up to 3.30 a.m. or something like that. We both had a great discussion...again, and made fun about the fact that this seems to be a recurring theme (us sitting at a bus stop through the entire night) I tried to get close to her, touch her now and then, looking deep into her eyes, but she still was a bit reluctant though not completely turned off. However, at one point when we were alone (people came and went all the time, some of them thinking us pretty stupid I suppose, but who cares) she asked me if I and this other co-ed we're seeing each other because if so she'd feel uncomfortable spending the whole night with me. I told her it wasn't so.
We then talked and talked and later agreed on going to the movies on tuesday and also that the next wednesday, instead of talking the entire night at some bus stop catching a cold, we'll go to her place.

So, looks pretty good so far, right?

Snoopy

A big YAY for you snoopy!! Think things are looking good My fingers, wings and toes are crossed for you.

 

[lil_elvis]

Sounds like things are going great for you Snoop.

There's been a lot of good advice here, but what I agree most with is being patient and getting to know her as a friend first. My wife and I got to know each other as friends well before our first date (over 3 years for various reasons, the biggest of which was that we worked in the same company, but were also dating others on and off, so the timing was difficult too). Anyhow, once that special moment arrived, there was no turning back and was the basis for my first lit story.

Celebrated our 20th anniversary yesterday.

 

[Quiet_Cool]

Simply put: SHe wouldn't be sitting (standing... whatever) outside your house talking to you until 6 a.m. (unless you started talking at 5:58 a.m., that is...) unless she had some positive interest. The girl likes you, and her asking about you seeing or not seeing this other girl and made comment of being uncomfortable should that be the case, not to mention afterward making plans with you to see this movie (a specifically planned event for the two of you to be together).

On a side note: Don't fall in love just yet. I know, you can't help it, but that's where all this pressure comes from that everyone keeps talking about. Stay cool, like you obviously have been, and play it by ear. Don't get caught up in anything but the moment.

This might be a good thing, but it might wind up being casual. Don't try to force it to be something it's not. Like everyone's said: she likes you, and so long as you stay relaxed and be yourself, she'll continue to.

Damned if we're not all proud of our little Snoop Dogg.... *sniff*

He's growing up, guys (and the rest of us are getting old fast... )

Good luck, buddy. And something that I already said but not so clearly. Be yourself; you can't mess this up is you be who you are and let the situation be what it is.

Q_C

 

[Liar]

Wanna know the best part about it, I think I'm really in love.

Kinad nifty feeling, innit?

 

[SnoopDog]

Kinad nifty feeling, innit?

Yep, kinda.

sounds like things are fine buddy...just remember not to put pressure on yourself as much as you can* and enjoy the company...


* I know that you can't help but stress some. I am often the angst-ridden type myself. Just do the best you can *wink*

I'm trying not to put any pressure on me but that's difficult. (As you know). The biggest fear that I have is doing something wrong and missing my one chance.

Sounds like things are going great for you Snoop.

There's been a lot of good advice here, but what I agree most with is being patient and getting to know her as a friend first. My wife and I got to know each other as friends well before our first date (over 3 years for various reasons, the biggest of which was that we worked in the same company, but were also dating others on and off, so the timing was difficult too). Anyhow, once that special moment arrived, there was no turning back and was the basis for my first lit story.

Celebrated our 20th anniversary yesterday.

Well, congratulations. I'm always envious when I see a happy relationship but really, that's a great thing both of you should be proud of. I'm afraid I couldn't be THAT patient and wait 3 years. Hell, I can't wait to see her again next week, and it's only Friday yet.

Snoop there are signs if she is attracted to you...

A certain way she may touch you, without really needing to; although some may say that that doesn't necessarily mean she is attracted to you...but I think you could tell in the way her hand may linger on yours....

A certain way she brings your attention to her body, by touching herself...(Don't get perverted here, fellows!) I mean does she touch her neck in a certain way, bring your attention to her body by touching or brushing off a pretend piece of lint?

Does she end these "talk" sessions with a hug?

Also, does she go out of her way to be with you. The two of you seem to walk by your house alot...does she live by you? Or is she going out of her way so she can stay and talk with you?

You don't have to be obsessive on these particular "signs", but eventually she will make them become more apparent, especially if she is attracted to you.

But I do agree with everyone here, relax, enjoy this time. You met a girl who is really nice and fun....go with the flow!!!!

Well, she touches me now and then and it seems to be like she's doing it to gimme signs. But when you're falling in love you'll probably always think so. I'm afraid I'm missreading it or rather the butterflies inside me make me misread those signs.

I don't know about the bringing attention to her body. She was very cold that day and constantly rubbed her shoulders. I tried to talk to her about it, but I was too shy and afraid to just put my arm around her and warm her. (I'm always afraid she only wants to be frinds and might be offended by it) But my body language certainly left her the option of getting into my arms which she didn't take.
She's often playing with her hair, which always makes me go crazy because it's so sexy.

We hug at the end of the conversation but I started it and it's usually not a very long hug.

But last time she definitely did go out of her way to talk with me because she could have just parted and left. (Her house was the other direction)

Anyways, I am really enjoying it.

A big YAY for you snoopy!! Think things are looking good My fingers, wings and toes are crossed for you.

Oh sweetheart, that'S so nice of you. But you that my paws, toes and everything else is crossed FOR YOU which is way more important.

Snoopy

 

[lil_elvis]

Well, congratulations. I'm always envious when I see a happy relationship but really, that's a great thing both of you should be proud of. I'm afraid I couldn't be THAT patient and wait 3 years. Hell, I can't wait to see her again next week, and it's only Friday yet.

Snoopy

I'm a slow learner.

 

[SnoopDog]

You wanted an update, didn't you ?

Here it is....

http://www.darkharbor.com/snoopydance/assets/images/01snooopy.gif


Been to the movies yesterday (War of the Worlds), just the two of us. Afterwards, like instinctively, we walked homw instead of taking the bus or train. We arrived at my place again and kept talking in front of it. I slwoly got closer to her, looking into her eyes for longer periods. She seemed interested but I wasn'T sure. Then after an hour of talking or so I gathered all my remaining courage and took her hand, caressing it. (As silly or childish as it may sound) We then looked at each other and she said something (can't actually remember what it was) that gave me the signal to kiss her. Being the idiot that I am I replied that I was a real coward. She said, "You don't have to be." So I kissed her and ....well, to quote Lester Burnham in 'American Beauty'...Man oh man oh man oh man.

Yeah.

Snoopy

 

[English Lady]

You wanted an update, didn't you ?

Here it is....

http://www.darkharbor.com/snoopydance/assets/images/01snooopy.gif


Been to the movies yesterday (War of the Worlds), just the two of us. Afterwards, like instinctively, we walked homw instead of taking the bus or train. We arrived at my place again and kept talking in front of it. I slwoly got closer to her, looking into her eyes for longer periods. She seemed interested but I wasn'T sure. Then after an hour of talking or so I gathered all my remaining courage and took her hand, caressing it. (As silly or childish as it may sound) We then looked at each other and she said something (can't actually remember what it was) that gave me the signal to kiss her. Being the idiot that I am I replied that I was a real coward. She said, "You don't have to be." So I kissed her and ....well, to quote Lester Burnham in 'American Beauty'...Man oh man oh man oh man.

Yeah.

Snoopy

Yay for the beagle! *happy dances with snoopy* Can we all chorus a "we told ya so" *grins* thats great to hear love, well done for reading signals, balling up your courage and just doing it

 

[SnoopDog]

Yay for the beagle! *happy dances with snoopy* Can we all chorus a "we told ya so" *grins* thats great to hear love, well done for reading signals, balling up your courage and just doing it

Thnx a lot. I really feel like a teenager experiencing first love. Basically because I AM experiencing first love. I could barely sleep last night, butterflies. Can't wait to see her again today. Holding hands, all that stuff.
And you know what.
I LOVE it.

Snoopy

 

[minsue]

 

[impressive]

Snoop, THANK YOU for sharing. Falling in love is so much better than stepping in it.

 

[SnoopDog]

Snoop, THANK YOU for sharing. Falling in love is so much better than stepping in it.

Wow, that's actually a great quote. Permission to use it in my sig?

Snoopy

 

[impressive]

Wow, that's actually a great quote. Permission to use it in my sig?

Snoopy

Go for it!

 

[SnoopDog]

Go for it!

Thnx.

Snoopy

 

[Honey123]

So Snoop...is this "puppy love"?

So happy for you!!!

es and {{hugs}}

 

[SnoopDog]

So Snoop...is this "puppy love"?

So happy for you!!!

es and {{hugs}}

Thnx-a-million.



Snoopy

 

[fairysong]

Woot!!! *flying over sitting on your shoulders and giving you a kiss*

Snoopy, that is great news. It made me smile

 

[SnoopDog]

Woot!!! *flying over sitting on your shoulders and giving you a kiss*

Snoopy, that is great news. It made me smile

Thnx sweetheart. Your crossed fingers and good woshes made it happen.

Snoopy

 

[moonlight elf]

Snoopy!!!!!! *smooch* I'm so happy for you. I'll still keep my fingers crossed and send more magical thoughts your way.

~Moonlight, happy for snoopy

 

[SnoopDog]

Snoopy!!!!!! *smooch* I'm so happy for you. I'll still keep my fingers crossed and send more magical thoughts your way.

~Moonlight, happy for snoopy

And it sure did help. *smooch*

Thnx honey.


BTW, gonna spend the weekend with her. We're gonna drive home to her place and spend the weekend with her friends. It's gonna be fun.

Snoopy

 

[SnoopDog]

And it sure did help. *smooch*

Thnx honey.


BTW, gonna spend the weekend with her. We're gonna drive home to her place and spend the weekend with her friends. It's gonna be fun.

Snoopy

Oh boy, what a nice weekend that was. Had a very good time. Lots of laugh, lots of kissing, some serious talk. Everything about it enjoyable.

Snoopy,