Orgasm by chat?

[longbutlonely]

Is it possible to truly have a deep fulfilling orgasm with cybersex? I'm kinda new to this ladies but I'd love to try.

 

[DevilsAngel369]

Is it possible to truly have a deep fulfilling orgasm with cybersex? I'm kinda new to this ladies but I'd love to try.

Its possible, but it trouely depends on your mind frame, who your chatting with, and what kind of connection are you "sharing"

 

[SweetErika]

Yes, for many people it's entirely possible. If you're looking to find a cyberbuddy, check out the Lit (or other adult-oriented) Personals, or the chat here. I've heard a lot of people have had good luck with yahoo chat as well.

 

[mikeofokc]

Yep, Of course. Its between your ears anyway

Heck its same as orgasming or masterbating to Porn, erotic stories, private thoughts, fantasies or anything that stimulates the erotic mental image that excites you. While sex between two persons involves physical stimulation it is still what is between your ears that allows for the orgasm. Otherwise if our minds were not 90% of great sex we could all enjoy the bearded lady or the bald midget rodeo clown and not worry about looks, age, attitude, her parents or when her husbands got home.

Of course it helps to read stories or chat with someone that has some common interest or shared fetish. If you like women and she likes men is what I mean and not that you both like women. I like women and have tried to earn the tital as a Lesbian but I failed the Lez exam. Watch out for the spelling portion, Stirrups and PMS was easy but what normal red blooded American male knows how to spell Speculum let alone how it feels or what its used for. All I could think to use it for was as an ice tong. Worked pretty good for the ice but every date I had over left before I even put the alcohol in her glass. Go figure! Maybe they all didnt like Lesbians and thought I was one in training. You think they would unblock my calls and tell me the problem after I sent each of them one for Christmas last year. Maybe this year I will put a note on it telling them to open before christmas so they can hang it on the tree or put it on top of the tree like I did. Mom and aunt Ethyl were impressed because they didnt even ask me to get the ice tongs down and went strait to the mini bar and drank that full gallon of Jack Daniels.

Well good luck in your cybersex venture. Just hope you dont chat with someone as mental as me but if you do then Merry Christmas if your phone quits working too.

 

[Leeleigh]

Is it possible to truly have a deep fulfilling orgasm with cybersex? I'm kinda new to this ladies but I'd love to try.

If you want a fulfulling orgasm you first have to make a friend.. and by that I mean you have to get to know someone and become a friend. That way they are just as interested as you are in giving and receiving pleasure.

Read posts and find someone who interests you. Start talking to them either there, or in pm.. if they have instant messenger and are willing to share addy's, then do so... But get to know each her, likes, dislikes etc.. before you broach the subject.

 

[AAkasha]

Is it possible to truly have a deep fulfilling orgasm with cybersex? I'm kinda new to this ladies but I'd love to try.

It's getting easier for women, that's for sure. Doc Johnson came out with the famous "rabbit" vibrator -- now controlled remotely via a chat room interface.

http://www.highjoyproducts.com/detail.aspx?ID=3

Akasha

 

[Leeleigh]

It's getting easier for women, that's for sure. Doc Johnson came out with the famous "rabbit" vibrator -- now controlled remotely via a chat room interface.

http://www.highjoyproducts.com/detail.aspx?ID=3

Akasha

Now thats interesting... lol, I can put my regular rabbit in, have a conversation online and have the same reaction.. I would rather control when I am going to have my orgasm so that we both attain bliss.

 

[pelzkugeln]

Only once have I ever had an orgasm online. It was with a chap I found whilst trolling the chat rooms. My situation is that I am married and am always looking for that little bit extra. Anyway - I found this chap (unfortunately I've never come across him again) in a Yahoo chatroom - there was no web-cam, no image, just his words - and, oh! boy! he said all the right things to get me there. A lovely experience.
I've tried it with others, with me on a web-cam etc - but have never regained the experience.

He's still out there, isn't he?

 

[SlyKitten]

I think it is possible to have deep, fulfilling orgasms via cyber sex, just as it is possible to have deep, fulfilling orgasms by yourself. It all depends on how well you connect with your partner.

I used to have this wonderful online play partner; intelligent, creative, open minded, cute... haven't heard from him in a while though. Orgasms with him are always powerful and fulfilling, whether he is on the other side of the box or not (I often play by myself thinking of him) I consider him a friend. Actually, I consider all my regular play partners like friends.

I guess online play is just like real life play; if you have a good experience with a person, you'll come back for more.

 

[Leeleigh]

I guess online play is just like real life play; if you have a good experience with a person, you'll come back for more.

Thats true.. but it does help if you have a friendship going.. then the other person is just as interested in giving you pleasure as you are in giving it to them..

I will suggest two things that will help if you are going to do that.

1) Invest in a webcam... Watching the other person.. even if it just their face is nice..

2) Invest in a microphone. Your hands are free....... need I say more?

 

[veronicamng]

Amazing when it happens, a shock and a bit scary exciting as well. Never thought I could orgasm by chat but after a few meetings online with the same person I felt comfortable enough to try.
Had to purchase another office chair after we finally finished.
Enough of a recommendation?

 

[Wet Lady Ariel]

New here to the boards, but a long time reader...Have not had too many cybersex experiences, more of the phone variety. But one of my kinkiest experiences was by cyber with another gal who was into watersports. We both proceeded to drink a lot of liquid and well she forewarned me to have a towel and a special trashcan handy. We held and held until we were ready to burst. Needless to say we both came as we let our bladders loose. And yes I think a microphone would have made this easier as well as intensify the experience...

 

[marriedmanseeks]

Orgasm alone is quite possible

(I'm sure we all know that!)

Orgasm with a little friendly encouragement and participation with someone whose company you enjoy online seems to offer possibilities too?

 

[Noor]

Quite possible. With certain partners, no need for web cam or even touching.

Missingman: I will still be here when you get back. There will still be a place in my life and for you, when you are ready we will find a safe place we both can live with. I have some ideas we could try.

 

[Lust Engine]

As someone who has given and received hot words across the chat room, I for one can attest to the power of some wicked verbage. But I also agree that you have to be in the right frame of mind. And I do believe, as is with real sex, there are varying degrees of competancy- some are better at it than others.

It very much mirrors real life to me. For instance even in chats, I like to give much more than I like to receive; that's not to say I don't mind being on the receiving end of things but I do so enjoy giving good word.

 

[Lust Engine]

Besides once you stimulate the mind, the body will soon follow.

Yum!

 

[drummer34]

I have had some very good orgasm's while chatting but i prefer to wait, for one it is hard to type fast with one hand My method: I usually take the chat as a "role play" writing all the good things you will do etc and it helps a lot if you are well spoken (which i dare say i am) and then afterwards i find a quiet spot preferably in the dark, close my eyes and starts recalling the chat while i masturbate. IT WORKS

 

[Lust Engine]

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Anybody have any idea what the &$#%#$ this person is saying?

 

[Wet Lady Ariel]

Maybe he's a virus? LOL!

I think to cum after the chat instead of during, sort of takes the whole interplay fun out of it. There is a certain excitement to cumming and revealing that you are cumming to another person either via cyber or on the phone...and when you see the same in them, ah then there can be fireworks!

 

[His_pita]

I've had bad and good cybersex. Very rarely has it been incredible until I fell in love with the man I am with now. Because we are only long distance at for the time being we have to be creative. I much prefer having him on the phone though.

 

[drummer34]

Anybody have any idea what the &$#%#$ this person is saying?

SPAM SPAM SPAM SPAM

 

[cmarlowe01]

Sure if you find a lady who is willing to go all the way.

 

[FurryFury]

Yes, it certainly is possible to orgasm from chat.

I rarely even touch myself during cyber. I prefer to keep myself on simmer so I can still enjoy things and type with both hands!

Still I have been known to come from words alone.

This one night? Now I'll admit I was sleep deprived and running a fever but one very smart and creative guy, his words just took me there. It didn't stop either. Each new post I got in my im box brought fresh waves. Man it was great!!!

As for the rabbit that someone else can control? No thanks! That is my bailiwick!
He he!

Fury

 

[Wet Lady Ariel]

Actually some sort of cyber remote device could be cool! Can you imagine if it was also camera enhanced, you could explore and tantalize your cyber friend,and they could enjoy an orgasm that was delivered by somebody else's devices...Of course it would need some sort of user overide, in case the cyber pal went overboard....

 

[stutterclutter]

I like the "foreplay" when cybering but I need phone sex or the real thing to get past a certain point. Anyone else find the long back and forth roll playing to be tedious?