Orgasm by chat?

[rainbow_panties]

cybering

It is a little tedious but for the most part I like it and it seems to work Ok for me.

 

[Lust Engine]

It is a little tedious but for the most part I like it and it seems to work Ok for me.

That could be said for real sex as well. I think it has to do with your partners. If you happen to have a really expressive partner and you're just in tune with them, the ecstacy can linger for a much longer time.

 

[FurryFury]

...Anyone else find the long back and forth roll playing to be tedious?

The pauses between, are when you should be touching yourself if you are going to. They should last no more than 2-4 minutes or your cyber chat partner is doing too many other things. Hopefully they are not doing too many other things and type something that sets you on fire and inspires you.

Then you might have to stop to type, prolonging things delightfully....

Fury

 

[marriedmanseeks]

The pauses between, are when you should be touching yourself if you are going to. They should last no more than 2-4 minutes or your cyber chat partner is doing too many other things. Hopefully they are not doing too many other things and type something that sets you on fire and inspires you.

Then you might have to stop to type, prolonging things delightfully....

Fury

I'm pausing already

 

[LeahLo519]

Is it possible to truly have a deep fulfilling orgasm with cybersex? I'm kinda new to this ladies but I'd love to try.

I've never actually gotten off from it...then again, I haven't done it a long time. I usually just prefer to have a casual conversation about sex.

 

[Lust Engine]

I've never actually gotten off from it...then again, I haven't done it a long time. I usually just prefer to have a casual conversation about sex.

It's a helluva good place to start.

 

[RedStilettos]

I find it quite easy to come during cyber. Not always the best, or most satisfying orgasms, but I've had a few that were mind-blowing. All depends on the guy, my mood, and how fluidly/quickly the chat is moving along. I like that it is easy to find someone to accomodate my different desires, depending on the mood I'm in that day. I don't often cum from penetration anyway - it's fingerplay that gets me going, so as long as I have 1 hand free, I'm good to go!

I admit, I'm always curious as to whether my 'partner' is really as in to it as I am - did he really cum, or is he just saying so? I don't have a webcam, so no telling for sure. I find it very arousing to know that my words have made him cum, and I'll usually go off if he describes his orgasm and cum to me.

 

[FurryFury]

I find it quite easy to come during cyber. Not always the best, or most satisfying orgasms, but I've had a few that were mind-blowing. All depends on the guy, my mood, and how fluidly/quickly the chat is moving along. I like that it is easy to find someone to accomodate my different desires, depending on the mood I'm in that day. I don't often cum from penetration anyway - it's fingerplay that gets me going, so as long as I have 1 hand free, I'm good to go!

I admit, I'm always curious as to whether my 'partner' is really as in to it as I am - did he really cum, or is he just saying so? I don't have a webcam, so no telling for sure. I find it very arousing to know that my words have made him cum, and I'll usually go off if he describes his orgasm and cum to me.

Hi RedStilettos!

My guess is he came. I mean really who usually has a harder time coming girls or guys? Ya know?

Sure we girls often like words better than guys but he could have another screen of up pictures too. *winks*

Fury

 

[RedStilettos]

True, I guess women do tend to like words more. I have this one guy i chat with, and we pick a porn site, and look at the pictures together, telling each other what we find hot about them, and how we would do that to each other.......works VERY well!

 

[Private_Label]

Is it possible to truly have a deep fulfilling orgasm with cybersex? I'm kinda new to this ladies but I'd love to try.

In my limited experience, yes, and no. One guy I tried it with once, and I never wanted to cyber with him again. His idea of a great experience was "here you ride my pole while I feel you up." No foreplay, no real getting to know my likes or dislikes... no excitement, no sizzle. It fizzled for me. :-(

On the other hand I have a friend who gave me three in 15 minutes one night, just from his words. Because he wanted me to be as excited as he was, he spent the time to make certain I was having fun. This same friend has given me a few more (maybe not as intense as that time, but damn fine ones still!). Once in a while he doesn't have the time to build me up and I let him know I need more verbal stimulation from him.

If you and your friend are willing to experiment a bit and see what works and excites you both, I don't see why it shouldn't be good.

I rarely even touch myself during cyber. I prefer to keep myself on simmer so I can still enjoy things and type with both hands!

My sentiments as well, but lately I have had to type one handed while I maul my own tits because they have started to absolutely burn from desire.

 

[PassionPrince]

I've never actually gotten off from it...then again, I haven't done it a long time. I usually just prefer to have a casual conversation about sex.

So, as I try to strike up a casual conversation about, sits down next to you and tells you that you look very sexy in that lingerie.

 

[Gibbons]

True, I guess women do tend to like words more.

In general I agree with you, but I must be the exception. I'm much more turned on by words (either written or spoken). It allows me to use my imagination more and I feel like more of an active participant. Visual images tend to override my attention and I'm more of a passive viewer. I even find that in person sometimes closing my eyes or being blindfolded greatly increases my arousal.

 

[Lust Engine]

Phew... it's a good thing I can type one handed and still spell well.

Admittedly when it comes to "giving" during cyber, my hands can be a blur across the keyboard in giving some pretty apt descriptions and painting as much of a "visual" as I can with words.

 

[JRaven]

The first time I had sex with someone other than my husband was through cybersex. It was a huge turn-on!
Since then, I've done it for real with a few different men. The idea of cybersex is no longer the turn it was.
I think that at first, it was more the idea of being with another man that was a turn on.

Jenny

 

[Lust Engine]

The first time I had sex with someone other than my husband was through cybersex. It was a huge turn-on!
Since then, I've done it for real with a few different men. The idea of cybersex is no longer the turn it was.
I think that at first, it was more the idea of being with another man that was a turn on.

Jenny

Anything mutually satisfying can have its own appeal.

 

[wicked woman]

Phew... it's a good thing I can type one handed and still spell well.

Admittedly when it comes to "giving" during cyber, my hands can be a blur across the keyboard in giving some pretty apt descriptions and painting as much of a "visual" as I can with words.

that's no fair! part of the fun is watching those typos ...kind of like hearing the moans and heavy breathing in RL...a sign of his excitement...do her a favour LE...make a few typos

 

[Lust Engine]

that's no fair! part of the fun is watching those typos ...kind of like hearing the moans and heavy breathing in RL...a sign of his excitement...do her a favour LE...make a few typos

A couple of UGHHHFFFFS and Oooooooo's & ahhhhhhhh's?

Did I type one too many o's or h's in that?

It is true though. When the action gets cooking, I'm hardly one to spell correctly but hopefully the other person understands what's going on. Damn, it is like real sex now!

 

[marriedmanseeks]

Orgasm by Mouse?

Have a go at this and if so inclined, say how you got on?

http://games.flabber.nl/orgasm.girl/

Yes I know it's not orgasm by chat, but it'll give you something to do while you wait and hope

 

[EA1973]

Before I got married, I had quite a bit of cybersex.. More fun with a partner who types rather quickly

 

[marriedmanseeks]

Before I got married, I had quite a bit of cybersex.. More fun with a partner who types rather quickly

Does that mean you've stopped now? No one type quickly enough for you?

 

[Lust Engine]

Before I got married, I had quite a bit of cybersex.. More fun with a partner who types rather quickly

Kinda gives a whole new meaning to "getting fingered"!

 

[Roadieeeeeee]

fulfilling orgasms

I'm an incurable romantic and have enjoyed very satisfying orgasms through cybersex with wonderful women. I like to get to know her through her writing and I like to help her get to know me. When the "chemistry" is right the results are very enjoyable.

Like any worthy investment, cybersex returns abundant rewards if the homework is properly performed.

Roadie

 

[harry johnson]

hello sly kitten....

it has been a while since we chatted...how have you been?....shall we yahoo some time?....au revoir...

 

[Arrow2891]

I was big into it a few years ago, but it has since gotten boring, and I don't do it anymore. It has to be phone sex.

 

[harry johnson]

i agree...

phone is best when there is nice chemistry...