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It has been a while, that's for sure.Ambrosia, it has been a long time my dear.
I trust life has been treating you well. Can I get you something to drink? Something cool and very intoxicating Miss?![]()
I hope you are doing well."She took the coffee from him and had a sip, closing her eyes in bliss.Morning Cait, I am doing well. How are you doing?
I fix her a mug of coffee with a wee touch of Irish.
Weather has been all over the place of late.
*rolls her eyes*Really Cait? I tease as I give her a sensual little hug.
Ummm yes you do feel good Miss. I trust that you are doing as the doc says. I pour Cait another spiked coffee.
Oh, how I long for cooler weather. Not cold, mind you, just cooler. This weekend we hit the high 90's if not a 100. UGH.Well first Miss do what the Doc says and rest your voice Cait!
The weather has broken here and the temps have been between mid 60's to upper 70's and a bit of rain every now and then.

I agree, for the most part CG. Where we differ is in levels. I think, depending on what exactly you're talking about, I don't think they have to be on the same level. Levels can be "reached" until they both stand on the same platform. Goals, on the other hand, I totally agree and that's all part of the communication process. I think simply establishing your basic relationship between each other needs to come first, then step into the D/s one. Because in my opinion, the D/s part is the hardest part UNLESS you have built up your basic relationship.The weather is turning cool and very wet of late as I sip my morning coffee. I ponder why people do not understand that the BDSM lifestyle is symbiotic where the Dom provides what their sub needs and the sub provides what the Dom needs. That being said their are two prominent requirements, the first is trust, which must be earned and takes time. The second is open and honest communications. Lastly not all Doms or all subs the right choice. A Dom and a sub must have the same goals and level in BDSM.
Just a thought.
Ahhhh. Yes, I totally agree with you in that case.Cait I was not thinking so much in terms of level but in terms of interest. A sub that is into in the MS aspect of BDSM is not a good match for a Dom that is into the BD end of the spectrum and is not into the SM end. That being said a Dom should help their sub expand their boundaries.