Pegging

I’ve brought up to my husband a couple of times. He seems intrigued by it. I told him how much it turns me on to fantasize about me pegging him while I reach around to stroke his cock.
Lucky husband that you want to do it to him
Hope you both have fun doing it
 
I am really craving being pegged at the moment (it's been a while for me since it happened). Do other people experience this - if you go without for a while that you get a real hankering for it. I think I'm going to have to find some time to have a long session with toys.
 
I have a fantasy about being tied down, completely helpless while I get pounded in the ass by a mistress. Only after a long while letting me cum by pumping my dick while ramming the strap-on even deeper in me. First I have to serve her my making her cum with only my mouth.

I have tried bringing up something like this with my wife but she is very vanilla. So I wanted to hear if anyone have experience with this and how it turned out.
I am usually very submissive butI have put ona strap on and pegged both a man and a few women. It was fun watching the man squirm and I loved that he was hard the whole time.
The women were perhaps more fun or fun in a different way.
I would do it again but I am usually more submissive and so it does not happen often
 
PSA:

Last couple of times I was at an adult shop I noticed that they still sell anal lube with numbing agents in them. Please do not do that to yourself or your partner. Any pain you're feeling is telling you to slow down or change tack, and the numbing will just take most of the fun away once you've gotten past the insertion phase. Numbness means injuries you're unaware of until later when it's too late to learn from your mistakes. Stay aware of what's going on with your body, so yo can communicate to your partner.
 
“Numbing” agent won’t even address the kind of pain that uncareful anal penetration generates. It’s like how aloe vera soothes a scrape but won’t do jack-shit for a stab wound.

If anal is giving a burning sensation, the numbing stuff can help with that but honestly you’ll be better off to just be clean before taking a peg. But uncareful penetration is not a superficial pain, it’s visceral.
 
“Numbing” agent won’t even address the kind of pain that uncareful anal penetration generates. It’s like how aloe vera soothes a scrape but won’t do jack-shit for a stab wound.

If anal is giving a burning sensation, the numbing stuff can help with that but honestly you’ll be better off to just be clean before taking a peg. But uncareful penetration is not a superficial pain, it’s visceral.
Well the numbing gel likely won't help with the latter anyway. But abrasions should still be controlled.
 
Well the numbing gel likely won't help with the latter anyway. But abrasions should still be controlled.
It's blowing my mind that "abrasion" is even being considered at all in this conversation! TF are people doing?

"Lube."
"More lube."
"More."
"Still not enough lube."
"More."

"Hey, what if we try this numbing kind so the abrasions don't hurt?"

"... What abrasions?"

It's like... yeah, you do want a lot of lube, but when you force open a sphincter under only-partially-voluntary control, the pain isn't from the friction if you're using any lube at all. It's more like a charley-horse in your ass.

Is it just me?
 
It's blowing my mind that "abrasion" is even being considered at all in this conversation! TF are people doing?

"Lube."
"More lube."
"More."
"Still not enough lube."
"More."

"Hey, what if we try this numbing kind so the abrasions don't hurt?"

"... What abrasions?"

It's like... yeah, you do want a lot of lube, but when you force open a sphincter under only-partially-voluntary control, the pain isn't from the friction if you're using any lube at all. It's more like a charley-horse in your ass.

Is it just me?
I would like to have some angry words with your partner(s) because Jesus Christ.

"Lube."
"More lube."
"More."
"Still not enough lube."
"More."

Only the first line of that conversation happens if you're already numb. That's the problem, particularly if you just loaded up with supplies from the store and thought hey anal is potentially owie and this makes it less owie let's go!

One of the important parts about hearing advice on the internet is realizing when the advice might be aimed at beginners and thus IS NOT ABOUT YOU and that you should sit on your hands.
 
lol, I was putting myself in the newby's shoes!

I'm not saying numbing stuff doesn't do anything. I do think that newbies should 100% anticipate that it is not going to do anything for the real pain risk of inexperienced anal. A spasming sphincter which doesn't want to do what you're trying to make it do hurts orders of magnitude more than some chafing.

And by "you" I'm not even talking about the top partner. This isn't about someone hammering through without being sensitive to the bottom. I'm talking about a hungry bottom going faster than their body wants to, because their brain wants it more.

It's like putting topical lidocaine lotion on your leg. If you're treating a sunburn, it will work. If you're treating a pulled muscle, it won't.
 
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I am usually very submissive butI have put ona strap on and pegged both a man and a few women. It was fun watching the man squirm and I loved that he was hard the whole time.
The women were perhaps more fun or fun in a different way.
I would do it again but I am usually more submissive and so it does not happen often
Sure there will be lots of guys and gals who'd volunteer to let you peg them
 
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