StrayKat
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Because its easier to perform in fantasy/cyber world than irl?
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Because its easier to perform in fantasy/cyber world than irl?
KinkyMichigan
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I also think that some men are afraid of living up to any sort of expectations their partner might have of them after their phone sex encounters. Assuming he was any good of course and their encounters were delicious...
I suppose that's a possible reason.
I think I just assume (incorrectly) that a real life meeting for sex is always wanted by all men.
I also think that some men are afraid of living up to any sort of expectations their partner might have of them after their phone sex encounters. Assuming he was any good of course and their encounters were delicious...
This also seems like a logical explanation.
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I've done it with a few friends I've met on here....it was a good time!
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I have had phone sex, but until recently only with partners I was already hooked up with. If one of us had to be out of town and were missing the other, the phone call would often end up with us having phone sex.
I've also had phone sex with someone I met here on Lit, after we'd developed a "chat" relationship and I felt comfortable with him. He had an incredibly sexy voice!
I've also had phone sex with someone I met here on Lit, after we'd developed a "chat" relationship and I felt comfortable with him. He had an incredibly sexy voice!
prnstartmntj
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As a guy I enjoy a little phone sex every now and again. It's just hard to find any ladies interested in it any more. Or it might just be me.
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phone sex - anonymous intimacy
I love phone sex. I love to use words to arouse and satisfy and the sound of a woman sighing and moaning as she masturbates with me is hugely erotic.
I love phone sex. I love to use words to arouse and satisfy and the sound of a woman sighing and moaning as she masturbates with me is hugely erotic.
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I've had phone sex with several people from here and most of my experiences have been very very good. I met most of my partners through an ad I placed when I first came here, and if you place an ad you'll surely be bombarded with interest.
As for tips, I like to get to know someone a little through PMs and/or chat before venturing to the phone or voice chat. As others have said, Skype works well as well as yahoo and msn voice chat. I've given my number to a few people and never had any problems with it, but others have given safety precautions if that's something you're worried about.
People have phone sex in different ways. Some like roleplaying, some like talking about what they would like to do to and with the other person, sometimes you can watch porn together, or just masturbate together and talk about what you're doing to yourself. I like having a bit of regular conversation with my phone sex, otherwise it feels like the guy is looking for a quick cum and nothing else. If he's looking for that, he'll have to look elsewhere.
For a while, I had phone sex almost every day and sometimes several times a day. The pleasure of it can sometimes be addictive and that's something to watch out for. Now I have it once in a while, in the right situation and with the right person. It has definitely been a vehicle for discovery for me.
As for tips, I like to get to know someone a little through PMs and/or chat before venturing to the phone or voice chat. As others have said, Skype works well as well as yahoo and msn voice chat. I've given my number to a few people and never had any problems with it, but others have given safety precautions if that's something you're worried about.
People have phone sex in different ways. Some like roleplaying, some like talking about what they would like to do to and with the other person, sometimes you can watch porn together, or just masturbate together and talk about what you're doing to yourself. I like having a bit of regular conversation with my phone sex, otherwise it feels like the guy is looking for a quick cum and nothing else. If he's looking for that, he'll have to look elsewhere.
For a while, I had phone sex almost every day and sometimes several times a day. The pleasure of it can sometimes be addictive and that's something to watch out for. Now I have it once in a while, in the right situation and with the right person. It has definitely been a vehicle for discovery for me.
Kitkat103
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Very great thread
I have had phone sex a few times. One three occasions it was really hot and then on another it was pretty annoying and awful to the point where I just hung up on the guy because it was pretty bad.
I prefer it when the guy is talking and saying all of the things he would do to me. Sometimes taking turns is hot but it drive me nuts (in a good way ) when the guy is in control. I do prefer to have some regular chat beforehand so it wont be as wierd. I would never have the guts to meet them in person though, unless I were to really like them. One time this guy wanted to meet and I deleted ALL my email and messenger accounts! Lol
But yeah Phonesex is great in Moderation. Its easily addicting and when its addicting its no longer fun and kind of depressing.
Although I met the guys on a different chatroom. The ones i have met on here have always been hang ups
I have had phone sex a few times. One three occasions it was really hot and then on another it was pretty annoying and awful to the point where I just hung up on the guy because it was pretty bad.
I prefer it when the guy is talking and saying all of the things he would do to me. Sometimes taking turns is hot but it drive me nuts (in a good way
) when the guy is in control. I do prefer to have some regular chat beforehand so it wont be as wierd. I would never have the guts to meet them in person though, unless I were to really like them. One time this guy wanted to meet and I deleted ALL my email and messenger accounts! LolBut yeah Phonesex is great in Moderation. Its easily addicting and when its addicting its no longer fun and kind of depressing.
Although I met the guys on a different chatroom. The ones i have met on here have always been hang ups
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Me too; I'm often pretty chatty and silly post orgasm.
cadman7777
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That's a very good assessment. I've had some phone sex with a few on here and it was great. Especially after texting and email/IM fun.....
I found the build up was great made her feel comfortable. I'm pretty comfortable all the time.
One woman though wanted me to call her every lunch hour...and she would fingerherself while I talked her through...it was fun but everyday?...I had to work sometime
.......The other thing you can do that's fun once you exchange numbers is leaving sexy voicemails........I love the phone sex...not as much as real life but most of the time that's not possibel
Kitkat103
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No its not you
Thats actually true. When I entered a phone sex chatroom I was the only female and was immediately bombarded with private messages from guys who wanted to phone with me. Then I went to the chatroom on here and it was the same situation.
Thats actually true. When I entered a phone sex chatroom I was the only female and was immediately bombarded with private messages from guys who wanted to phone with me. Then I went to the chatroom on here and it was the same situation.
str8butkinky
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Yeah I bet the women are bombarded. I think even the scammers make a post, acting like a new female member looking for phone sex. The next thing you know they have 200 Pm's and some people I'm sure give their email addresses. Next thing you know they are getting a ton of spam and they wonder why? I work in the IT field and I just have to laugh at these people.
I had some phone sex "Relationships" years ago. They were a lot of fun and you can get quite carried away with it. I'm sure there are some psycho's out there but just like anything else, use your brain and play it safe.
I actually had a dream last night that one of the girls I used to talk to just showed up at my house and was stalking me. I woke up and told my wife.. she got a good laugh
It would be nice to do it again.. but finding the time to do it would be the real challenge now. I guess starting out slow is the key.. a few emails here and there about things would be fun then slowly taking it to the phone if the "connection" is there
I had some phone sex "Relationships" years ago. They were a lot of fun and you can get quite carried away with it. I'm sure there are some psycho's out there but just like anything else, use your brain and play it safe.
I actually had a dream last night that one of the girls I used to talk to just showed up at my house and was stalking me. I woke up and told my wife.. she got a good laugh
It would be nice to do it again.. but finding the time to do it would be the real challenge now. I guess starting out slow is the key.. a few emails here and there about things would be fun then slowly taking it to the phone if the "connection" is there
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I'm chatty before orgasm. The seconds afterward I get extremely quiet and contemplative. And then after that I get back to being chatty. It's nice when the other person is chatty as well.
The build up is great, I like nice long conversations about all kinds of things. And then if it leads to something sexual, that's even better.
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I totally agree with you! Just had phone sex this morning with an amazing friend and she was sooo horny she came first! I find it to be so stimulating with the right person and it can be a total turn-off if your partner is quiet or really not into it! As for myself, I LOVE it even thouhg my opportunities are limited now with a new work schedule. If any horny ladies care to chat or phone, let me know ok? Here or on Y-hoo as doctor_joe53. Thanks and enjoy your weekend
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KitKat and Jennifer, I'd love to chat with you ladies. If you are interested please feel free to PM me or email me, bkysor@Yahoo.com. I am very interested in some hot phone sex.
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Interesting Topic
A friend referred me to this thread, and I read each of the postings with interest. I'm married, so I don't have interest in meeting women in person, but I enjoy phone contact, and my wife is OK with that (she's not at the point of wanting to have sex a lot, so this is an outlet for me).
I have a few people on here that I have regularly have phone sex with. They have really been quite lovely.
I seem to be sort of rare in that I have no interest in women telling me what they would do with me, it just does not turn me on. I'm happen to "give" and say what I would do (and most women seem to like this). The other thing I like to do is to spend a really long time teasing a woman. I also like to control how she touches herself. I have been told that I have the tendencies of a dom in the sense that I like to control a woman. I have been considering exploring this further, and what I have learned so far is that a good dom is really very compassionate and sensitive to his partner's needs, not rough and abusive.
I have spoken with women at all ages from 18 through 60 and levels of sexual experience. I like to take a long time, especially on the first call (usually it's 1 1/2 hours), and I like to get to know a person before being sexual. I like to talk about all kinds of things, both before and after various orgasms.
About phone numbers and trust and such, I can quickly get a feeling if a person is really a woman (believe it or not there are many women impersonators on this site), and if they can be trusted. I have revealed my real identify many times and given out my phone number and never had a problem. I have also called women at home many times without problems. I never keep phone numbers (unless requested), and I never call unless it's been pre-arranged. I don't want to mess anyone's life up.
For me, what I get off on is a woman's arousal. So I like to talk about things that get her aroused. Often that's past sexual experiences of mine or hers, or fantasies. I love talking about women and what they do with their current or imagined lovers. Really, anything that the woman enjoys, that's what makes me enjoy it. Needless to say I have no interest in stalking because I get off on a woman wanting me, and if she has to be stalked or convinced, that's clearly not the case.
I find this a very interesting topic and looking forward to reading additional perspectives. Thank you kindly for reading this far.
A friend referred me to this thread, and I read each of the postings with interest. I'm married, so I don't have interest in meeting women in person, but I enjoy phone contact, and my wife is OK with that (she's not at the point of wanting to have sex a lot, so this is an outlet for me).
I have a few people on here that I have regularly have phone sex with. They have really been quite lovely.
I seem to be sort of rare in that I have no interest in women telling me what they would do with me, it just does not turn me on. I'm happen to "give" and say what I would do (and most women seem to like this). The other thing I like to do is to spend a really long time teasing a woman. I also like to control how she touches herself. I have been told that I have the tendencies of a dom in the sense that I like to control a woman. I have been considering exploring this further, and what I have learned so far is that a good dom is really very compassionate and sensitive to his partner's needs, not rough and abusive.
I have spoken with women at all ages from 18 through 60 and levels of sexual experience. I like to take a long time, especially on the first call (usually it's 1 1/2 hours), and I like to get to know a person before being sexual. I like to talk about all kinds of things, both before and after various orgasms.
About phone numbers and trust and such, I can quickly get a feeling if a person is really a woman (believe it or not there are many women impersonators on this site), and if they can be trusted. I have revealed my real identify many times and given out my phone number and never had a problem. I have also called women at home many times without problems. I never keep phone numbers (unless requested), and I never call unless it's been pre-arranged. I don't want to mess anyone's life up.
For me, what I get off on is a woman's arousal. So I like to talk about things that get her aroused. Often that's past sexual experiences of mine or hers, or fantasies. I love talking about women and what they do with their current or imagined lovers. Really, anything that the woman enjoys, that's what makes me enjoy it. Needless to say I have no interest in stalking because I get off on a woman wanting me, and if she has to be stalked or convinced, that's clearly not the case.
I find this a very interesting topic and looking forward to reading additional perspectives. Thank you kindly for reading this far.
Back in the early stages of online chatting, i was a regular on AOL. I literally had phone sex with dozens of women, some of which I had great relationships with by email and just normal chat. Have moved on, but miss the thrill at times. For KittyKat, I would say relax, be comfortable with whomever you choose and have fun!
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I think that is fairly common with certain phone lovers. I have really enjoyed occasions on the phone where women have been able to discover new things about their bodies and have very intense sexual experiences driven by fantasy and also just teasing for a long time.
I'm glad you were able to have such a good time with this person.
Mister_Benjamin
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Phone sex is a fairly enjoyable way to get off, assuming both parties are good story tellers, or can accurately describe things in a way that makes it exciting. This girl and I used to have phone sex whenever we were too far apart for anything else, and all I have to say is that hearing her moaning in my ear plus all of the other sound effects was almost better than the actual words she used. It was kind of the thought that I was causing her to make those contented moans and pleasured sighs that really turned me on.
Just thought I'd share
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many times
many times always different but awesome. Some women have cams and love to show me. I love strange voices from far away places cumming for me. I love to hear them moan and encourage me to cum hard. I have a friend who is so sweet and loves to please me. We have never touched but enjoy voice and cam chat. few times i did jo with a guy on phone . Im str courious it was intresting. I even did once with younger man 20s. newely married he send pics of his wife and i instructed him on makeing her cum. Later i made him cum for me all over himself ... It was so hot and he obeyed all my suggestions.
anyone wanna try pm me.
im very decreet and love to hear about your sex life and desires and fantisies. fetishes are nice too.
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many times always different but awesome. Some women have cams and love to show me. I love strange voices from far away places cumming for me. I love to hear them moan and encourage me to cum hard. I have a friend who is so sweet and loves to please me. We have never touched but enjoy voice and cam chat. few times i did jo with a guy on phone . Im str courious it was intresting. I even did once with younger man 20s. newely married he send pics of his wife and i instructed him on makeing her cum. Later i made him cum for me all over himself ... It was so hot and he obeyed all my suggestions.
anyone wanna try pm me.
im very decreet and love to hear about your sex life and desires and fantisies. fetishes are nice too.
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love it
I thoroughly enjoy phone sex. I have met women here on lit through chats. I have always ensured comfort and compatability through chat first. Then once talking on the phone we got to know eachother a little, ensure the attraction remained once we heard eachothers voice. I have only had two bad experiences in about 6 years.
I personnally prefer interactive play between the two of us. Role playing, mutual masturbation, truth or dare, and sharing experiences have all been good ice breakers for me. There is an extremely sexy thing about hearing a woman enjoy herself, the breathing, moaning, and screaming is amazing.
Ladies feel free to pm if you'd like to talk.
I thoroughly enjoy phone sex. I have met women here on lit through chats. I have always ensured comfort and compatability through chat first. Then once talking on the phone we got to know eachother a little, ensure the attraction remained once we heard eachothers voice. I have only had two bad experiences in about 6 years.
I personnally prefer interactive play between the two of us. Role playing, mutual masturbation, truth or dare, and sharing experiences have all been good ice breakers for me. There is an extremely sexy thing about hearing a woman enjoy herself, the breathing, moaning, and screaming is amazing.
Ladies feel free to pm if you'd like to talk.
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Just My Opinion
Paranoid is exactly what I think many people became and smashing into two buildings and killing thousands of people is only the tip of the terrorist iceberg. The real purpose of terrorism is to create unrest in people, make them wary, paranoid!
In addition to creating this kind of anxiety we have paid the price over and over again of terrorist - $1 trllion + spent in the middle east, economic woes that have affected everyone, and unfortunately, fewer people (ladies included) willing to take risks with on line acquaintances.
Paranoid is exactly what I think many people became and smashing into two buildings and killing thousands of people is only the tip of the terrorist iceberg. The real purpose of terrorism is to create unrest in people, make them wary, paranoid!
In addition to creating this kind of anxiety we have paid the price over and over again of terrorist - $1 trllion + spent in the middle east, economic woes that have affected everyone, and unfortunately, fewer people (ladies included) willing to take risks with on line acquaintances.
