Lifestyle66
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I don't like the word "empowerment" because in the very definition you posted it refers to a process where [others} GIVE women more freedom or rights.I stick to my earlier comment...
Empowerment is the absolute opposite of needy.
An empowered women is somebody who has chosen to step out of the shadows. To take control of her life.
She has chosen to be the CEO, not the secretary, the director rather than actress, doctor rather than nurse, conductor rather than musician....
Empowerment embodies her taking a stand. Taking charge of her life, her destiny.
A truly empowered woman may choose not to play up to the male fantasy of what an empowered woman is...
She may choose to wear ballet flats than heels, a pants suit rather than a short skirt. She may decide not to wear makeup...
The important element is. It is her choice, she decides... She takes control of her life and destiny.
By removing the word empowerment from the challenges description, it dilutes what I saw as the reason for it's existence. To write truly woman centric stories. That's what appealed to me.
At the end of the day, the organiser has no control over what appears in the list. They have no ability to reject anything. That power is restricted to the Site owner. So anybody can submit anything. All the organiser can do is ask that the stories are focused on the description...
I liked the original intent, because it focused the writers at least trying to understand the concept of an empowered woman...
This of course is only my opinion, and that is all I am offering...
Cagivagurl.
You then add the sentences describing where women TAKE control, which I agree is the type of a powerful woman to be respected.
No one can be GIVEN power. They are merely given AUTHORITY to use someone else's power. But what can be given can be taken away. So, to me "empowerment" is a weaker position.
Don't ask for power or authority or freedom, because you're waiting for someone else to decide whether or not you can have it.
TAKE control and TAKE their power! That's not empowered. That's powerful!