Prostate play is my new obsession!

[awired50]

We had an erotic shower experience ourselves yesterday

 

[beardedmariner]

Prostate play is the quickest way to make me cum. All you need is a finger. Keep practicing!!

 

[eroticspank]

Another technique perhaps for the more experienced...

Another way to massage the prostate is from the outside. The area between my balls and anus is the spot to massage my prostate from the outside.

First of all, just lightly touching that area feels good for me anyway and in some cases can even help me orgasm.

Second when a man is aroused his prostate gets larger just like his dick gets larger. The result is that IF you press firmly on that area you are indirectly pushing on the prostate. (Pushing on flesh that is pushing on the prostate.) You can take a look at a map or diagram of the prostate and the area I am talking about and it makes perfect sense.

So for those of you who know already what it is like to have your prostate massaged, if you have not done this technique above you may want to try it. For me it is best to use two fingers, in a circular motion like drawing a "O" and increase the massage pressure until it is firm.

You may have to experiment to find the best or exact spot that works AND make sure you are very turned on before you try any kind of prostate play.

Once you have it down, try the woman on top or "Cowgirl" position and have your woman reach behind her and press on that area. For me the feeling is awesome.

I have tried reverse Cowgirl and regular Cowgirl and I like regular the best. She would lean forward so her clit was hitting my pubic bone and her breasts were right in my face. I knew she was about to cum and feeling her fingers press that area made us cum together nicely.

ES

 

[Mike4fun]

Well Tammyw and pervs,

I wanted to share my experience from the other day.

I was home alone and had been planning this for days.

I hadn't used my Doc Jonson pleasure wand for months, if not longer and wanted some prostate pleasure.

I decided to do something different this time and usually (which is not often), i would use a finger or anal toy and cum pretty quickly; this time i lubed and inserted the toy, setting it to maxi vibrations. I then lay on my back, pretty much squeezing my legs together and browsed my favorite threads here without touching my cock at all.

As i wrote i usually just instert and touch until climax, but now i decided to wait.

The vibrations were intense and feelings of pleasure were imminating from inside me to all over my body.

Now this next part was new for me, although i had read about it, i had never experienced it.

My cock was only 3/4 hard but felt very aroused which was strange but wonderful. Pre-cum started flowing in drops and there is no way to really describe the pleasure. It was almost like mini, drawn out orgasms. AFter about 15 minutes of this, i couldn't take in any more and still clenching my legs together i reached down and using my own pre-cum (as well as lube), i stroked myself to climax, shooting my cum right onto and past my face - it was explosive.

It was a fantastic experience and highly recommended but too intense to do very often.

Mike

 

[SeraphinaCD]

We have an Aneros, a Feeldoe slim, a couple of the regular Njoy steel plugs, but I've gotta' say, forget the Aneros, get the Njoy Pfun Plug - WHOA! It's heavy, it's chromed stainless steel, and it's curved and angled just right. That thing will not fall out, it feels bizarre, and it puts constant pressure on the P-spot, especially if you're walking or sitting down on a harder surface - VERY intense sensations.

If you're into P-spot play, there are some good toys out there now, and the Aneros group has some good pieces in it, but that blasted Pfun Plug can be used for some serious pleasure or some serious torment, depending on the person who's in charge! HIGHLY recommend that thing.

 

[5watcher]

Opinion???

Hello,
Should I take the chance and tell my wife to get the lube and lube up the vibrator? While she is getting it out, I would be naked with legs in the air and my ass facing her. When she turns, I would tell her to go ahead and insert?

I have tried other subtle things but she just rubs my ass. If you look back in the thread you woudl know that she has put the vibe in me once(OK I pushed back onto it)

Is that to forward? Would she freak even though she kind of did it once?

I know its a guessing game for you people but....any opinion would help

 

[awired50]

A Very Vice Ride

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[eroticspank]

Would like to help but....

Hello,
Should I take the chance and tell my wife to get the lube and lube up the vibrator? While she is getting it out, I would be naked with legs in the air and my ass facing her. When she turns, I would tell her to go ahead and insert?

I have tried other subtle things but she just rubs my ass. If you look back in the thread you woudl know that she has put the vibe in me once(OK I pushed back onto it)

Is that to forward? Would she freak even though she kind of did it once?

I know its a guessing game for you people but....any opinion would help

You know your wife better than any of us on here. So it is hard for me to say what is too forward for her. Maybe IF there were other experiences you could rely on and how she reacted then that MAY tell you how she will react in the future.

In general, sincerely talking to your partner about something that you really like, really turns you on, or really want to try, rarely causes an instant break up or the woman mad at you. Sharing on that kind of level--make sure she knows it is a deeper level and means the world to you--will usually bring you closer together. The key is HOW you do it.

Here is something I posted on another thread:

Some questions that typically come up from a partner are: Is it safe? Why do you like it? Why would I like it? Am I going to lose you over this? (Are you going to start wanting things I can't provide you with once we start this? a dick, Red Hair, long legs, etc)

Answer these questions in your head and prepared for more questions from her. Answer honestly and you have nothing to fear. Even a "I dont' know!" answer is better than making something up that is not you. To me the most important question that is probably on her mind is "Am I going to lose you over this?" just like that is probably the biggest fear on your part. (That you may lose her over this.) Once that is cleared up, your desire is not being bigger than your relationship, the rest is much easier.

Going through all of this above, may still not lead to success. Be patient, and once you have shared like mentioned above, eventually she will come back to you after she has thought about it and got her mind around it.

ES

 

[pantiebootcamp]

There is also using guilt trip. Try explaining she is lucky to have her gspot at an easy access but a man's gspot is his prostate and the only way to stimulate it through the butt. Tell her you want to experience a gspot orgasm like she gets to have.

 

[awired50]

My wife adores seeing me in the euphoric state ! Maybe vulnerable even...just a thought.

 

[creampieluvr79]

Hello,
Should I take the chance and tell my wife to get the lube and lube up the vibrator? While she is getting it out, I would be naked with legs in the air and my ass facing her. When she turns, I would tell her to go ahead and insert?

I have tried other subtle things but she just rubs my ass. If you look back in the thread you woudl know that she has put the vibe in me once(OK I pushed back onto it)

Is that to forward? Would she freak even though she kind of did it once?

I know its a guessing game for you people but....any opinion would help

Well first of all, you mention that you 'kind of' had her insert it in you in the past and you have tried other subtle things. Have you ever just plainly told her what you would like? I agree with another poster, being honest about these things can bring you closer together.

Inserting things into a man's anus is not something your partner is likely to take lightly, especially with the stigma many associate to a guy enjoying such things.

Your wife may be taking her cue from the fact that you seem uncomfortable talking about it and potentially uncomfortable actually following through. Just a recommendation: tell her outright what you want and avoid guessing games about the subject.

Lastly, remember if your wife's vibe is going near or in your butt, it's usually recommended to use a condom over most toys as a barrier between the toy and bacteria etc within your back door. Many toys are made of porous materials that can trap bacteria, better not to use a toy that's been in anyone's ass and then put it back in your wife's vagina, even after cleaning. This isn't usually a problem with High quality silicones though.

Anyway, I wish you the best of luck!

 

[Nataliefun41]

Very sexy

 

[jakereeder22]

Hajajshshsb

 

[awired50]

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[awired50]

 

[tammyw]

Another way to massage the prostate is from the outside. The area between my balls and anus is the spot to massage my prostate from the outside.

First of all, just lightly touching that area feels good for me anyway and in some cases can even help me orgasm.

Second when a man is aroused his prostate gets larger just like his dick gets larger. The result is that IF you press firmly on that area you are indirectly pushing on the prostate. (Pushing on flesh that is pushing on the prostate.) You can take a look at a map or diagram of the prostate and the area I am talking about and it makes perfect sense.

So for those of you who know already what it is like to have your prostate massaged, if you have not done this technique above you may want to try it. For me it is best to use two fingers, in a circular motion like drawing a "O" and increase the massage pressure until it is firm.

You may have to experiment to find the best or exact spot that works AND make sure you are very turned on before you try any kind of prostate play.

Once you have it down, try the woman on top or "Cowgirl" position and have your woman reach behind her and press on that area. For me the feeling is awesome.

I have tried reverse Cowgirl and regular Cowgirl and I like regular the best. She would lean forward so her clit was hitting my pubic bone and her breasts were right in my face. I knew she was about to cum and feeling her fingers press that area made us cum together nicely.

ES

This is a great point! For people who are shy about or considering trying prostate stimulation out, perineum massage can be a great way to introduce and try prostate stimulation without some of the taboos associated with anal play. This can also be a great way for women to gauge a man's interest in prostate stimulation. Based on his response and whether or not he indicates that it feels good in a post-sex wrap up discussion, you may be able to discuss taking things further or feel emboldened to try taking things further next time.

 

[denicegirl]

Hello,
Should I take the chance and tell my wife to get the lube and lube up the vibrator? While she is getting it out, I would be naked with legs in the air and my ass facing her. When she turns, I would tell her to go ahead and insert?

I have tried other subtle things but she just rubs my ass. If you look back in the thread you woudl know that she has put the vibe in me once(OK I pushed back onto it)

Is that to forward? Would she freak even though she kind of did it once?

I know its a guessing game for you people but....any opinion would help

Rather than going through all that, I think you would be far more likely to succeed if you simply discussed your desires with her prior to getting naked with your legs in the air and ass facing her. Tell her you are interested in trying something new and ask her how she feels about it after you tell her. Communication is really important if you are both considering introducing anything new in the bedroom. You might want to ask her whether or not she wants you using her vibrator if it isn't yours. If she is squeamish about anal stuff already, she might be more comfortable if you used a toy of your own. Plus as others have mentioned on this thread there can be concerns about cleanliness when using toys for both the back and front doors. If you are asking whether or not she is going to freak out, my guess is that she still might be surprised and or not interested in pursuing prostate stimulation at this point. The only way to find out is to talk to her and ask her for her opinion and to share any concerns or issues she might have with your new interest.

 

[tammyw]

Hi!

Very sexy

Welcome to the thread. Are you interested in introducing prostate stimulation to your partner or do you have any experiences you would care to share with the thread? I personally love hearing from other women who enjoy pleasuring their men this way and would encourage you to share if you feel comfortable doing so.

 

[whywouldi]

Here are three videos of hands-free coming; very exciting !

http://xhamster.com/movies/3403152/cd_handsfree_cum.html
http://www.xtube.com/watch.php?v=4ALQo-S184-#.VAkOEGOKV_E
http://xhamster.com/movies/1508893/michelli_no_hands_cum.html

 

[eroticspank]

Nice!

Rather than going through all that, I think you would be far more likely to succeed if you simply discussed your desires with her prior to getting naked with your legs in the air and ass facing her. Tell her you are interested in trying something new and ask her how she feels about it after you tell her. Communication is really important if you are both considering introducing anything new in the bedroom. You might want to ask her whether or not she wants you using her vibrator if it isn't yours. If she is squeamish about anal stuff already, she might be more comfortable if you used a toy of your own. Plus as others have mentioned on this thread there can be concerns about cleanliness when using toys for both the back and front doors. If you are asking whether or not she is going to freak out, my guess is that she still might be surprised and or not interested in pursuing prostate stimulation at this point. The only way to find out is to talk to her and ask her for her opinion and to share any concerns or issues she might have with your new interest.

Wow, this is some great information from a woman's point of view. I completely agree.

I must admit, I did have a gf years ago that wanted me to try anal on her. I found that I was a bit squeamish myself. She was not the most clean person anyway, taking showers every other day etc so the thought of anal with her turned me off. But IF we had a talk about it where we both got to share desires, fears, etc, I am sure I could have told her my reservations and we could have done a bath prior or even an enema.

Now that I am in a relationship, I feel I could do anal with my present gf IF she wanted me to do it to her because I care about her feelings, and bringing her pleasure. I still may start with a Bath, use condoms on the dildos, and maybe even rubber gloves in the interest of safety as well as fun.

Talking to your wife frankly about your desires and making these type of suggestions may give her the feeling that you have done some research on the behalf of her, for her safety and possible squeamishness. It shows you care.

ES

 

[eroticspank]

Thanks!

This is a great point! For people who are shy about or considering trying prostate stimulation out, perineum massage can be a great way to introduce and try prostate stimulation without some of the taboos associated with anal play. This can also be a great way for women to gauge a man's interest in prostate stimulation. Based on his response and whether or not he indicates that it feels good in a post-sex wrap up discussion, you may be able to discuss taking things further or feel emboldened to try taking things further next time.

Thanks! I could not remember the word "Perineum" that is what the area is called.

ES

 

[5watcher]

Rather than going through all that, I think you would be far more likely to succeed if you simply discussed your desires with her prior to getting naked with your legs in the air and ass facing her. Tell her you are interested in trying something new and ask her how she feels about it after you tell her. Communication is really important if you are both considering introducing anything new in the bedroom. You might want to ask her whether or not she wants you using her vibrator if it isn't yours. If she is squeamish about anal stuff already, she might be more comfortable if you used a toy of your own. Plus as others have mentioned on this thread there can be concerns about cleanliness when using toys for both the back and front doors. If you are asking whether or not she is going to freak out, my guess is that she still might be surprised and or not interested in pursuing prostate stimulation at this point. The only way to find out is to talk to her and ask her for her opinion and to share any concerns or issues she might have with your new interest.

Thank you. Sorry took so long for the reply. Very busy past week

 

[tammyw]

Tips or suggestions?

It's been a busy week and my husband and I haven't made time to connect sexually this week, but I plan on stimulating his prostate this weekend and was hoping for some tips or suggestions about some new twists or variation I can work into our routine as both he and I have become much more comfortable with this form of play. Anyone have any ideas on how I can blow him away, knock his socks off, and or whatever other cheesy expressions you can think of for making him wild with lust and pleasure?

 

[Mr. Briggs]

It's been a busy week and my husband and I haven't made time to connect sexually this week, but I plan on stimulating his prostate this weekend and was hoping for some tips or suggestions about some new twists or variation I can work into our routine as both he and I have become much more comfortable with this form of play. Anyone have any ideas on how I can blow him away, knock his socks off, and or whatever other cheesy expressions you can think of for making him wild with lust and pleasure?

What a lucky guy

 

[eroticspank]

So nice of you!

It's been a busy week and my husband and I haven't made time to connect sexually this week, but I plan on stimulating his prostate this weekend and was hoping for some tips or suggestions about some new twists or variation I can work into our routine as both he and I have become much more comfortable with this form of play. Anyone have any ideas on how I can blow him away, knock his socks off, and or whatever other cheesy expressions you can think of for making him wild with lust and pleasure?

Yes he is a lucky guy to have a woman so excited to do new things with him.

My suggestion:

1. Get a remote controlled vibrating butt plug so that you can have him wear it while you are in public like at dinner. Of course you may want to try it at home first to see how loud it is when you turn on the remote with all of his clothes on etc.

There are all kinds out there to get, most of them I have seen online. So take your time finding the right one. Or you could get a vibrating cock ring remote and put it under his balls so it stimulates the perineum as we talked about before.

2. Go out to dinner and use your remote, and see how hubby reacts! Every time you flip the switch I bet he squirms in his seat and it gives you the giggles!

3. When you get home, have him get on the bed naked face down, the butt plug still inside. You get on top of him and proceed to "rub" yourself off on his ass to a nice orgasm as he squirms below you. You may want to whisper into his ear naughty things as you are about to cum and even during.

4. After your orgasm or orgasms you get off of him and have him roll over. Give me a handjob, blowjob, or whatever you decide! I think you can come up with the finish

ES