Prostate play is my new obsession!

[jakereeder22]

Excellent!

Didndndmd

 

[awired50]

Very nice blog. Thanks for sharing this. It seems like you and your wife are really enjoying your journey into prostate stimulation. Keep stimulating and keep sharing, haha.

Thanks jakereeder22 !

 

[WikkidVibes]

I havent been on here in awhile due to time constraints, but I pop on every now and then and lurk around the discussion boards. Anyway, I have been reading a few isolated threads here and there about prostate stimulation that got my juices flowing. For some reason the more I read about it and the more videos I watch of couples exploring this form of pleasure, the more persistant my fantasies to explore this with my man become. My husband is a bit shy about that area, but I have a feeling he would enjoy it based on a few tentative explorations and rubbing of the area during oral sex. I am curious about how some of the ladies on here introduced this subject or stimulation into their sex lifes and for any tips on how to get my man interested. I have also been seeing a couple of threads about toys on the board and was curious about whether or not using a prostate stimulator would be better for our first time or if it is something you work up to. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

Thanks,

Tammy

Hey Tammy!

I have some ideas for you that may work. I would start out using a small prostate stimulator or anal plug. It is always best to make sure you are using a lot of lubrication during anal play. An idea you could try is to work up to doing it while giving your guy a blow job. If you start out doing that and get him worked up he may be more compliant when you incorporate the anal toy. The prostate massagers are specifically designed to hit the sweet spot...much like our g-spot toys. I believe it would still stimulate him using other anal toys but it is just shaped for an easier way to reach the prostate. I would make sure he is on board with doing beforehand, surprises aren't always a good thing! If he is dead set about not doing it I wouldn't. You could say that many guys that do it say that their orgasms are better, and you just want to make him feel good. Good Luck!

 

[fredgy]

You have me dying of curiousity! I have checked the thread on and off for a couple days waiting to hear your update and hoping that things went smoothly for you. This thread needs more people like you willing to share their successes and failures with prostate stimulation. Cant wait for the details!

Hey Tammy, and all,

So it went really great! She seemed a little put off when I first told her about it, but after we gave it a shot I think it was awesome.

We mostly just had sex with it inserted, she actually inserted my aneros for me (which was fucking hot.)

I then pleasured her with my hands while i had it in. It was intense pleasuring her as my anus contracted and my aneros massaged me just right. I actually made her cum with only my hands (trust me I know when she cums.)

We then had sex, i dont know if I have ever filled her up as much as I did that night. It was hard for me to keep from coming and to keep the aneros inserted the whole time.

The only problem I had is that I got a little self conscious and I lost my wood, this in turn led her to feel self conscious, but we talked about it afterward and it is no problem. I just wonder if the aneros actually caused me to lose my erection, or if it was me.

So for a first time session I think it went awesome, I cant wait to teach her more about prostate play and get her pleasuring me fully!

 

[awired50]

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[Somehowyou]

so I was playing with this transsexual one time. She had a dresser top full of dildos. She asked if I wanted to play with one. I said yes. I picked a big one and layed on my back on her bed. She said "that one is even big for me" as she applied the lube to my cock and to the dildo. She sat at the end of the bed and pressed the dildo against my sphincter with one hand and jacked me off with the other. She was very gentle and she just maintained steady pressure as she wacked my cock. After about 5 or 10 minutes she said "come on...I know you can take it baby" and right at that point I felt my ass swallow the dildo....
As soon as the cock made it into my ass canal I came. It was the most intense orgasm I ever had.

 

[eroticspank]

I went to a place years ago where they specialize in prostate massage.

This lady had me naked on a massage table face up and gave me a body to body massage first. Then she concentrated on my nipples, chest, and crotch, getting me very hard. Next she spent about 10 minutes just massaging my balls. I could not believe how good it felt and it did not hurt even though her hand seemed to get a bit rough at times. After the ball massage my dick was VERY hard and just throbbing about without her touching it at all.

Finally she lubed up her fingers, put a condom over one and inserted it into my anus slowly. Once I got used to it she put in two fingers, then three. She searched for my prostate and quickly found it as I moaned a bit when she touched it.

I really loved the position she was in too. On her knees leaning over my crotch facing my head, her breasts just above my cock, and her face not too far from mine looking into my eyes and talking to me. She was not even looking down at her fingers, she had found my prostate and she was just massaging it and looking at my reaction.

At first it hurt a bit, then it felt like I had to pee, and eventually it felt warm and very good. The more she massaged the closer to orgasm I got. "You are getting close, I can tell. Just let yourself go, don't fight it. I want to see you cum," she coached. That was all it took and I came squirting my cum into her tits, a very good strong orgasm and release. She cheered me on but then with her other hand grabbed my dick and began jacking me off. That set off another orgasm and it was violent, and very intense as I screamed out. I jerked about under her almost falling off the table, not believing I could cum that hard. My orgasm seemed to last for about 1 minute.

ES

 

[tammyw]

Hey Tammy, and all,

So it went really great! She seemed a little put off when I first told her about it, but after we gave it a shot I think it was awesome.

We mostly just had sex with it inserted, she actually inserted my aneros for me (which was fucking hot.)

I then pleasured her with my hands while i had it in. It was intense pleasuring her as my anus contracted and my aneros massaged me just right. I actually made her cum with only my hands (trust me I know when she cums.)

We then had sex, i dont know if I have ever filled her up as much as I did that night. It was hard for me to keep from coming and to keep the aneros inserted the whole time.

The only problem I had is that I got a little self conscious and I lost my wood, this in turn led her to feel self conscious, but we talked about it afterward and it is no problem. I just wonder if the aneros actually caused me to lose my erection, or if it was me.

So for a first time session I think it went awesome, I cant wait to teach her more about prostate play and get her pleasuring me fully!

Sounds like things went really well! Congratulations! It can be a real nervous experience the first time and I am sure she was just as nervous about taking these first steps into the world of prostate stimulation with you, as you were. I was a nervous wreck my first time and being so turned on by the whole idea, let alone the fact that I was getting to try this on my husband, the person whom I desire most in the world, was a lot to handle all at once. Have you expressed interest in her using her fingers to stimulate you? I love having sex with my husband while he is using the Aneros, but when it comes to intimacy and prostate stimulation, there is nothing more intimate than feeling your man's internal muscle contractions as a prostate orgasm occurs. You may be hesitant, but I really think she might benefit from some of the posts on this thread. Have you thought about sharing this thread with her? It might be beneficial to both of you in the long run. Keep up the good work and please keep sharing your experiences.

 

[tammyw]

I went to a place years ago where they specialize in prostate massage.

This lady had me naked on a massage table face up and gave me a body to body massage first. Then she concentrated on my nipples, chest, and crotch, getting me very hard. Next she spent about 10 minutes just massaging my balls. I could not believe how good it felt and it did not hurt even though her hand seemed to get a bit rough at times. After the ball massage my dick was VERY hard and just throbbing about without her touching it at all.

Finally she lubed up her fingers, put a condom over one and inserted it into my anus slowly. Once I got used to it she put in two fingers, then three. She searched for my prostate and quickly found it as I moaned a bit when she touched it.

I really loved the position she was in too. On her knees leaning over my crotch facing my head, her breasts just above my cock, and her face not too far from mine looking into my eyes and talking to me. She was not even looking down at her fingers, she had found my prostate and she was just massaging it and looking at my reaction.

At first it hurt a bit, then it felt like I had to pee, and eventually it felt warm and very good. The more she massaged the closer to orgasm I got. "You are getting close, I can tell. Just let yourself go, don't fight it. I want to see you cum," she coached. That was all it took and I came squirting my cum into her tits, a very good strong orgasm and release. She cheered me on but then with her other hand grabbed my dick and began jacking me off. That set off another orgasm and it was violent, and very intense as I screamed out. I jerked about under her almost falling off the table, not believing I could cum that hard. My orgasm seemed to last for about 1 minute.

ES

I read your post this morning after responding to another post and wanted to thank you for sharing, as well as thank you for the fabulous orgasm I had while reading it before leaving for work this morning. Picturing the whole scene, my hands couldn't help but find their way into my panties. You made me want to act out the whole scene with my husband. The part I LOVED was when she jerked you off after your first prostate orgasm and basically forced you to cum again for her. Now I am going to be thinking about doing this to my husband all day, haha.

 

[GyratingGiraffe]

I read your post this morning after responding to another post and wanted to thank you for sharing, as well as thank you for the fabulous orgasm I had while reading it before leaving for work this morning. Picturing the whole scene, my hands couldn't help but find their way into my panties. You made me want to act out the whole scene with my husband. The part I LOVED was when she jerked you off after your first prostate orgasm and basically forced you to cum again for her. Now I am going to be thinking about doing this to my husband all day, haha.

Thanks Tammy, I'm going to be thinking about you doing that to your husband all day now, too!

 

[eroticspank]

Thanks Tammy!

I read your post this morning after responding to another post and wanted to thank you for sharing, as well as thank you for the fabulous orgasm I had while reading it before leaving for work this morning. Picturing the whole scene, my hands couldn't help but find their way into my panties. You made me want to act out the whole scene with my husband. The part I LOVED was when she jerked you off after your first prostate orgasm and basically forced you to cum again for her. Now I am going to be thinking about doing this to my husband all day, haha.

Well thank you very much. The fact that you had a great orgasm reading my adventure is the best compliment you can give me! I am very happy you enjoyed it.

I did mention the jack off part on purpose because, for me, there always seems to be another orgasm inside my dick IF I have cum from prostate play alone. With a handjob, intercourse, or other direct dick stimulation my dick gets sensitive and can't have another orgasm for a while. If I have cum through prostate stimulation, my dick squirts--and sometimes is not completely hard when I cum--I have a nice orgasm, but it is like my dick has been untouched when it comes to direct stimulation, so I can have another/different orgasm right away. And if I come at the same time or very close to when I cum from prostate play my orgasm is VERY intense like a double orgasm!


ES

 

[jakereeder22]

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[awired50]

Like I say on my blog : "Those guys that think they aren't into this or the results of this Don't know !"

 

[jakereeder22]

Damned jobs

 

[awired50]

I couldn't agree more! I feel sorry for guys who haven't or are just plain afraid to try this. I wish I knew about this earlier and feel like I wasted so much time not knowing about this amazing source of pleasure. That is why this thread and this site on the whole are so important. If enough people are posting and sharing information about prostate stimulation perhaps it will become more mainstream and more men and women will be interested in giving it a try.

Exactly. That is exactly why I do the blog. Share the pleasure !I wish I had discovered this at 20 !

 

[tammyw]

Thanks Tammy, I'm going to be thinking about you doing that to your husband all day now, too!

You are welcome! Look at it this way, there's no reason that you can't treat yourself to a little solo prostate play to take your mind off things. My husband and I tried out the scenario for ourselves with me basically taking control and telling him, after things got heated up, that I wanted him to cum for me twice tonight and that I wasn't going to stop what I was doing until he gave me what I wanted. He seemed really turned on by the way I was acting and since I had already been thinking about it and planning it all day I was more than prepared to deliver. I decided to use a different approach than usual this time and focused on a hand job for his first orgasm. I did this primarily because I get so wet and turned on watching him cum and seeing how much he cums when I am rubbing his prostate with my finger. So I began teasing him with my hand and fondling his package while we made out for a while before kissing my way down his body and smiling seductively at him when I was kneeling between his legs and asking him if I should get the lube teasingly. He indicated I should and I told him how much I wanted to make him cum for me and telling him that he was going to cum twice and that I wouldn't take no for an answer. His cock was already rock hard and dripping a little precum before I lubed up my finger and and slowly teased it into his ass. When I began applying pressure and massaging his prostate he moaned a bit in pleasure as he watched me. Now rather than give him my customary blow job, I squeezed some more lube into my left hand and began to massage the slippery substance over his hard cock. I teased him the way I knew he liked it and when he seemed to be getting close and his body tensed up, I backed off a bit and focused more on his prostate. His cock was drooling now and my hand and his cock were coated in precum and lube. I laid down on the bed and began unknowingly at first to rock my hips a bit, which eventually led to me grinding my panty clad pussy against the mattress and bunched up bedding at the foot of the bed. I was so turned on that before I knew it my own body was responding and I could feel myself getting close. I focused on the task, literally at hand, and began to jerk him faster and swirl my hand at the top of each upstroke. My husband loves this and it is a surefire way to get him close or to take him over the edge depending on your intention. I then told him how wet this was making me and how fucking horny I was for him. I told him how badly I wanted him to cum and that I wanted him to cum on my face, knowing full well that he enjoys the special treat. The combinations of my words and actions were too much and he shot his cum in three large streams across my left breast, my face and the last one I devoured greedily with my mouth just before my own orgasm arrived. Feeling the internal contractions of his ass as he came pushed me over the edge and as he came down from his pleasure, my own pleasure arrived full force knocking the wind out of me and making me gasp my husband's name.

Things slowed down while I recovered but I wasn't done, I wiped his cum off my face with his discarded shirt and got back to his cock, this time wanting to use my mouth and needing to suck him. He told me at first he didn't think he would be able to cum again, but I told him thats okay and all I wanted to do was suck him for a bit and if he cums, he cums. I teased him with my tongue and after 5 minutes of my kissing, licking and exploring of his package, his cock was hardening up nicely. I began to massage his prostate again as I sucked him and pretty soon he wasn't complaining about not being able to cum again at all. Lost in his own pleasure my husbands eyes were closed and his hips began involuntarily thrusting towards my mouth. I added my hand into the mix and stroked the base of his cock and balls while my mouth teased the head of his cock and frenulum. Soon my husband was like "Tammy, I think I;m going to cum again…" His eyes wide as he watched me at work, his voice trailing off as he came for the second time that evening and I hungrily lapped up and swallowed every bit of this smaller ejaculation.

It took a bit longer than expected, but all in all it was very hot and very memorable. Afterwards hubby treated me to an amazing session of oral where I came another 2 times. Overall, Tammy recommends this whole heartedly as a nice way to spice up the prostate stimulation. Not necessarily an everyday thing, but a great treat for when you really want your husband to see stars.

 

[eroticspank]

Wow!

That is VERY HOT Tammy! Thanks for sharing.....what a lucky guy Hubby is!

ES

 

[eroticspank]

Strapons

I have had many strapon play scenarios where my prostate was stimulated, but in this thread I find myself talking mostly about direct stimulation with a finger or hand dildo.

My ex and I did a fun experiment that was fun for both of us and similar to strapon play:

We got a medium sized prostate vibe with a flared base like a butt plug. She lubed up my ass, and got me VERY hard before inserting it into my ass. Next she teased me and played with me until I am dying for release. She grabbed the end of the vibe and turned it on. My dick stood straight up and made little vibrations due to the vibrator in my ass. She moved me over to a armless chair making me sit down while she straddled my waist facing me, and stuck me inside her.

Once I was inside her to the hilt, it felt fantastic and the weight of her body pushed the dildo/vibe further inside me. She started thrusting up and down on top of me. Moans came out of my mouth in a much higher pitch than I wanted. I was VERY hard and she took advantage of that fucking me hard and fast. She came very quickly grabbing on hard to my body burying my face in her breasts.

I had not cum yet and did not think I would be able to, since the prostate vibe was much deeper inside me than it had been before. It hurt a little and with each thrust if felt like she was pushing it deeper. But once she recovered from her orgasm, she moved up and down on me slower, with sexy hip movements, looking into my eyes. She reached behind her and pulled lightly on my balls as she moved. "Cum for me!" was all it took and I had a massive orgasm emptying deep inside her.

ES

 

[awired50]

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[Billy_the_Freak]

Only once, and many years ago did a woman try this on me - between her inexperience and my own, it failed to hit the spot, but I was still glad I let it happen and that we both gave it a try. Another came close one night, but instantly withdrew when I started moaning as her fingers came close to my hole.
Sometimes I think that maybe I need another TS experience and let myself relax and give way to them as someone who knows firsthand how to find that magic spot. I sure haven't managed to find it myself.

 

[eroticspank]

Fantasy vs reality

Only once, and many years ago did a woman try this on me - between her inexperience and my own, it failed to hit the spot, but I was still glad I let it happen and that we both gave it a try. Another came close one night, but instantly withdrew when I started moaning as her fingers came close to my hole.
Sometimes I think that maybe I need another TS experience and let myself relax and give way to them as someone who knows firsthand how to find that magic spot. I sure haven't managed to find it myself.

I would join a forum or check out the blog mentioned by awired50. There is plenty of info on finding the prostate, what it feels like, and even a map to its exact location on your body.

When I write and other people write stories of prostrate play with amazing orgasms, I think that sometimes gives the wrong impression. Like the prostate is some magic spot, and when you hit it just right you have the best orgasm of your life! For me, it took a lot of exploration and mini steps to get to where I am today with prostate play. 90% of the time when I do prostate play it feels good and I have a nice orgasm. Sometimes it is a strong one, sometimes not. The other 10% of the time I don't cum at all. There are many reasons for this, I won't go into all of them here. Add to this a partner and her getting to learn me and my prostate, that can be a whole new experience. It may take years for her to get it just right and be able to make me cum. But the fact that I am willing to open up that part of myself with my mate is a very trusting thing to do and she really appreciates that too.

The bottom line, it may take a while to find a partner that is knowledgeable enough to find your prostate and massage you to orgasm. You can find out where it is yourself and do some solo play to start out. Or you can go to a Professional and see if that works for you. Either way, I suggest you join a blog or do some reading to give you more info on it and the do's and don'ts.

ES

 

[awired50]

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[GyratingGiraffe]

24 hours later and I'm still hard at the thought of what we got up to last night. *sigh*

 

[jakereeder22]

Bavsvdjxh

 

[Kim_Burly]

I'll tell you what Sir, who is my Master and I do. I make love to Sir with a strap-on (I was using a Feeldoe, but he is a size King, so now I am wearing a large Bad Dragon) in the missionary position, at the edge of the bed. Usually at this point he is 3/4 erect and leaking pre-cum profusely. Once he has his prostate orgasm, I immediately drop to my knees, fluff him to fully erection and and he fucks my face and after his requisite 10 minutes of using my throat, he has his real orgasm. He then "lovingly" reminds me that he is my Dom and I am His sub.