Prostate stimulation.

[Ravenloft]

Perhaps getting a hard on first would help things along? Boy, do I sound naive or what? LOL.

 

[Jenna2641]

Perhaps getting a hard on first would help things along? Boy, do I sound naive or what? LOL.

Already being fully excited isn't a requirement. At least that is what I hear. When using my toys, I always am by the time I get all cleaned up and the toys out. But, when I am taking my morning shower, I like to do a little freshening up down there with a soapy finger and I am not erect. That doesn't prevent a pleasurable sensation when I tickle my prostate with my finger tip. I don't usually do it for long, so I don't know if it would lead to an erection, but presumably, prostate enjoyment doesn't have to be tied to penile erections.

 

[jackstud]

Yes, have exploded many times when soft. Like a rush of pleasure. Playing with a vib in my butt. Imagin very much like a orgasim a women has. Mess in my boxers

 

[Jenna2641]

Yes, have exploded many times when soft. Like a rush of pleasure. Playing with a vib in my butt. Imagin very much like a orgasim a women has. Mess in my boxers

Ooooo, Jack! Would love to clean up that mess for you!

What vibrator do you use? Love sharing techniques and toys! Hugs, Jenna

 

[jackstud]

Ooooo, Jack! Would love to clean up that mess for you!

What vibrator do you use? Love sharing techniques and toys! Hugs, Jenna

Just a cheapie, thinking of getting a Jack Rabbit

 

[raffi_sandoval]

couple years ago i started with a standard small butt plug which provided me with many great orgasms, and it felt really good. i wanted more though so i got the aneros. like someone else said here the instructions are not so great. i did follow the directions and achieved the most intense orgasm ever. the only way to describe how it felt is that i think i probably looked like some women do when they have a intense orgasm. thing is i wasnt even fully hard and i did not ejaculate. but definitelt the most intense orgasm i ever had. now i want the bigger version of the aneros.

 

[Ravenloft]

I finally saw an aneros, and wow are they tiny. I got an onyx wand instead for 35 instead of the 60 they wanted for the aneros. Going to give it a try tonight when I get home from work.

 

[trask9]

I have a dildo that isn't that big, but I use it after I have gotten hard (I like it when my prostate is already firm) and just he combination of the dildo in my ass and my slight stroking on my cock makes me come so hard I want to pass out.

Wow, I need to try it. All of these posts on anal massage has me dripping precum.
Tried a vibrator years ago but never really liked it, need some new toys I guess.

 

[Jenna2641]

Just a cheapie, thinking of getting a Jack Rabbit

Jack, The G-spot vibes my wife and I have are the cheapie. Sometime simple is all it takes. It certainly would be interesting to see Jack on a Rabbit. Hugs & , Jenna

 

[Jenna2641]

couple years ago i started with a standard small butt plug which provided me with many great orgasms, and it felt really good. i wanted more though so i got the aneros. like someone else said here the instructions are not so great. i did follow the directions and achieved the most intense orgasm ever. the only way to describe how it felt is that i think i probably looked like some women do when they have a intense orgasm. thing is i wasnt even fully hard and i did not ejaculate. but definitelt the most intense orgasm i ever had. now i want the bigger version of the aneros.

raffi_sandoval, Some of the reviews and experiences I have read about on the manufacturer website, describe some people using it and not getting immediate results. Sounds like you were lucky and did. I probably would guess you are already a practicer of kegel exercises and that was a factor.

Some only ever got mild pleasurable results. Others wouldn't get much results until after a couple weeks of repeated use. I think the most amazing experiences shared were those that would share an experience after several weeks where they had plenty of time for their latest session and would fall asleep after a couple pleasurable experiences, with the aneros still in. They would then be woken up by involuntairy PC contractions. They would roll with it and go on to have one of their most amazing orgasmic experiences.

Their descriptions were like you described. No ejactulation and/or limited erection, but an almost feminine orgasmic experience.

No matter how it happens, it certainly sounds fun. I am going to see how much long I can keep my Kegels up and practice on the toys I have for effect. Good luck and much fun to everyone! Hugs, Jenna

 

[Jenna2641]

I finally saw an aneros, and wow are they tiny. I got an onyx wand instead for 35 instead of the 60 they wanted for the aneros. Going to give it a try tonight when I get home from work.

Ravenloft, I looked it up online and it has potential. Have fun and Good luck! Hugs, Jenna

 

[raffi_sandoval]

raffi_sandoval, Some of the reviews and experiences I have read about on the manufacturer website, describe some people using it and not getting immediate results. Sounds like you were lucky and did. I probably would guess you are already a practicer of kegel exercises and that was a factor.

Some only ever got mild pleasurable results. Others wouldn't get much results until after a couple weeks of repeated use. I think the most amazing experiences shared were those that would share an experience after several weeks where they had plenty of time for their latest session and would fall asleep after a couple pleasurable experiences, with the aneros still in. They would then be woken up by involuntairy PC contractions. They would roll with it and go on to have one of their most amazing orgasmic experiences.

Their descriptions were like you described. No ejactulation and/or limited erection, but an almost feminine orgasmic experience.

No matter how it happens, it certainly sounds fun. I am going to see how much long I can keep my Kegels up and practice on the toys I have for effect. Good luck and much fun to everyone! Hugs, Jenna

the involuntary PC contractions were almost scary they were so intense and lasted so long. my body was kind of jerking around. i never had a solo orgasm where i was moaning and panting so hard.

and yes i have practiced kegel exercises. i also was playing with my nipples quite a bit, but never touched my cock. i lost track of time but i would guess it took over an hoour.

im getting warm just thinking about it.

 

[Jenna2641]

the involuntary PC contractions were almost scary they were so intense and lasted so long. my body was kind of jerking around. i never had a solo orgasm where i was moaning and panting so hard.

and yes i have practiced kegel exercises. i also was playing with my nipples quite a bit, but never touched my cock. i lost track of time but i would guess it took over an hoour.

im getting warm just thinking about it.

Glad you had such a wonderful experience. Would have been good to watch. I am so happy for you! Hugs & Jenna

 

[eastanglianboy]

try this up ya arse with plenty of lube. its about to drive me wild no matter which end

 

[SilkyDave]

i am getting very warm reading this and seeing that picture is making my pants feel a bit tight !

 

[Georgesowner1]

bumping

 

[NomadLady]

Something told me you would be a proponent of kegel exercises. Big Hugs! Jenna

Actually had them ordered by a physician many, many years ago to assist with a bladder condition. Noticed a wonderful increase in the pleasure of intercourse soon after and just never stopped....it's at least ONE exercise that I REALLY enjoy doing!!!

 

[Jenna2641]

Actually had them ordered by a physician many, many years ago to assist with a bladder condition. Noticed a wonderful increase in the pleasure of intercourse soon after and just never stopped....it's at least ONE exercise that I REALLY enjoy doing!!!

Better than the side affects of the drugs the put on the market these days! LOL

 

[Ravenloft]

I still have to get over this 'virginal ache' of having my onyx in which makes it kind of hard to relax.

 

[Jenna2641]

I still have to get over this 'virginal ache' of having my onyx in which makes it kind of hard to relax.

That first time can leave a reminder that lasts for a couple days. At least that is what I remember. I since recover more quickly.

How was the experience, beyond the current reminder?

 

[NomadLady]

Aneros Progasm report!!!

I am happy, estatic, thrilled, stunned, etc etc etc to report that the new Aneros Progasm that I got for my friend was used successfully today. This friend fell off a rooftop 2.5 years ago, which broke his pelvis and back in several places. To that end, he has suffered from some pretty bad nerve damage in his pelvic region and achieving orgasm has been difficult to say the least.

I am proud to report his first actual "squirting" orgasm today, he was lying on his back and it went about a foot high and at least a foot in distance and was a TOTAL shock to both of us. He had already sorta bubbled out a couple of times with cum so we thought he was done....I was removing the toy and as soon as it was out he had this huge load of cum squirt up and over his left arm...I think the toy is a success!!!!!

 

[Ravenloft]

Well Jenna, it definately helped with my normal masturbation. I was getting hard with very little external stimulation while I had the Onyx in me. I am kind of disapointed that I wasn't feeling much internal pleasure though. I realize that it was mostly because I wasn't completely relaxed too though, so I'm not giving up or anything. It only aches while I have it in though.

I think if I could combine it with a vibe, that would go a long way. But as I've mentioned, I sort of broke the last massager I owned. LOL.

But apart from all that, Jenna, you say you've seen pictures of the Onyx online right? Its like a peice of art, especially with the leaf etching!

http://gottoys.biz/store/images/ab461-sinclair-institute-select-onyx-prostate-massage-wand-1.jpg

 

[Jenna2641]

Well Jenna, it definately helped with my normal masturbation. I was getting hard with very little external stimulation while I had the Onyx in me. I am kind of disapointed that I wasn't feeling much internal pleasure though. I realize that it was mostly because I wasn't completely relaxed too though, so I'm not giving up or anything. It only aches while I have it in though.

I think if I could combine it with a vibe, that would go a long way. But as I've mentioned, I sort of broke the last massager I owned. LOL.

But apart from all that, Jenna, you say you've seen pictures of the Onyx online right? Its like a peice of art, especially with the leaf etching!

http://gottoys.biz/store/images/ab461-sinclair-institute-select-onyx-prostate-massage-wand-1.jpg

That is the one my search pulled up. It certainly looks interesting.

A vibrating toy would probably help relaxation. Some breath techniques. Perhaps some calming music like you might hear at spa.

The vibrator I mentioned before liking is the g-gasm delight from Adam & Eve. It is cheap, but I think it fits just right. Hopefully this link will work.

http://www.adameve.com/adult-sex-to...s/sp-g-gasm-delight-g-spot-vibrator-9825.aspx

Take your time. No rushing. I am sure after a couple tries, you'll see some results. Good luck.

 

[Helen_CD_UK]

I've had a Nexus Glide for a couple of years now, but have only used it a few times as the discomfort of inserting it rather spoils any potential fun!

(It astounds me that people complain the Glide is "too small" - to me it's akin to trying to give birth through one nostril...)

This evening I spent/wasted another hour trying to massage my prostate with the Glide. I lay on my side on the bed, legs bent, applied loads of lube and after a few fairly uncomfortable minutes I had the thing inserted. To increase my arousal I had dressed myself in my lovely little pink latex minidress and black PVC thigh-high boots (still wearing these now!) and put a Youporn movie on the laptop.

Now all the videos, instructions, forum posts etc seem to recommend contracting your "PC muscles" (which I understand are the ones which stop you mid-pee); so I spent the next 10 or 15 mins trying this. Result? Nothing of note, sadly; my penis, which I was deliberately avoiding touching, remained soft and no sign of any pleasurable sensatons or ejaculation of any variety.

I then tried moving the handle of the Glide a little; by pushing it such that the device sort of pivoted and pushed the head against where the prostate should be, I managed to generate a little sensation which was best described as needing to pee. Not pleasurable in any way, but at least something!

Taking this as some sort of encouragement I started to gently wiggle the Glide against this point, which intensified the feeling of needing to pee... could this be working, I wondered?

To cut a long story short, I carried on like this for another 20 mins or so but never achieved anything further than the "need to pee" feeling. At no point did my penis become erect, nor did it produce any ejaculation. There was a very small amount of precum, but not even as much as I'd normally produce just from "ordinary" masturbation! At this point my horniness had completely vanished, replaced by discmfort and frustration, so I gave up, pulled the thing out and went to the bathroom to wash up.

Overall it was a highly disappointing experience again, not to mention mildly painful. Either there's a knack to this which I just don't get, or the Glide is the wrong shape/size for me, or perhaps I just don't have a prostate?!

I think next time I try the damn thing I'm going to completely ignore the instructions and just try normal masturbation once it's inserted. If it fails to at least enhance the sensation of an ordinary orgasm then I'm afraid it's next insertion will be into the bin!

 

[Rolando2]

http://xhamster.com/movies/176447/prostate_massage.html