Question for bisexuals

[John Doe]

So, my kung-fu is better than yours?

No, we are of the same clan, so we shall not do battle this day, Never-san. *sheaths katana, bows*

 

[Never]

*ritsu-rei*

 

[Netzach]

In my opinion, bisexuals don't need to have access to both genders to be happy. [/B]

I do.

But I never claimed to be into that monogamy crap.

Of course, I know non-monogamous lesbians who could handle my dick benders if they were my primary partner just fine.

It's the monogamy that isn't gonna cut it for me. And I need the dick and the yin energy, and I like femme bi fag boys too much to not want to fondle them or beat them. I can't fathom being in a relationship where someone would say "you can't have chocolate." or "you can't do SM" or "you can't ride the cock."

Could also be a Top thing too, though. I make the stipulations, thank you.

 

[Prime]

i've no idea specifically why you would ... what circumstance would bring a bisexual to decide that would different for every bisexual

i was just curious how many bisexuals would perhaps if they were in a same sex relationship

as long as i was in the same sex relationship, not only would i give up having sex with people of the other gender, but every person of the same gender that i wasn't in the relationship with. even if that were only a month long thing, or for the rest of my life

 

[H piltdown]

Give up?

Why would we want to...or need to?

However, if conditions prevented us from pursuing our chosen lifestyle--Yes, we'd give up extra-marital affairs, as long as we had each other. For us, same sex or opposite sex isn't the question. Both conditions exist simultaneously.

Years ago, we made an oath to love each other, forever, and those feelings have only strengthened through the years.

 

[Soulfiregirl]

Honestly, I probably couldn't give up sex with men forever. If I had no choice I could be happy with just women and we could use strap-on's every once in a while.....but as much as I've enjoyed tasting pussy.....I still dig cock a lot too. I mean, men are just awesome sex partners.

 

[ChasingShadowsX]

Yeah I could stick to straight sex, it's that good... Of course she could always get out the dildo and we could switch roles I'd feel complete as long as someone loved me. I doubt I could do the relationship with a guy any how.

 

[kbate]

Love not Sex

I recently (June 04) broke up with a boyfriend of eleven months. Throughout the entire time I was with him, I continued seeing one or another of my girlfriends.

One of my girlfriends has since moved into my house and we have been living together quite happily for some time. I do not see anyone else now.

These observations lead me to state that I can do without men quite easily, but not without women.

I try not to think in terms of "forever," next year I might find a man who fulfills my needs as well as my current lover. (although I very much doubt that)

 

[Never]

Netzach:
"I do."

Yeah, but you're an uber-bisexual.

"But I never claimed to be into that monogamy crap."

It's not crap.

"Of course, I know non-monogamous lesbians who could handle my dick benders if they were my primary partner just fine."

Forgive me for lacking their enlightenment.

"It's the monogamy that isn't gonna cut it for me. And I need the dick and the yin energy, and I like femme bi fag boys too much to not want to fondle them or beat them. I can't fathom being in a relationship where someone would say "you can't have chocolate." or "you can't do SM" or "you can't ride the cock."

Okay, we're not compatible (surprise) but I still get to adore you from a distance.

"Could also be a Top thing too, though. I make the stipulations, thank you."

You don't have any stipulations in your current relationship?

 

[WyldSpirit]

As a bi female, I actually think that I would have a harder time giving up the same sex than the opposite sex.

Monogamy can be a little difficult for me, not that I want to run out and cheat or anything, but, my relationships have been primarily with men. In my experience men are usually pretty accommodating when their g/f's tell them that they want to continue to have sex with women. If you do it with your partners blessing is that considered cheating?

Anyway, when having sex with only women (yeah, I did go through a phase where I thought I'd given up on men all together for a while there until I net someone), there are lots of ways to simulate a penis. Unfortunately, when having sex with only men, there really isn't any way to simulate a pussy.

So, that's my thoughts on the matter.

 

[Never]

WyldSpirit
"If you do it with your partners blessing is that considered cheating?"

Not at all.

 

[Equinoxe]

WyldSpirit
"If you do it with your partners blessing is that considered cheating?"

Not at all.

That's how the ancient Germans viewed the matter.

 

[Netzach]

Yeah, but you're an uber-bisexual.

And a greedy oversexed bitch.

It's not crap.
No it's not. But it's so not my style.


Forgive me for lacking their enlightenment.

You are forgiven. Hey, there are women who need someone who'd be insanely jealous over them. They feel like you are not interested if you'd remotely ever want to share, especially with dick.


Okay, we're not compatible (surprise) but I still get to adore you from a distance.

Ok.



You don't have any stipulations in your current relationship? [/B]

Sure, tons.

I have to tell him where, who, when, why, preferably before doing anything and he has to tell me the same.

If there's a really hot (to him) guy who picked him up at the Y and it's now or never, or a really hot woman at the lesbian leather party, that's different.

I don't care as long as he has his cellphone and makes a safe-call and as long as he has a rubber. (luckily his idea of a hot man tends to be rather older and benign.)

I have to use latex barriers with everyone else and so does he.

he finds watching me with other people highly erotic. I find watching him with men extremely erotic, watching him with women mildly erotic, if a little more difficult, but also wonderfully confusing for him, so as a sadist, I like it overall.

If we want to have sex with other people we prefer being able to meet them, have coffee and OK them. That's not always possible, but highly desired.

Those are pretty much the rules as I'm aware of them and as I made them.

 

[Meat Whistler]

 

[headstrong69]

choices

it's hard to give up the opposite sex, but there's always decisions to make

my boyfriend is strongly monogamous (personally, i consider him selfish, he doesn't want to share me at all, hehe)

anyway, i love him, so i'll behave and stay away from the girls (at least physically)

there's better things than variety

 

[Ucellis]

interesting idea

I would be able to give it up.. I got weened into liking men truthfully lol.

 

[killallhippies]

no, i couldn't.

 

[LuciousBi-Writes4U]

i gave other women up for 7 yrs during my first marriage......
it sucked royallly !
so .... i told the first guy i started dating after the seperation that i liked girls to and if that was going to be a prob. for him then we should not even make the 1st date.........8 yrs later.... he and I are still married (#2 for both of us) have a beautiful child together and I pretty much have always had a girl friend ay all times....even through my pregnancy.... sometimes he gets in with she and I but.... far less than she and I get together on out own!

and he is TOTALLY cool with it.....I beleive that for me there is a male and a female love of my life!

hubby says i always seem more happy when there are two of them around to please me.... and another woman is also an infinite source of friendship... and acceptance ... something we all need in life.

 

[niteloser]

could you give up on the opposite sex forever?

I could... But I don't want to. I find men very attractive and women just as wonderful. I am not very experienced with ladies, but I know I don't want to give them up either! I like both!

 

[LuciousBi-Writes4U]

yes i could give it up.... but i don't want to either because they both bring something different into my life ......and i don't mean in physical parts! LOL

 

[John Doe]

no, i couldn't.

You mean you're bi?

 

[sexy-girl]

so if i was a gay person looking at this poll i would only be able to date 16 out of a possible 78 bi people on here if i was looking for a long term same sex monogamous relationship

 

[Luna_Wolf72]

My vote

Not just NO but hell to the fuck NO!!

Personally, I consider myself beyond bi-sexual. The thought of not being able to have either/or bothers me. I can love men and women, why should my choice of love partners be limited?

(and sexy_girl to me monogamy is not a bad thing, it's just something I have never been comfortable with..though I am better at it with chicks than with guys)

 

[Netzach]

so if i was a gay person looking at this poll i would only be able to date 16 out of a possible 78 bi people on here if i was looking for a long term same sex monogamous relationship

That has more to do with the ltr monogamous part than the gay part though. Right?

Or would you date a woman who would do other women but not men?

 

[killallhippies]

You mean you're bi?

yeah, what's it to you?