Question for ladies over 50

[SexyOlderNWMale]

I am a 64 year old married man with a very healthy sex drive. My wife has tapered off all thru her 50's and now has closed up shop entirely. Is this common?
I don't really want to go outside of my marriage...but don't want to be celebate either. If there are any women in a similar situation with their partners...pm me.

 

[skitzoid]

SexyOlder, your not alone. Many have stated the same problem on here in many different forms. I am 74 and the wife is 64. I do have a good memory and still have fond memories of the great sex we had. Different places at different times of the day. All had pretty much dried up. She mentioned a promise for tonight but I don't hold much weight in it. She has done that many times before and just blew it off. ( no pun ) Sex is not important to her and doesn't really care if I think it's important or not. I have done good to her for the last 26 years and she doesn't take any of that into consideration. Like you, I don't want to go outside my marriage. That takes too much time that I don't have. I like in a depressed area of Pa. so not a bunch of hotties running around.

 

[Ssbbw4u1974]

I'm almost 52, and had been sexually active early in life, until my late husband passed almost 5 years ago.
I'm in full menopause now, and have noticed my hormones that make me want to masturbate have diminished.
But, my desires in my mind are still sexy and strong...I still love talking naughty, and I think about sexy things often...

I don't know how I'd be IRL with someone, due to the hormone change..
I can guarantee my desire to please him orally wouldn't change, though!!

 

[IARainman]

I'm almost 52, and had been sexually active early in life, until my late husband passed almost 5 years ago.
I'm in full menopause now, and have noticed my hormones that make me want to masturbate have diminished.
But, my desires in my mind are still sexy and strong...I still love talking naughty, and I think about sexy things often...

I don't know how I'd be IRL with someone, due to the hormone change..
I can guarantee my desire to please him orally wouldn't change, though!!

Bless you

 

[Vladamier_Dracul]

My wife is 66 but looks and acts much younger. I am approaching 70 in a few weeks. I make dirty talk occasionally and erotic suggestions, sometimes totally out of the blue, during the day. I plan erotic date nights going out to dinner and our local lounge, sometimes with her wearing her slave collar. We roll play and are constantly looking for ways to spice things up. And we have a health supply of sex toys and high quality lube on hand. We perform a “Ceremony” which is erotic and she receives her collar if she successfully completes it. Ask your wife if she would be interested in being “collared” and see what she says. Lead her back to the dark side before it’s too late. It

 

[SexyXer]

I'm in my mid fifties and enjoy sex with my husband. I'm not sure what you all do to stay attracted to one another. We both still eat right, workout and flirt. Around the house I'll still wear crop tops and vacuum he'll come upbehind me while I'm doing stuff and rub my tits, nipples and crotch. He grab me randomly and passionately kiss me. Smacks my ass ache walks by. I've had him bend me over the counter when I'm in a skirt and do me from behind. He still acts like the man I married and it keeps wanting to be the girl he married. So if you not don't a look ready go back to acting like the horns successful guy of your late 20s early 30s.

 

[tristantrotsky]

I'm almost 52, and had been sexually active early in life, until my late husband passed almost 5 years ago.
I'm in full menopause now, and have noticed my hormones that make me want to masturbate have diminished.
But, my desires in my mind are still sexy and strong...I still love talking naughty, and I think about sexy things often...

I don't know how I'd be IRL with someone, due to the hormone change..
I can guarantee my desire to please him orally wouldn't change, though!!

Nor my desire to please you orally.
You sound lovely, and very desirable.

 

[tristantrotsky]

I'm almost 52, and had been sexually active early in life, until my late husband passed almost 5 years ago.
I'm in full menopause now, and have noticed my hormones that make me want to masturbate have diminished.
But, my desires in my mind are still sexy and strong...I still love talking naughty, and I think about sexy things often...

I don't know how I'd be IRL with someone, due to the hormone change..
I can guarantee my desire to please him orally wouldn't change, though!!

I'm so sorry to hear about your husband's passing.
But there's no reason for you to consider yourself alone. We should talk, you and I.

 

[Ssbbw4u1974]

I'm so sorry to hear about your husband's passing.
But there's no reason for you to consider yourself alone. We should talk, you and I.

Well, thank you so much..
I've been privileged to have met an amazing man here on Lit, actually
I'm totally ok being alone, as I have been on my own since I was 18, living very independent... So, physically I'm set.
Emotionally, I'm very well taken care of

 

[tristantrotsky]

Well, thank you so much..
I've been privileged to have met an amazing man here on Lit, actually
I'm totally ok being alone, as I have been on my own since I was 18, living very independent... So, physically I'm set.
Emotionally, I'm very well taken care of

I wish nothing but good things for you...

 

[Abramelin123]

I'm almost 52, and had been sexually active early in life, until my late husband passed almost 5 years ago.
I'm in full menopause now, and have noticed my hormones that make me want to masturbate have diminished.
But, my desires in my mind are still sexy and strong...I still love talking naughty, and I think about sexy things often...

I don't know how I'd be IRL with someone, due to the hormone change..
I can guarantee my desire to please him orally wouldn't change, though!!

I would hope you had a friend or someone you’re dating who can help you thru this. My wife closed down and we had just stopped. I wanted to talk and she just said it hurt when I entered her vaginally. Well we can still 69. But she would have none of it.