Question for lesbians

[sally_ja_hawkins]

no im bi, but i have a question for you. are you just not attracted to men or do you find the penis revolting? I can't imagine not liking it, but at the same time i have such a strong attraction for girls...so im bi. for sure. but i want to understand how you guys think. :]

Well, I'm a lesbian.

Re men - I enjoy the social company of men, but physically they've always left me completely cold, rather than inspiring revulsion, as such. I just don't "get" the sexuality of male looks, if you see what I mean. As for the penis and testicles, Etoile nailed it with the word "icky" - that's exactly how I feel. They look to me rather odd and dangly, and probably a bit smelly. Not very sexy, I'm afraid.

So although I can see why some gay women might find pleasure in the idea of having a penis to penetrate their partner, or for their girlfriend to have one - not for me. I'm afraid I enjoy the vagina too much.

 

[WriterDom]

Well, I'm a lesbian.

Re men - I enjoy the social company of men, but physically they've always left me completely cold, rather than inspiring revulsion, as such. I just don't "get" the sexuality of male looks, if you see what I mean. As for the penis and testicles, Etoile nailed it with the word "icky" - that's exactly how I feel. They look to me rather odd and dangly, and probably a bit smelly. Not very sexy, I'm afraid.

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I don't think cocks and balls are smelly if they are clean.

 

[DarkBee]

I don't think cocks and balls are smelly if they are clean.

Cleaning won't make them any more attractive to a lesbian though...

 

[gloriann]

I just wanted a simple lesbian roll call and now we're talking about dicks. Focus, ladies, focus!

 

[Shywong]

Any 'lesbians' want to teach a guy like me how to become a pro at your sport? I'm committed to practicing only on your field for the duration of my training. I'm even willing to do overtime if necessary. I'll put all the techniques you teach me to good use, and to celebrate my graduation from beaver camp I want to have a dousing party.

 

[gloriann]

Really? You really want to go there?

 

[Shywong]

Seriously that's one of my biggest fantasies, to find a 'lesbian' who will let me go down on her. >_>
NSA Style..

 

[gloriann]

So that's why you keep putting lesbian in quotes. Because a lesbian wouldn't let you go down on her.

 

[Etoile]

Oh look, another guy who thinks a lesbian would be converted if she just had sex with a man.

 

[gaymm]

Seriously that's one of my biggest fantasies, to find a 'lesbian' who will let me go down on her. >_>
NSA Style..

I was going to post but, seriously, you're not worth it.

 

[Shywong]

I was going to post but, seriously, you're not worth it.

Okay. I doubt it'd be anything I'd care enough to read.

 

[gloriann]

Aaaaaaaanyway... any other lesbians out there? There seriously cannot be four of us?!

 

[Wolfman1982]

Aaaaaaaanyway... any other lesbians out there? There seriously cannot be four of us?!

I think there are more , such as BitterIchor whom is a cool dame, whom I have had my fair share of fights with, NightJasmine who is a friend of mine. Who needs some love from those who care. Since deserves it. And then there was chun_gong whom got the cold shoulder because she was seen as a "non lesbian" lesbian. Because she loved cocksucking. So shame on you bitches ! for giving her the cold shoulder (you know whom I am talking about, so no offence to those who have no clue and those who weren´t involved in the persecution of chung_gong). chung_gong was a member of the unofficial "coolgang" where only I and SamuelX are around more than our last member of the gang PredatorSmile is the last member. Who is probably the most lovely hot woman whom I haven´t seen for a while.

If you have more questions, then ask away. But BitterIchor , chung_gong , and NightJasmine are lesbians too.

 

[ResAris]

Aaaaaaaanyway... any other lesbians out there? There seriously cannot be four of us?!

*raises hand* Add me to the list of being both a lesbian, and a golfer! That must mean something, I'm sure

 

[gloriann]

Cool, cool, a very slowly growing list.

The thing about a lesbian cocksucking... I'm sorry to hear that she got the cold shoulder. Lesbians can be a very tight-knit group because it's often perceived that no matter what our desires are, men's desires are more important. Take shywong, for example, in previous posts on this thread and the cold responses he received; that was why the responses to what he had to say were less than friendly.

At the end of the day, all that matters is... whatever gets you through the night. Perhaps, though, pyl is an apt practice.

And golfers unite!

 

[Shywong]

Take shywong, for example, in previous posts on this thread and the cold responses he received; that was why the responses to what he had to say were less than friendly.

OMG! Someone else finally notices this! I'm not here to try and convert anyone, I just want to eat some pussy. The forbidden fruit flavored kind. And yet somehow that ended in a gay guy coming in to piss on my face, only to turn around and say I'm not worth it. The irony is terrible and it happens often. You can be willing to bet that wasn't the last of it though. Another random person always comes back to quote me out of context, trying to make the situation worse.

 

[gloriann]

Shywong, do you understand that a lesbian wouldn't want you to do that to her, and finds it disrespectful that you would suggest it?

 

[Shywong]

If a lesbian was horny enough and there were no other women around I'm sure she would reluctantly let a guy friend go down on her, if he was persuasive enough, and agreed to do nothing more than orally gratify her. I wouldn't say doing the act makes her bi or straight, but perhaps desperate for release. If such a scenario is really so unfeasible to you then call it my fantasy. It's not all too different than a gay person fantasizing about a straight person.

 

[gloriann]

If a lesbian was horny enough and there were no other women around I'm sure she would reluctantly let a guy friend go down on her, if he was persuasive enough, and agreed to do nothing more than orally gratify her. I wouldn't say doing the act makes her bi or straight, but perhaps desperate for release. If such a scenario is really so unfeasible to you then call it my fantasy. It's not all too different than a gay person fantasizing about a straight person.

I'm not going to comment on your hypothetical, nor am I going to bash your fantasy. I was simply wondering if you could understand that what you said is disrespectful.

 

[Wolfman1982]

gloriann:even thou art blind, I said it wasn´t just lesbian cocksucking. But a real live penis too, and she was shunned by some of you. Because she liked to blow cocks off, and she got the feeling that she wasn´t really a lesbian. Because of her love of oral sex with men. So if I have to defend her in posthumous ways, then I can say . She WAS a lesbian who had kink of more than just the "normal" lesbian thrill. it is after all, whom you are emotionally into, and not the sex you have with others. That makes you a person. I know of other lesbians who are the same way, but I am not going to mention name or anything like that in that direction. Because I see them as friends, and second they are all private about it. And of the lesbian circle, both would be shunned by their peers because of it.

 

[gloriann]

wolfman: I understood what you meant. I did not know her, so I could not shun her, nor would I have, so please don't include me in that group.

I have met many lesbians who of late seem to be into men and/or cocks, and while this confuses me, I am hopeful that I don't pass judgement. You speak of "the one you love" as opposed to "the one you have sex with" and that is very true. Perhaps I am an old-school lesbian, or more closed-minded than I think I am, but, while I haven't strictly had sex with the one I was in love with at one time or another, I have stuck to my attractions, and that is women. This can't be helped. I can only speak for myself, however.

 

[Wolfman1982]

gloriann: I hope you understand, that perhaps I am young. But my actions should make me older than others of my same age group (in the twenties) and no I didn´t mean you. Since it wasn´t exactly what I said. I said some of you.

 

[ResAris]

I don't know any lesbians who are into, or even curious about, sucking off guys. Those who do profess to leaning in that direction usually identify themselves as "bi". Now, I have nothing against bi's. One friend in particular used to joke that while she enjoyed 100% sexual satisfaction, I had to content myself with 50%. If being a lesbian were just about the sex, I might have felt ripped off. However, my attraction to other women is based on a combination of physical and emotional factors; something I have never felt for any male.

I admit to having a bit of a bias towards bi's. I will never date one, nor would I knowingly become involved at a deeper level with one. The reasoning, while perhaps flawed, is that she is one day going to want to satisfy whatever itch a male scratches for her, and I'm monogamous by nature. She might as well be telling me (a blonde) that she needs a brunette thrown into the mix now and then. That's not to say I would shun them as friends.

 

[Wolfman1982]

ResAris: what you have just said is what makes it FUCKING hard to the lesbians who has a kink into the mix. That so-called true lesbians are hammering down on those who stray of the normal border of the fold.
And your bias about bi´s are even worse, since there are both men and women who are bi and monogamous. And the point of view you have given through your writing makes it so damn annoying to those rare people.

 

[gloriann]

Well spoken, ResAris.

The women that I've met in the last few years that claim to be lesbian, or even bi, yet have been with nothing but men since I've known them... they seem to have picked a label that appeases them, however, they aren't aware of the definition of the words.

That seems to be running rampant these days...