Question for lesbians

[Raor999]

I apoligize for such a short and briefly stated explanation, I'm on a device with a character limit.
Oh, and I'm in a long term, commited relationship with a woman.
Men do not turn me on at all; I couldn't even kiss one without cringing and with just a peck at that.
I'd be happy to explain myself further if anyone would like me to.

 

[Etoile]

Please go easy on me, my dear ladies (and participating men)...
I identify as being a lesbian. I am emotionally, physically, mentally and romantically attracted to women.
Despite that, I like cock.
I know...cries of not a lesbian etc.
There is nothing I like about men, on men.
All I have is a curiosity and envy towards them; I'd love to have a fully functioning and feeling, detatchable penis.
I would like to explore a penis intimately but I believe that is just a consequence of wanting to feel it myself.

You won't get any flames from me. It's perfectly possible to be curious about something without that fundamentally altering your identity. You already explained why you're a lesbian - emotional, romantic, physical, mental attraction to women - so who am I to say "no sorry, I'm taking away your lesbian card and announcing you're a bisexual because you're curious about something you know nothing about and want to learn more about." Nope, not my place to judge you. And quite frankly, anyone who says it is their place had better examine the plank in their own eye.

 

[Raor999]

Thank you for such a kind and understanding reply
I must say, I see you round the boards a lot; it's good to see someone who is so consistently honest and thoughtful in their replies. And active too!

 

[gloriann]

I echo Etoile's response.

I don't have an issue with anatomy, such as it is; although I personally am not curious, but I don't deride someone else's curiosity.

 

[tribalwomon]

Hello

I'm tribalwomon.... Lesbian Femme.. womon of color....been away ....love reading the message boards here......lurking ......

 

[gloriann]

Hi, tribalwomon, thank you for adding to our numbers.

 

[HarlotMinx]

As a intersexed(labia and penis, completely sterile) individual who transitioned to female; i'm not sure how I fit in with the first post but I guess I most closely relate as a lesbian female... Though I've heard arguments that I don't really count since I lack all the parts. Either way, my reason for being lesbian has nothing to do with not liking penis; to the contrary, I love it. It's men that I tend to draw short at. I just don't view the male psyche as appealing in a sexual manner. Its just that they lack the certian flavor that draws me to other women. Anyways, I'm not sure if my opinion counts as a lesbian opinion.

 

[Etoile]

Though I've heard arguments that I don't really count since I lack all the parts.

Let me guess, people who say that wouldn't let you into the Michigan Women's Music Festival, am I right? Pfft. You yourself said you transitioned to female, what more do those people want?! A woman is a woman, whatever she's got between her legs; plenty of MTF transwomen are non-op for a wide variety of reasons.

 

[HarlotMinx]

Let me guess, people who say that wouldn't let you into the Michigan Women's Music Festival, am I right? Pfft. You yourself said you transitioned to female, what more do those people want?! A woman is a woman, whatever she's got between her legs; plenty of MTF transwomen are non-op for a wide variety of reasons.

Well, never been interested in going to michfest but they tend to be odd about intersexed people; especially if they're declared male by docters. Honestly I'm bout even displeased with my genitals. Bresides, I DO have xx chromosomes.... Just some extra stuff tacked on.

 

[sarawithacock]

As a lesbian who happened to have been born transgendered....well, it's always been interesting to me that if someone can't accept that I am indeed female, then my relationship with my wife is thus heterosexual and should be just okey dokey! (Although, yes, excluding me from Lesbianhood and all the cool badges that go with...)

But if they are going to condemn my relationship on the basis that homosexuality is bad, then they have to accept that yes, I am indeed female and that I am a woman who was born transgendered.

Of course "they" would likely pick both to judge and ignore the contradictions...oh and I'm Christian too! which gives a whole other set of peoples the opportunity to judge, or misunderstand.

I suppose that makes some of us good ambassadors though. And fortunately I love all of "them" anyways...or so go my prayers..

 

[tribalwomon]

Thanks glo riann.. for the welcome..HUGS

 

[Labeller]

I am still alive, still queer, still lesbian, but no longer lit-regular.

I miss you.

I mean I miss reading your posts here.

 

[april-wine]

Increase the lesbian count by 1.....

 

[Trinique_Fire]

Hi. Lesbian here.

 

[theedebster]

Posts

I just love reading these posts and I have been away too long. I don't exactly fit the profile of a pure lesbian as I do enjoy playing with organs from both genders. However, my first and primary preference is with women, when available. Play on ladies.