Rant of Sorts

the_pet said:
Even though it's been a lonnnng time....it's still feel like i'm doing something wrong ignoring him......

his last email specificially said to give him my number for him to call me at ........and it just feels weird to ignore him




thanks for listening.....not everyone would understand what it feels like in this situation with a former D/s dynamic influencing behavior


pet

pet, it may feel wrong to ignore him but as you said this is a former relationship. You owe him nothing now. If he can't respect your wishes to drop the D/s dynamic then you'd be better off blocking his emails for your own sanity.

What he's doing to you is not right. It is not consensual. It could constitute emotional abuse. Is that what you want? I seriously doubt it or you wouldn't be asking for our help to stay strong.

Stop making excuses and do what you know you need to do. Otherwise he will worm his way back into your life. The choice is yours to make. You seem like a smart lady to me, I know you'll make the right one. :)

Best of luck to you pet! :rose:
 
the_pet said:
Even though it's been a lonnnng time....it's still feel like i'm doing something wrong ignoring him......

his last email specificially said to give him my number for him to call me at ........and it just feels weird to ignore him

Nah, like dixicritter said, he's abusing you. Just consider your "Block sender's address" button on your e-mail client to be your Safeword :D
 
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