Reasons to spank her?

spanking is dull and not very effective. caning is better. a thin long whippy rattan cane delivers the sharp sting on the bare bum to motivate and generate craving for bare back sodomy in doggy or face down on bed. about 10 strokes delivered at a medium pace is effective especially on a leisure weekend night meet while tipsy and horny for kink variety and craving taboo.
Those parallel cane lines on my girl's round ass can look very beautiful. I occasionally put one lower down too, on tje top of her legs. Just visible around the hem of the short dress she wares for me. I find thst extremely erotic.
 
Those parallel cane lines on my girl's round ass can look very beautiful. I occasionally put one lower down too, on tje top of her legs. Just visible around the hem of the short dress she wares for me. I find thst extremely erotic.
So sexy to think about
 
Those parallel cane lines on my girl's round ass can look very beautiful. I occasionally put one lower down too, on tje top of her legs. Just visible around the hem of the short dress she wares for me. I find thst extremely erotic.
middle area back of thigh is very erotic and motivating.
 
I love the scene in Secretary where she gets fed up that he won’t spank her anymore, so she doesn’t transcribe a letter he wanted written, she just folds and earthworm into the paper, which he then circles with a red pen as part of her correction, having finally gotten the message.
 
hard spanking or better still moderate caning on bare bum face down on bed is the best motivation for bareback sodomy.
 
The easy answer is because she wants you to and likes it, otherwise it's just abuse and your the bad guy. Things are rarely that simple with women thou. I've never had a women come up to me and ask to be spanked out of the blue... would definitely be hot if one would, yet probably like getting 'sleep with a virgin off my bucket list' never going to happen.

So you are left reading the room, something I tend to suck at, or controlling it. Best advice I can give approach it like you would anal. Pick your times holidays, your birthday carefully so there is a decent recovery period after and your not 'pestering' all the time, quickest way to get her to lose interest and shut any spanking play down. Then a couple of months later bemoan how boring your sex life is. Because lets face it the majority of women enjoy it in the heat of the moment and regret it later, v.s. the few who are really into it, at least for a time or completely apposed.

Try and link it to an object. Back years ago when my wife was dabbling in B.D.S.M, also switches we had a collar, who put the collar on the other would become the Dom... However I'm told getting her spanking stool out from the cupboard under the stairs, or buying her a garter and stocking set with matching 1/2 cup bra and open but knicker set which you ask her to put on before spanking work. Gives your partner the option to ask without asking come home to find the stool in the middle of the room, comes down stairs wearing the stockings...

Then you know you are good to go for not offering to make you a drink when she got hers... Or failing to mention she signed you up to do a job at her mothers without asking you first... honestly the reasons are endless. Just take remember to take it slow, warm her up with lots of touching start with relaxed 'cupped' palms and set well known additional ones an extra couple for being too slow, an extra 5 for not removing her pants when assuming the position being common.
 
Those parallel cane lines on my girl's round ass can look very beautiful. I occasionally put one lower down too, on tje top of her legs. Just visible around the hem of the short dress she wares for me. I find thst extremely erotic.
Now I’m imagining you caning my wife 🥵
 
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