Recommend some good porn!

[BrianGriffin]

My girlfriend and I are looking for some good porn to watch together. The thing is, 98% of porn we've tried is pretty...un-arousing. It's mostly bleach blondes with fake tits and tattooed muscleheads doing all this gonzo shit where the guys practically assault the women with their dicks, and it's just not sexy (to us). I guess we'd prefer something a little less "crazy reality-tv". Something with higher production values I guess.

We both like m/f couples and m/f/f threesomes, and girl on girl stuff, but not when it's like the style I described above where the girls just go to town on each other and refuse to say anything other than "Yee-ah? Yee-ah? Yee-ah?". That just looks retarded (to us). Just unrealistic shit that's about as arousing as dental surgery. She also likes girls with strap-ons, and we're into light bdsm stuff like what you'd see on hogtied.com As long as there's pleasure implied with the pain, we enjoy it. Anyway, can anyone recommend any titles worth purchasing/renting, or is anyone else in the same boat as us and sick of the current wave of popular porn methods?

 

[M's girl]

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[wehstar]

It's a bit out there and not really what your asking, but some people seem to enjoy webcam based sex with other interested couples. Like I said, not what you asked for, and there are a lot of other considerations including security, though authenticity seemed to be what your after. Just thought I'd put the suggestion out there.

 

[wellnow]

There is a website that has a few amateur videos that aren't that bad but the are notably amateur. I'm not sure I can get the url to go through but it is yu vu tu and is a dot com but without the spaces.

We, like you, would like to find "loving, natural sex" and maybe some good fmm or is that mfm, what ever. The webcam idea sounds interesting, too. How does a person get into that loop, wehstar?

good luck

 

[subwannabe]

Most porn does suck. I think almost all of it is geared to horny single men who want to get off to hardcore sex. It doesn't really thrill me either as most of it is totally unbelievable and unrealistic with sound dubbing including your "Oh Yeah!". It is ridiculous. My wife and I spent hours and hours over a few days trying to order some videos as you describe. After a great deal of invested time we wound up being extremely disappointed with our selections. It seems like there would be a market for sexy romantic videos with good plots that show hot sex scenes without all the stupidness and sound dubbing but alas I am not optimistic it will happen in my lifetime. My favorite parts of available selections are watching women talented enough to talk and suck a cock at the same time.

 

[wehstar]

There is a website that has a few amateur videos that aren't that bad but the are notably amateur. I'm not sure I can get the url to go through but it is yu vu tu and is a dot com but without the spaces.

We, like you, would like to find "loving, natural sex" and maybe some good fmm or is that mfm, what ever. The webcam idea sounds interesting, too. How does a person get into that loop, wehstar?

good luck

We've come across it on swinging websites. It's not especially our thing, but I believe that there are some sites entirely dedicated to it. Try google.

 

[Chi-Guy31]

M's Girl speaks the truth, she has some great suggestions and good taste in porn. What I have found over the years that helps is research, research and research. Sounds boring, but it pays off as it means you are only buying/renting what you will actually like. Decide what you want to see and then read reviews over www.adultdvdtalk.com, www.rogreviews.com, CAVR.com (http://www.cavr.com/homeelse.htm) and rame.net. You can search by title, star, whatever. I used to purchase the cheapest, 4 hr crap compilations before I knew better but now I have favorite directors, stars and studios. It may sound weird, but there is a helpful network of intelligent, funny men & women out there who enjoy good porn, love to talk about it and can offer fine suggestions.

And there is good porn out there featuring non-traditional looking performers as well (i.e. no blondes with fake tits), but again you have to look for it. Girls with strap-ons? Try porn directed by Francesca Le, whose work is well-reviewed and highly regarded. The aforementioned Marc Dorcel crafts gorgeous looking porn with gorgeous European woman in hard-core scenarios, i.e. beautiful to watch but also darned arousing! I happen to be a fan of Asian and Latina women, but also women who have thicker curves to I was not able to select any ol' porn off the rack or click it online, I needed to search a bit and find what was worthwhile to me.

Even searching the studio sites such as EvilAngel.com and DVSX.com can help with box covers and trailers for their DVD releases.

Good luck!

 

[M's girl]

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[seekingjoy]

Most porn does suck. I think almost all of it is geared to horny single men who want to get off to hardcore sex. It doesn't really thrill me either as most of it is totally unbelievable and unrealistic with sound dubbing including your "Oh Yeah!". It is ridiculous. My wife and I spent hours and hours over a few days trying to order some videos as you describe. After a great deal of invested time we wound up being extremely disappointed with our selections. It seems like there would be a market for sexy romantic videos with good plots that show hot sex scenes without all the stupidness and sound dubbing but alas I am not optimistic it will happen in my lifetime. My favorite parts of available selections are watching women talented enough to talk and suck a cock at the same time.

My porn story:

Talked my SO (who is shy, shy, shy) into watching a dab of porn with me a few months go. I had bought a cheap DVD. Well, he skipped to a section I'd not previewed. There were about 8 couples on the screen humping away. Unfortunately, the sound was on the guys who were running cameras. So you hear them whispering to each other all through the clip. I don't know that I'd have ever actually believed that 8 couples banging away would be boring to the two guys filming but there it was for all to hear....the two men chatting back and forth about where they'd get the best deal on buying car parts for the Honda Civic the one fellow was fixing up. It was less than arousing and the DVD went to the trash. Sometimes you get what you pay for.

 

[Chi-Guy31]

Haha, thanks Chi! Yeah... almost always How are you doing?

Not too bad, settling into L.A. lifestyle, finding my rhythm of working from home and just being at home, driving to clients, etc etc... but still enjoying being here and all that the area has to offer! Still working on reconnecting with the wife, the big change affects us in different ways...

 

[M's girl]

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[M's girl]

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