Request an Icebreaker PM

I sent one to someone the other day. I critiqued an existing audio for him and one he just made. We chatted for 2 1/2 hours today and he agreed to be my crush!

Hug for James since I haven't really been looking around for new people to chit chat with.
 
I'm actually quite stunned to read that. I don't think of myself as intimidating, and I'm wondering what I might be doing wrong to seem so. :eek:
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Nothing wrong at all, just amazed and impressed by your thoughtful answers. I admired you, and then I had a crush...and then, I wrote to you.
 
interesting thread :)

i wish I got more normal pms. maybe I should message more.
 
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I find PMing someone new difficult at times. Not really knowing what to say, and it seems that a lot of pressure is put on to make the first PM perfect, or you won't get a response back... not to mention the fear of it showing up on the PM asshatery thread.

With that said, there is one person that I do PM regularly.. and what a joy it is to PM that one person.
 
Anyone is more than welcome to send me a pm. I don't bite (unless asked) and enjoy some witty, flirty banter - so drop me a line. 😎😎
 
I find PMing someone new difficult at times. Not really knowing what to say, and it seems that a lot of pressure is put on to make the first PM perfect, or you won't get a response back... not to mention the fear of it showing up on the PM asshatery thread.
That is a shame. I've been put off sending PMs for those reasons. Even though I know that I'm only seeking a friendly exchange, I feel under pressure to demonstrate that there's nothing sinister, synthetic or needy about my approach, for fear of it ending up in the ridicule repository.

I created the "I was happy to answer your PM because..." thread in the hope that some accounts of positive experiences would offset some of the prevailing negativity. Encouragingly, it didn't suffer an immediate death.

Incidentally, I find that I often get good outcomes from spontaneous PMs that I send in response to a glimpse of chemistry in a thread. They're usually short, light-hearted and not at all thought through, but I do send them quickly while the opportunity is open. If I don't get any answer, then I assume that I misread the connection and just move on. I've not been bitten by any of those (unless I'm being unknowlingly blocked or ignored by people for being too random).
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Bumping because it snowed and that makes me beyond happy!
 
It snowed again and stayed overnight! Melting a little, will freeze, make the roads icy, cause a ton of accidents, back up the service centers as everyone rushes to get snow tires on, but...

it snowed!!!


Pm me if you have an ice pick story:D
 
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