Revenge- talk me out of it

Thanks again, everyone. I do feel better that I've done the right thing. There is only one other person on the board that we suspect may be in the same boat with this member. I've emailed her directly to tell her about him. If we are wrong and she has no connection to him off the board, oh well. I've asked that she then keep the info to herself. If we are right, I hope she pays attention and understands that we only told her about him to spare her pain and suffering.
 
I'm glad I didn't get mail either....but I don't think this is about "revenge" either.

*hugs Cheyenne*
 
Whispersecret said:
WHEW! I'm glad I didn't get that email!

But I had guessed correctly for the person who did get it! She handled the situation very well on her own already, didn't need the warning.

But that tells me there really is a pattern in this guy's approach. Be wary of nice guys! The devil takes all forms. He doesn't always look like the snake he is.
 
Cheyenne said:
But that tells me there really is a pattern in this guy's approach. Be wary of nice guys! The devil takes all forms. He doesn't always look like the snake he is.

Now that guy pisses me off. Not only has he hurt some very nice and good people here.
But he has also planted the seeds of suspicion when it comes to the rest of us, who talk off the board.
 
Cheyenne said:
Sorry, Xander. You know it isn't you!

I know Cheyenne. And you know I would NEVER do something like that.
It still pisses me off though. Big Time!!
 
ShyGuy68 said:
What he said!!!

That's because you're also a genuinely good person. Guess I have to remember that there are far more of you here than there are of the snake.



Side note: A few of you have emailed me to ask about specific people. I'll be happy to tell you who it isn't if you're worried you might be in contact with this guy off the board. Or I'll tell you if you have the misfortune of joining our little club. And I don't care who is talking to who (whom?) off the board so don't worry if you want to ask about someone specific but you don't want people to know about any connection you have with him. I'll keep it to myself.

Remember though, registered ID's are easy to change and we already know this guy is registered as more than one person. I'll probably be away from the bb and email from later today until tomorrow night, so I'm not ignoring you if I don't get back to you right away.
 
Big hugs from Muffinland. Hope your hiatus is short (okay, I'm selfish) cause I'ma miss ya. Take care sweetie.
 
A nice guy!

ShyGuy68 said:
Xander said:
And you know I would NEVER do something like that.
It still pisses me off though. Big Time!!
What he said!!!


What they said!!! I haven't had the chance to meet you yet, although we have posted on each others threads here. I am angered by the fact that even though I know I am not the individual you are talking about, you will still look upon me with fear and my motives will be suspect. My thoughts as to your getting revenge are if it is just naming the a--hole then it isn't revenge it is a public service. Think of all the ladies you will save from embarassment and maybe something worse. Personally I say name names and let the world know who he is!
 
CHeyenne, I'd like to get a description of his method, since you're not willing to name names. (Which I can understand.) But if you give some of the bogus names, then we can read past posts and get a feel for his writing style.
 
Seeing as how I have never spoken to Cheyenne I guess i'm off the hook.

That and the fact that i'm a prick.
 
Expertise said:

That and the fact that i'm a prick.

Sweetie you have one(pictures would prove it better ;)) but no you are not one that's for sure
 
Cheyenne said:
That's because you're also a genuinely good person.

Cheyenne thank you so much for calling me a good guy :) *hugs* Now go get that bastard!!
 
Are we in a lineup or having an examination?

Did someone say, "Nice guys, turn left and cough."? :)
 
I'm back! Never made it out of town on my business trip- crashed at my parents' house last night in the snow storm and was pampered with a home cooked meal, nice warm bed to sleep in, and breakfast to order this morning. Better than a mini-vacation!

bulld: Nice to meet you! Yes, I will be wary of people for awhile. But I won't completely lose my trust in all humans. Just may take me a little longer than it did before to warm up to new faces.

Whispersecret: A Black Day was him. That's a good example of his writing style. I recognized him right away.

Indy: Please don't take it personally- you're still a nice guy, too! *Note to women of the board stop looking at Indy funny. You're making him nervous.*

Expertise: We can fix that, you know. Just because we haven't spoken before doesn't mean we can't speak now! I just didn't want to have to stand in line behind all the other ladies trying to get to you. ;)

Nitelight- you don't want to take credit for being this guy, trust me. He isn't worthy to lick your boots.

Gaucho- hope you didn't have to cough too hard. Ouch! Nice guys always get hurt.

TRUE nice guys RULE!

p.s. I got NO email asking if anyone specific out of you guys was "the one". That's good, I think.
 
Re: Are we in a lineup or having an examination?

Gaucho said:
Did someone say, "Nice guys, turn left and cough."? :)

Feels like a line up to me,,,
 
Re: Re: Are we in a lineup or having an examination?

CW said:
Gaucho said:
Did someone say, "Nice guys, turn left and cough."? :)

Feels like a line up to me,,
Only if I get to do the examination part- this could be fun after all! ;)
 
Hey I resent the accusation, I was a nice guy once! Hmm, wait.. that sounded wrong.

I will say that you rarely have to get 'revenge' on such people. They tend to be rather pathetic individuals who hurt others only because it's the only way for them to feel smart, or important, or even loved. If Joe Schmo isn't even good enough to lick someone's boots he's not worth the time or energy.
 
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