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[Jessicasc1970]

We are planning on going to Trapeze in Atlanta tonight. I hope it is as fun in real life as the fantasy in our minds.

 

[BDSMJoe]

So the thought of catching herpes, genital warts, HPV in your throat, etc. from a stranger is of no concern to either of you? Remember, most people don't exhibit symptoms if they're infected.

That stuff is VERY rampant now, more so than it was 20 years ago. That load of stranger's cum may be a stagnant soup of STDs.

 

[Somehowyou]

So the thought of catching herpes, genital warts, HPV in your throat, etc. from a stranger is of no concern to either of you? Remember, most people don't exhibit symptoms if they're infected.

That stuff is VERY rampant now, more so than it was 20 years ago. That load of stranger's cum may be a stagnant soup of STDs.

And how about the car ride over? How dangerous is that? You could be crushed or burned alive trapped in the car!!!!! Oh my!!!!!! The highways are dangerous. And don't make a wrong turn and end up in the wrong side of Atlanta...How dangerous is that? What about West Nile if you are bitten by a mosquito?

Better yet just stay home and live inside a bubble. You will be safe there.

 

[silverwhisper]

spam reported.

ed

 

[BuckyDuckman]

My wife and I had good experiences in several different directions. We used adultfriendfinder as a way to meet some people. We found a local swing group on yahoo where we had some fun. She found guys by visiting yahoo chatrooms - not the sleazy, bot-filled ones. Instead, she visited the more local rooms and waited until someone IM'ed her and would take it from there. There are lots of guys out there trolling for sex, so you can be picky, take your time, and please remember, the search is part of the fun!

 

[Eilan]

"A stagnant soup of STDs"

Sounds like a good band name.

 

[bailadora]

And how about the car ride over? How dangerous is that? You could be crushed or burned alive trapped in the car!!!!! Oh my!!!!!! The highways are dangerous. And don't make a wrong turn and end up in the wrong side of Atlanta...How dangerous is that? What about West Nile if you are bitten by a mosquito?

Better yet just stay home and live inside a bubble. You will be safe there.

You're correct in that there's a certain element of risk in just about anything we do. That said, with more than 7000 cases of HPV related throat cancer being diagnosed each year (source), I don't think Joe's reminder to exercise all reasonable caution is without merit. Over the past two years, I've watched a family member battle this specific cancer and believe you me, it's no laughing matter.

 

[Jessicasc1970]

I figured I should share about our experience at Trapeze. We went on a Friday night, and got there at about 8:15. Trapeze was a nice club, very clean. Everyone who worked there was very polite. The food was pretty good. The bartenders were good, even though I wish I did not drink as much as I did. The dance floor was fine, even got my husband to dance with me once, and watching some people dance on the pole was fun.

My experience was mixed. I hooked up with one guy way too quick. He was not good, was quick, and was a dick afterwards. I really should have taken some time, and waited for it to get more crowded before hooking up with someone. Not a good first experience, I think my husband and I were both ready to leave after that, but we stuck around and had a few more drinks.

Later things got better. My husband and I started having sex in a hot tub then moved to a bed. Apparently that drew a little audience, and one guy started playing with me while I was riding my husband. I ended up letting him fuck me. I had my eyes closed, but I was told there were two guys jacking off watching me. There was another guy who was going to try to enter me without my permission, but my husband and another guy turned him away. Before we left, I had sex with two other guys, one who helped turn the other guy away, and one who was a nice guy earlier in the night.

We left at about 1:00. It was a fun night, capped off by sex with my husband back at the hotel, and then twice with him the next morning.

I thought we would see more people having sex. We saw a few people having sex, a couple in a 69, and a girl blowing a guy with a group gathered around her.

We'll be going back again. Hopefully to find a couple, or someone for my husband to have sex with, and some more fun for me. Next time we will not get there so early.

 

[silverwhisper]

at least the evening ended better than it began!

i'm glad you let us know how it turned out; quite often, the folks responding to these questions never know if what they offered was of any help.

:>

ed

 

[BuckyDuckman]

I figured I should share about our experience at Trapeze. We went on a Friday night, and got there at about 8:15. Trapeze was a nice club, very clean. Everyone who worked there was very polite. The food was pretty good. The bartenders were good, even though I wish I did not drink as much as I did. The dance floor was fine, even got my husband to dance with me once, and watching some people dance on the pole was fun.

My experience was mixed. I hooked up with one guy way too quick. He was not good, was quick, and was a dick afterwards. I really should have taken some time, and waited for it to get more crowded before hooking up with someone. Not a good first experience, I think my husband and I were both ready to leave after that, but we stuck around and had a few more drinks.

Later things got better. My husband and I started having sex in a hot tub then moved to a bed. Apparently that drew a little audience, and one guy started playing with me while I was riding my husband. I ended up letting him fuck me. I had my eyes closed, but I was told there were two guys jacking off watching me. There was another guy who was going to try to enter me without my permission, but my husband and another guy turned him away. Before we left, I had sex with two other guys, one who helped turn the other guy away, and one who was a nice guy earlier in the night.

We left at about 1:00. It was a fun night, capped off by sex with my husband back at the hotel, and then twice with him the next morning.

I thought we would see more people having sex. We saw a few people having sex, a couple in a 69, and a girl blowing a guy with a group gathered around her.

We'll be going back again. Hopefully to find a couple, or someone for my husband to have sex with, and some more fun for me. Next time we will not get there so early.

Your experience reminds me of some of the experiences I've had with my wife. For whatever it's worth, I hope to put a little spin on your comments and offer some perspective. No matter what, YOU DID IT!!!! That's HUGE thing in my book. Both of you did it. You did it together. And it sounds as if it brought you even closer together. Maybe it's something you want to do again and maybe it'll turn out to be a one off "remember that time when we....," but damn it girlfriend, YOU DID IT!!!! What a huge steps so many other people never take.

Okay, so the first guy wasn't that great. Big deal. As the old saying goes, sex is like snow: you never know how many inches you'll get or how long it will last. He could have been nicer. He could have been better in the sack. He could have... Oh wait, I'm leaving out the important part: YOU HAD SEX WITH ANOTHER MAN AND YOUR HUSBAND WAS COOL WITH IT!!!!

And what about the part where you were having sex with your husband in the hot tub before moving to the bed and attracting an audience of guys watching, including guys jerking off. Sweetie, do you realize how many fake stories are written and posted on her that describe something as hot as that? Hundreds if not more and guess what? You LIVED it! Maybe it wasn't as perfect as the hype. Maybe it wasn't "movie star" sex, but who the fuck cares? Again, YOU DID IT!!!!

And then you had sex with two other guys? C'mon, baby, how much more success do you want? And what happened after you got back to the hotel? Your husband couldn't keep his hands off of you. And why? Because he KNOWS he married the hottest, most remarkable woman on the face of the Earth. And hopefully, you realize you married the hottest, most amazing man on the face of the Earth who would celebrate you having sex with three other guys like that.

Whether you repeat or not. Whether it lives up to the fantasy or not. I hope this draws your husband and you together in a way few others can understand or appreciate. Good luck, to both of you!

 

[ButtAnalMan]

Really, nice and helpful thread

 

[hmzapal]

bin_Qasim_i on yahoo if you'd like to chat there.

 

[seahorsexx]

Well said!

 

[123Josh]

I'll I can offer is my Boner in your butt