Ok, here's the deal. this is a guy who i briefly dated after high school, and we remained friends all these years. he is a general all around good guy, smokin' hot (enter homer simpson drooling noise here) and i always thought of him as 'the guy i should have slept with but for some reason never did'. we were good friends, the phyisical chemistry was there, etc. anyway, fast forward a decade, i'm getting divorced and we reconnect. we laugh, flirt HEAVILY, exchange some 'interesting' pics, and talk about us doing the deed some time, but when i put the offer on the table, he balks. no, he doesn't have a girlfriend. but anyway, here i am in town for the week and he offers to let me stay at his place. says we'll have a couple of drinks, go for a swim, etc. So... I'm thinking maybe he likes to pursue and by putting myself out there it killed his mojo. lol. so, being out of the dating game for most of my adult life, i need some of those tried and true techniques to use tonight!
seducing my guy friend... lol
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Best thing I can tell you is don't push.
A few drinks, a swim, and the fact that you've already "re-connected" thru the net....all part of the recipe for getting what you desire.
On the downside, you could get to his house and find yourself not sexually attracted to him for some reason. then you get to just have a fun evening catching up on old times.
Kinda doubt this will happen tho...lol
A few drinks, a swim, and the fact that you've already "re-connected" thru the net....all part of the recipe for getting what you desire.
On the downside, you could get to his house and find yourself not sexually attracted to him for some reason. then you get to just have a fun evening catching up on old times.
Kinda doubt this will happen tho...lol
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Just glanced thru your profile.
Maybe a better avenue would be that after he answers the door just drop to your knees, unzip him, and swallow every inch. Then turn around and offer up your ass for whatever he desires to do with it.
Just a thought.
Maybe a better avenue would be that after he answers the door just drop to your knees, unzip him, and swallow every inch. Then turn around and offer up your ass for whatever he desires to do with it.
Just a thought.
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Can't think putting yourself outhere killed his desire by there is an incredible variety of "wiring" in the brains of humans so most anything is possible. My thought would be there is a VERY important reason he hasn't responded to your advance. Play the sympathetic guest, not to mention good friend, and ask about him, his life, his concerns and how things are going.
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Can't think putting yourself outhere killed his desire by there is an incredible variety of "wiring" in the brains of humans so most anything is possible. My thought would be there is a VERY important reason he hasn't responded to your advance. Play the sympathetic guest, not to mention good friend, and ask about him, his life, his concerns and how things are going.
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what a great opportunity you have. it could have been that when he balked ,he just needed some time to think about it and was momentarily taken aback.
Here's a method I offer half in jest: Why not confide in him that you need HIS advice, there's this guy friend you've had you are really hot for, and ask his advice on how to pull it off? Make that a conversation that goes on for a while and stops and starts again so it's obvious it's really on your mind. All the time getting closer and wearing something reasonably suggestive.
That'd be quite interesting.....
Here's a method I offer half in jest: Why not confide in him that you need HIS advice, there's this guy friend you've had you are really hot for, and ask his advice on how to pull it off? Make that a conversation that goes on for a while and stops and starts again so it's obvious it's really on your mind. All the time getting closer and wearing something reasonably suggestive.
That'd be quite interesting.....
