sex Buddies

[lisasmurf]

from should a gal make with her Best Male friend

can they still be friends

does any one have a friends for the sake of sex

I DO.......

i'm 29 he is 42 he a great fuck

speak up whom has a sex buddy?


Lisa

 

[fntguy]

Friends are friends. Sexbuddies are sexbuddies. Speak up!

 

[lisasmurf]

fntguy

your so right

I give you a High 5

a good friend are hard to find

sex buddy just around the corner

or next door..

 

[fntguy]

Thats right. Remember, if you have sex with your friend, he won't be your friend afterwards. Would turn out to be your sex buddy. And it can't be changed. So you can decide!

 

[nycphoto]

I used to have sex buddies, now they (females) seem to all be married and scared that they will ruin something. Hummm

 

[TirelessTongue]

from should a gal make with her Best Male friend

can they still be friends

does any one have a friends for the sake of sex

I DO.......

i'm 29 he is 42 he a great fuck

speak up whom has a sex buddy?


Lisa

I've had one in the past. Fuck buddies are lots of fun. Sure take the edge off of being single

 

[Cakegirl]

Damit! I replied to this earlier today, but now not only is my message gone, but so are the posts I replied to.

I suspect in the latest lit upgrade, it's reverted to a backup version of the forum.

 

[lisasmurf]

Damit! I replied to this earlier today, but now not only is my message gone, but so are the posts I replied to.

I suspect in the latest lit upgrade, it's reverted to a backup version of the forum.

some guy posted 2 notes was more about a band then sex buddies
i guess lit, didn't like it

sorry please repost what yu said.

lisa

 

[corkie2]

I have a friend that I guess you could call a fuck buddie............ *grinzzzzzz* When we both are not seeing someone special we take our carnal needs out on each other. It hasn't hurt our friendship at all. We have always been good friends and good together in bed. *grinzzzzz*

Corkie

 

[Gil_T2]

I have a friend that I guess you could call a fuck buddie............ *grinzzzzzz* When we both are not seeing someone special we take our carnal needs out on each other. It hasn't hurt our friendship at all. We have always been good friends and good together in bed. *grinzzzzz*

Corkie

I too have a friend/fuckbuddie & I did worry about it changing things between us but it is many years now so I guess our friendship is safe.

 

[Bluewolfcry]

In my experience fuck-buddy situations rarely work out.....

usually one becomes emotionally attached to the other or some sort of jealousy comes out.

I personally am not up for either one anymore.

Good luck and try to keep your emotions out of your fuck buddy scenario!

 

[intelligencenazi]

Damn it!

I posted earlier too. I don't have a copy of it anywhere so I'll do my best to re-create it.

Basically, I disagree with the idea that you can't be friends after you have sex and that friends with benefits never works. I have a very close friend that I've known for years. A little over a year ago we started having sex. We had a bit of an issue at the beginning b/c he went stupid and thought he might be leading me on and started feeling guilty, but some open communication cleared up THAT misunderstanding. Except for that one small hiccup, the sex has NOT adversely affected our relationship. We're still as close as ever. Our friendship still comes before anything else. When we can't have sex due to distance or one of us aquiring a significant other, we still talk all the time. I do recognize that our relationship is a little unusual and part of the reason it's possible is our long, odd history together. Besides that we already had a solid friendship when we began having sex, and we're very open with each other. It helps that we know exactly what we are to each other. We know where we stand. We know that we're best friends, that we're extremely attracted to each other, and we both love the sex. We know that neither of us is willing to even consider a relationship until he's back home for good (he's in the military for the next two and a half years) if even then. Whatever the reason, it works for us.

On a totally seperate note... Is there a how-to part of the question that I'm missing entirely??

 

[Mary Hall]

I have an internet fuck buddy

 

[PrincessHoney]

i've had several fuck buddies in the past... one of whom i'm going on holiday with next week...
If you both go into it with your eyes open it will work.....

but you've got to be honest with each other

 

[Gil_T2]

i've had several fuck buddies in the past... one of whom i'm going on holiday with next week...
If you both go into it with your eyes open it will work.....

but you've got to be honest with each other

HONESTY is the key to any relationship we have in life be it fuck budies,lover or just friends.

 

[GirlMidnite]

I suppose it depends on the intentions of yourself and your friend, your personality (e.g. whether sex and love must go hand in hand), as well as the dynamics of the friendship.

If both intentions are just for a great fuck, great. Problems emerge when one friend imagines it may be the yellow brick road to love.

 

[Gil_T2]

I suppose it depends on the intentions of yourself and your friend, your personality (e.g. whether sex and love must go hand in hand), as well as the dynamics of the friendship.

If both intentions are just for a great fuck, great. Problems emerge when one friend imagines it may be the yellow brick road to love.

EMOTIONS do need to be considered & although with me it's is hrad seeing my FRIEND without picturing her naked & knowing the sexy body hiding under the cloths but as I said we had our time years ago & we are still friends, in fact she is my beat friend & we have no secrets between us.

 

[PrincessHoney]

HONESTY is the key to any relationship we have in life be it fuck budies,lover or just friends.

exactly..... but if your honest u can have some amazing sex! all good

 

[Gil_T2]

exactly..... but if your honest u can have some amazing sex! all good

Oh we sure did & even though it was years ago we still talk abut it & the possibility of a re run although now i have BANDIT as my partner it is nice to think it might.

 

[GuitarRocker]

I've never had a fuck buddy before but if I were to get one, would I? Hell yes. I'm tired of being alone. I totally agree that close friends can always have sex. Nothing wrong with it at all. All sex is it's just fun and lust. Love does not mean sex. If I were to get a sex partner, I would have to know her well enough first though.

 

[niteloser]

I have a good friend who is also a sex buddy. I think it can work. As long as there is more to the relationship besides sex, then you aren't just sex buddies. This isn't just my opinion, I know several people who this has worked for. we also have makeout buddies. We are all great friends too. I think it works well, for us anyways.

nookie isn't hard to come by... but good nookie is.

 

[12to8]

Sex Buddy

I assume your speaking of "singles" having a sex buddy, right?

I'm not judging the idea but I think a spouse would look at a sex buddy as cheating.

On the otherhand, as a male I can think of many reasons for both partners to have a sex buddy.

For me, I could suck a cock when the mood struck me and I could do the things my wife may not enjoy, but my buddy did.

My wife, with her buddy could get what I did not or can't give??????

 

[PrincessHoney]

Think the general idea of fuck buddies is for single people - otherwise that crossed over into open relationships????

maybe thats just me tho....

 

[Bandit58]

Think the general idea of fuck buddies is for single people - otherwise that crossed over into open relationships????

maybe thats just me tho....

I'm actively looking for a female friend and sex buddy, with Gil's help Perhaps two or three even As long as everybody involved knows about each other and everything is open and above board.

Before I was with Gil I had a couple of male fuck friends.....one was 11 years older than me and wanted to be kind of like a sugar daddy, the other was a guy I'd known since we were kids and had been casual friends with for years before he made a pass at me They both knew about the other, they lived in different towns and I made it quite clear that if they wanted to see me in that way then I made the rules and if they didn't like it well tough! It lasted for several months until the older guy started getting an attitude and I dumped him. Gil knew about them too, and because we were living in different countries at the time I did keep having occasional fun with the younger man until I met Gil in real time. Then I called the sex stuff off, although we remain friends with no hard feelings

 

[LonelyNights]

I've got one Sex buddies are awesome.