sex on the wedding night?

[Eilan]

I hear ya on that one. Especially if it concerns my children. There are some things a mother doesn't need to know.

I'll get back to you in about 30 years.

Oh, and my parents never had sex. Ever. I can't explain how I got here.

 

[Hisbabydoll26]

quick poll: did you have sex the night of your wedding? obviously, this would only apply to those who are or have been married.

ed

Yes....it was wonderful....always is...

 

[midwestyankee]

I'll get back to you in about 30 years.

Oh, and my parents never had sex. Ever. I can't explain how I got here.

Hmmm...musta been one of them ejaculate receptions. Yep, that's what I think.

 

[SweetErika]

Yes, but we were exhausted and it was more because we were supposed to than true desire. As a result, it wasn't spectacular or very memorable, but we have the rest of our lives to make up for it. Plus, we did manage a wonderful bath and lots of intimacy that night, so that's what I choose to look back on, not the sex.

 

[Guest]

 

[bisexplicit]

Well, I wasn't born yesterday, not by a long shot. Just because people aren't allowed to have sex doesn't mean they're not going to have sex. That's why a parent needs to keep the line of communication open. At least try to.

Oh, yeah, I know.

When I have kids, I'm gonna be Mrs. Open-and-honest. But, all the while, I will be denying in my head that my future children will ever have sex. It just works better for me that way to pretend things like that don't happen.

 

[bobsgirl]

I'll get back to you in about 30 years.

Oh, and my parents never had sex. Ever. I can't explain how I got here.

One of the traumatic events of my life was walking in on my parents mid-act, so to speak. I was 19 years old. Odder still is the fact that they were divorced at the time.

Oops.

 

[M's girl]

Yes, but we were exhausted and it was more because we were supposed to than true desire. As a result, it wasn't spectacular or very memorable, but we have the rest of our lives to make up for it. Plus, we did manage a wonderful bath and lots of intimacy that night, so that's what I choose to look back on, not the sex.

I would favor TLC and intimacy ANY TIME over (just) sex....
I think you had so much more than someone who had the obligatory sex on their wedding night without the intimacy, the feeling of real connection and the love and respect and the likes...

 

[CorsetLvr]

Oh, yeah, I know.

When I have kids, I'm gonna be Mrs. Open-and-honest. But, all the while, I will be denying in my head that my future children will ever have sex. It just works better for me that way to pretend things like that don't happen.

Can you say teenage pregnancy? Unfortunately, the head in the sand philosophy usually ends up somewhere along that road, or worse. Its better to assume they are going to be just as horny, if not more, then you were at that age. I grew up with a mother that assumed I was a virgin until I was 30'ish. If she only knew.

 

[TBKahuna123]

One of the traumatic events of my life was walking in on my parents mid-act, so to speak. I was 19 years old. Odder still is the fact that they were divorced at the time.

Oops.

I'll do you one better, I walked in on my GRANDPARENTS! I was about 18 at the time and they were in their late 60's. I agree, it's traumatic.

 

[Guest]

 

[bisexplicit]

Can you say teenage pregnancy? Unfortunately, the head in the sand philosophy usually ends up somewhere along that road, or worse. Its better to assume they are going to be just as horny, if not more, then you were at that age. I grew up with a mother that assumed I was a virgin until I was 30'ish. If she only knew.

Did you miss the Mrs. Open-and-honest part?

I can talk to people about something, and give great advice, make all the correct logical decisions - while still denying it in my head. I'm quite talented that way.

 

[CorsetLvr]

Did you miss the Mrs. Open-and-honest part?

I can talk to people about something, and give great advice, make all the correct logical decisions - while still denying it in my head. I'm quite talented that way.

OK, sounds good in theory. I hope you can put it into practice.

 

[HornyHenry]

Nope

She got her period as soon as we got home that evening. (She never could figure out when she was going to get it and didn't bother to tell me when we made plans. Wish "I" had figured it out myself!) Next day, we left for Hawaii where I got very sick on the second day with AGI, diahrea and throwing up. We finally managed to do it on Saturday night, one week after the ceremony, before we flew back the next day.
Rough start.
I've had sex with women on their periods, but NOT her. It doesn't work with some people.

We're divorced now...

 

[bisexplicit]

OK, sounds good in theory. I hope you can put it into practice.

Oh, for chrissakes. I'm nineteen and not pregnant.

I don't plan to be pregnant until I am at least twenty six or older. And then once I have kids, I have at the very minimum I would say a good 13 years before they potentially could start having sex.

That is twenty years until I /really/ have to worry about this.

 

[silverwhisper]

corsetluvr obviously doesn't know you very well, bi.

ed

 

[CorsetLvr]

Oh, for chrissakes. I'm nineteen and not pregnant.

I don't plan to be pregnant until I am at least twenty six or older. And then once I have kids, I have at the very minimum I would say a good 13 years before they potentially could start having sex.

That is twenty years until I /really/ have to worry about this.

I'm sorry if I offended you. I was just trying to make the point that how we plan to raise children and how it turns out in real life can be totally different. There are just to many variables involved.

To paraphrase von Clausewitz, 'The best plan of battle is only good until the first smoke of battle.'

 

[Guest]

 

[silverwhisper]

well, bi clearly sucks at creating polls...

ed

 

[Guest]

 

[Ravin the Poet]

Am I the only one who wants to know the final score of the football game??


And what was the half time show?

And was their a post game show, recapping the events?



Ravin

 

[bobsgirl]

Am I the only one who wants to know the final score of the football game??


And what was the half time show?

And was their a post game show, recapping the events?



Ravin

I seem to remember that Minnesota was one of the teams, but I'd put money on MrB's knowing who played that night, and the final score.

 

[Guest]

 

[bisexplicit]

I'm sorry if I offended you. I was just trying to make the point that how we plan to raise children and how it turns out in real life can be totally different. There are just to many variables involved.

To paraphrase von Clausewitz, 'The best plan of battle is only good until the first smoke of battle.'

Nah, I'm just in a pissy mood almost all the time, and sometimes let my bitchiness creep into my posts.

I apologize.

 

[CorsetLvr]

I apologize.

No need to apologize.