Sex & Shenanigans

[vagrantx]

What’s your experience guys and girls?

I once got an angry note in the mailbox from a disgruntled neighbor who we apparently kept up all night.
It was anonymous.
We've since moved.

 

[Sammysub07]

I once got an angry note in the mailbox from a disgruntled neighbor who we apparently kept up all night.
It was anonymous.
We've since moved.

Ohhh I’ve definitely been caught! Multiple times! Best part about being in military housing, most will just hoot and holler to cheer you on

You should have taped a reply to the outside of your mailbox

 

[Bbl87]

So much of this! Stimulate thoughts, the mind is an incredible organ during sex/play!

You and me both!!

Are you reading my mind?! I feel like this is a Gimmie, like here’s your reward, I’m going to go clean up.

Combination, sign me up! Haha

Right?! Talk about that next little bit that gets you right where you need, hearing this? Yup! Haha

You mean people actually make noise during sex? What's that like to be with?

In all seriousness, I do really like talking/communicating/etc. during sex. In addition to the potential to be very hot if you're with someone who is a good dirty talker, I think talking being the norm makes it easier to communicate your wants/needs because you don't feel like speaking up breaks the moment/mood.

My wife unfortunately finds it awkward unless she's sufficiently drunk, haha, so it doesn't happen much for us.

 

[UnquietDreams]

Alright! So I just saw this and thought I’d share it but it also reminds me of a conversation @MischiefMakerAlways and I had. It’s about the TikTok trend “He sounds like he talks you through it”

I said it’s true because a lot of guys in my experience, outside of kink anyway, don’t really talk, grunt, make noise when they orgasm, etc.

He said, girls in his experience don’t make much noise either. I’m noisy and talk quite a bit!

I think girls are lot more vocal during sex/play then men are.

What’s your experience guys and girls?


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I have always been very audible during sex. Part of me knows that communication is so important, and it is a form of auditory feedback. But mostly, I just enjoy it. And I have been told I am pretty good with dirty talk when they enjoy that, and commands when playing in a D/s realm. I do decent voice, heh.

I have always loved listening to a woman moan and sigh -- it is among my favorite things. But since being on Lit, I have really opened up to an audiology kink, with sound and talk being a major focus. And I have shared that with a few people, and as a result, I have found I have become very vocal while masturbating, even when I am not sharing it with anyone. At one point, I had a neighbor pound on the ceiling when I yelled, at the top of my lungs, "oh fuck, you are such a goddamned sexy woman" in honor of someone here on Lit during a high point...

 

[dawn_of_night]

Alright! So I just saw this and thought I’d share it but it also reminds me of a conversation @MischiefMakerAlways and I had. It’s about the TikTok trend “He sounds like he talks you through it”

I said it’s true because a lot of guys in my experience, outside of kink anyway, don’t really talk, grunt, make noise when they orgasm, etc.

He said, girls in his experience don’t make much noise either. I’m noisy and talk quite a bit!

I think girls are lot more vocal during sex/play then men are.

What’s your experience guys and girls?


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I love to listen....
I haven't had the pleasure of a vocal partner...
And outside of phone calls, the vocal sex is usually minimal...

 

[hotoldrguy]

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Along the same lines, since it is the Ides of March...

 

[SalaciousMonkey22]

Sounds rule and with my poor hearing the louder the better.

 

[dawn_of_night]

Along the same lines, since it is the Ides of March...View attachment 2513504

Okay, this is funny too....
But ...
I declare a tie....

 

[hotoldrguy]

Okay, this is funny too....
But ...
I declare a tie....

https://media.tenor.com/p6vZbGVktPgAAAAM/its-not-a-competition-anna-faris.gif

 

[LostHorizon]

Beware the Ides of March

 

[dawn_of_night]

https://media.tenor.com/p6vZbGVktPgAAAAM/its-not-a-competition-anna-faris.gif

But it was for me!
I was looking for the wittiest fella....

You know, for reasons....

 

[Kitty_so_frisky]

Alright! So I just saw this and thought I’d share it but it also reminds me of a conversation @MischiefMakerAlways and I had. It’s about the TikTok trend “He sounds like he talks you through it”

I said it’s true because a lot of guys in my experience, outside of kink anyway, don’t really talk, grunt, make noise when they orgasm, etc.

He said, girls in his experience don’t make much noise either. I’m noisy and talk quite a bit!

I think girls are lot more vocal during sex/play then men are.

What’s your experience guys and girls?


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I love hearing dirty talk…it gets me so worked up and ridiculously wet. That being said…the more aroused I get, the more difficult it is for me to get my brain to focus on dirty talk…which isn’t to say I’m anywhere near silent I am definitely a moaner and a screamer whenever possible. Sometimes it can be a fun challenge to try not to make so much noise (like when roommates are home, or in a semi-private public space), but I often end up getting carried away anyway. And usually around the 6th orgasm or so, they kinda start rolling into each other and all bets are off, I get LOUD. For me and my multiorgasmic body and easily distracted brain, those moans are a much more primal, authentic reaction than stopping to think about dirty talk.

There are a few guys here who do dirty talk sooooo well though!

 

[UnquietDreams]

Along the same lines, since it is the Ides of March...View attachment 2513504

I automatically thought it was ranch...

 

[Bbl87]

Yes, I'm a nerd, but the discussion topic reminded me of this clip from Star Trek Voyager...

 

[Sammysub07]

You mean people actually make noise during sex? What's that like to be with?

Haha ikr?!

In all seriousness, I do really like talking/communicating/etc. during sex.

Me, too!! With my ex I would think, like what position are we transitioning to? Words matter!

In addition to the potential to be very hot if you're with someone who is a good dirty talker

Dirty talk is just the chefs kiss! Thankfully with MTK I do not have to worry! Haha

I think talking being the norm makes it easier to communicate your wants/needs because you don't feel like speaking up breaks the moment/mood.

This is my standpoint. It helps neither person if wants and needs aren’t communicated!

My wife unfortunately finds it awkward unless she's sufficiently drunk, haha, so it doesn't happen much for us.

This is what MTK was saying. That some women just don’t. It was my standpoint that women are probably more vocal than men. But maybe not?!

Sounds rule and with my poor hearing the louder the better.

I’m with you!!! I’m deaf in one ear!!! Let me know you like it!!! Sound up!!

 

[SalaciousMonkey22]

I’m with you!!! I’m deaf in one ear!!! Let me know you like it!!! Sound up!!

The heart’s in solidarity not because being dead is cool.
Sorta sucks. Except I can sleep through things like a Pro.

 

[Sammysub07]

I have always been very audible during sex.

This has been me, one hundred percent my whole life! I’m also a talker. Haha
It’s actually difficult and takes great concentration for me to stay quiet. Not to say I can’t, it’s been challenged. I often lose. but I like a challenge

Part of me knows that communication is so important

I didn’t realize until I started in the D/s space many years ago who important it is. Now it’s a must. When it’s not present I feel unconnected.

And I have been told I am pretty good with dirty talk when they enjoy that, and commands when playing in a D/s realm

So I’ve been told. Dirty talk is like that chef’s kiss!

do decent voice,

Yes, you do!!! You should honestly get into the narration space!

I have always loved listening to a woman moan and sigh -- it is among my favorite things

I had a partner who thought that. Never used a gag. Liked to hear it all. It took me awhile to not have that challenge to be quiet factor. But I came to like his preference!

At one point, I had a neighbor pound on the ceiling when I yelled, at the top of my lungs, "oh fuck, you are such a goddamned sexy woman"

I’m fucking dead!!! That’s awesome!! Oh to be a fly on their wall!!

 

[Sammysub07]

Except I can sleep through things like a Pro.

You and me both!!! Put my good ear in the pillow and I’m out for good! Until my body says fuck you-time to snap, crackle, and pop!

 

[SalaciousMonkey22]

You and me both!!! Put my good ear in the pillow and I’m out for good! Until my body says fuck you-time to snap, crackle, and pop!

Exactly!

 

[SWR101]

You and me both!!! Put my good ear in the pillow and I’m out for good! Until my body says fuck you-time to snap, crackle, and pop!

Ugh, I am 100% there with you on the second half, not lucky enough for thr first though. Im a light sleeper

 

[Bbl87]

This is what MTK was saying. That some women just don’t. It was my standpoint that women are probably more vocal than men. But maybe not?!

Dunno, my sample size is too small, haha.

I definitely would be if she was into it, as she does enjoy the D/s dynamic with some bondage sometimes, and I think the right "talking" really makes that dynamic much better. But she's said she can't take me seriously when I do, so I just kinda gave up on it and let the spanking and manhandling do the talking.

 

[Sammysub07]

I love to listen....
I haven't had the pleasure of a vocal partner...
And outside of phone calls, the vocal sex is usually minimal...

Listening is amazing! Sometimes I have to tell myself to shut up so I can hear all of the amazing auditory responses and communication from my partner. Being deaf in one ear makes that a problem

But my ex. Silent. Sometimes I wouldn’t know when he orgasmed.

Are you a vocal partner?

I love hearing dirty talk…it gets me so worked up and ridiculously wet. That being said…the more aroused I get, the more difficult it is for me to get my brain to focus on dirty talk

Girl!!! Yes!!! Drip. Like. A. Faucet.

which isn’t to say I’m anywhere near silent

Me? Never.

Sometimes it can be a fun challenge to try not to make so much noise

I like a challenge, too. Rarely turn one down. In this case, losing can be fun I’m an angel, I swear.

And usually around the 6th orgasm or so, they kinda start rolling into each other and all bets are off, I get LOUD

I’m laughing now because I feel like I could have written what you wrote!

For me and my multiorgasmic body and easily distracted brain, those moans are a much more primal

I turn into an incoherent mess! Not one word makes sense and my groans go guttural!

There are a few guys here who do dirty talk sooooo well though!

Ohhh I’ve heard of them but not heard them! Brag moment, MTK has it down!

 

[dawn_of_night]

Listening is amazing! Sometimes I have to tell myself to shut up so I can hear all of the amazing auditory responses and communication from my partner. Being deaf in one ear makes that a problem

But my ex. Silent. Sometimes I wouldn’t know when he orgasmed.

Right .... I really don't like the silence....

Are you a vocal partner?

Are you asking me specifically??
(Sorry, I wasn't expecting that... Nor had I prepared an answer for interaction)

Kinda? I guess....
I have a bad habit of almost holding my breathe when they're really strong....

 

[Sammysub07]

Are you asking me specifically??

Yes. But really for the purpose to see if men and women alike are either silent or vocal. Sorry didn’t mean to put you on the spot.

 

[ChrisOU812]

I love hearing dirty talk…it gets me so worked up and ridiculously wet. That being said…the more aroused I get, the more difficult it is for me to get my brain to focus on dirty talk…which isn’t to say I’m anywhere near silent I am definitely a moaner and a screamer whenever possible. Sometimes it can be a fun challenge to try not to make so much noise (like when roommates are home, or in a semi-private public space), but I often end up getting carried away anyway. And usually around the 6th orgasm or so, they kinda start rolling into each other and all bets are off, I get LOUD. For me and my multiorgasmic body and easily distracted brain, those moans are a much more primal, authentic reaction than stopping to think about dirty talk.

There are a few guys here who do dirty talk sooooo well though!

I am the dirtiest of all.