Sexless Marriages

[Southernscot21]

I am a 64 year old female and I haven't been sexually active with my husband for over 5 years now. God, I want some fun.

Post some pics of yourself please

 

[stephen88]

Post some pics of yourself please

Yeah, fun would be so wonderful!!

 

[lokiboy]

Its nice to see I’m not alone; sexless marriage for past 8 years, husband is older and no longer wants sex.
I still get moments when I feel sad & lonely, I come here and its comforting in some way to read about others coping with the same.

Have you had him get his testosterone checked? I got mine checked after 40 and it was already low.
Obligatory Disclaimer: I got it checked because I didn't feel 'right' anymore and wasn't healing like I used to after lifting, not because I had libido issue
Testosterone replacement therapy fixed the feeling and the healing issues, but it unfortunately (never thought I'd say that) it supercharged my libido and now there's even more of a mismatch with the lil lady

 

[Deadbed1968]

Have you had him get his testosterone checked? I got mine checked after 40 and it was already low.
Obligatory Disclaimer: I got it checked because I didn't feel 'right' anymore and wasn't healing like I used to after lifting, not because I had libido issue
Testosterone replacement therapy fixed the feeling and the healing issues, but it unfortunately (never thought I'd say that) it supercharged my libido and now there's even more of a mismatch with the lil lady I

I had the same issue. I actually went through something similar to menopause with hot flashes and flop sweats! My T level had fallen off a cliff. Still taking meds to force my body to make enough. It just didn’t kill my libido, it also made my depression and anxiety so much worse.

Still in a sexless, but very loving marriage full of affection though.

 

[Bidaddy84]

I am a 64 year old female and I haven't been sexually active with my husband for over 5 years now. God, I want some fun.

That's terrible news. I'm sorry it's been a struggle. Are you afraid to find an affair partner?

 

[WeWeeOui]

I am a 64 year old female and I haven't been sexually active with my husband for over 5 years now. God, I want some fun.

Mid 60's here and 16 years without anything more than an occasional titty feel. My wife of 25 years..... the woman I travelled halfway around the world for has had health issues including a deteriorating vaginal wall, early onset menopause and takes several different medicines for Nervous System problems. To make matters worse, my previous girlfriend of 8 years back in Australia was a friggin Nympho and kinky AF. I can pick 'em apparently . I'd be happy to find a little bit of 'slap'n'tickle' too.

 

[frappingwilly]

over five years??! Go have you some fun!

I did 12 with my first wife.

 

[Man4mystery]

Anyone else with this problem?
I have a high sex drive and the wife doesn't.
Looking for others with this problem, and possibly helping fill our needs.

I wouldn’t say marriage for me cause I DO NOT want that. I enjoy single life but it’s sexless for long stretches and end up with same hookups…I want and crave someone NEW

 

[ToPleaseHim]

I wouldn’t say marriage for me cause I DO NOT want that. I enjoy single life but it’s sexless for long stretches and end up with same hookups…I want and crave someone NEW

Married straight male looking for chats, intimate talk, pictures and webcam. Looking for women over 50. Mid life crisis and things need to be exciting again…

I’ve been with her for 8 years and sex has just stopped. I love her but I’m cheating now and it’s actually brought our sex life back a bit stronger

For me it was the risk, the pleasure of someone new, the thrill… believe it or not, my affair has increased my libido with my wife

Hi I’m James,

Single but kinda dating. I’ve never really been a dom but this girl I’m seeing has started introducing me to new things. Took me awhile to get into it and what to say but we now have safe words lol

She wants to take things slow and that’s good cause I’m a BDSM virgin

I went to my 10 year. It was awkward. Most of my friends are married and have kids. I’m single, didn’t bring a date. I felt alone and unwanted even though I mingled most of the night and reminisced good times. My ex gf is married, two kids. It was a high school thing but still awkward seeing the woman I lost my virginity to there. My friends asked how’s the single life a lot. I like it but at times wish I had someone to share life with. I wouldn’t go to another

Hmmm, my first time with a woman started off playful, a couple kisses, her kiss was soft and it sent sensations that didn’t feel like a man, awkward at first and it stopped…until the following week…it started again because I was curious how she felt…I wanted more and she delivered

I am 5’6” brown shoulder length hair, ima white chick lol. I’m fairly fit. I have no tattoos.
I’m single, bored with drama and need a life

Okay, you’ve gone from being a married man to a single man to a single woman back to a single man all in the span of about 45 days?!? What are you doing?

 

[Man4mystery]

Okay, you’ve gone from being a married man to a single man to a single woman back to a single man all in the span of about 45 days?!? What are you doing?

What’s it to you? Are you the Lit police?

 

[ToPleaseHim]

What’s it to you? Are you the Lit police?

Well, actually…

 

[Wisconsin1965]

Okay, you’ve gone from being a married man to a single man to a single woman back to a single man all in the span of about 45 days?!? What are you doing?

Catfish I say. Smdh

 

[Man4mystery]

Well, actually…

Kick me off then cunt, let’s see what kind of power you have lol

Moderator note: incidentally, I do have the power to edit your messages. Yours should come with some red flags, catfish.

 

[rachaelwillguideyou]

Okay, you’ve gone from being a married man to a single man to a single woman back to a single man all in the span of about 45 days?!? What are you doing?

You sound interesting. Why do you limit who contacts you. I'd like to at least follow you.

 

[barefootgirl69]

Kick me off then cunt, let’s see what kind of power you have lol

Weren't you the one asking how to end their membership? If you're so unhappy here, you can always go to the link I gave you that day.

 

[ToPleaseHim]

You sound interesting. Why do you limit who contacts you. I'd like to at least follow you.

I don’t limit who follows me. Lots of people I don’t know have followed me, so I’m not sure what you’re seeing.

 

[ToPleaseHim]

Kick me off then cunt, let’s see what kind of power you have lol

I don’t have the power to remove you. But, also, I think you’re trying to get banned. I wouldn’t give in to that. I’m just pointing out to folks that you’re an obvious catfish.

 

[Man4mystery]

I don’t have the power to remove you. But, also, I think you’re trying to get banned. I wouldn’t give in to that. I’m just pointing out to folks that you’re an obvious catfish.

Catfish, oh well been called worse

 

[Mhoncho5151]

Anyone else with this problem?
I have a high sex drive and the wife doesn't.
Looking for others with this problem, and possibly helping fill our needs.

Yes! Feel this. Been 9 months. I jerk off almost daily

 

[rachaelwillguideyou]

I don’t limit who follows me. Lots of people I don’t know have followed me, so I’m not sure what you’re seeing.

I just see I can follow you. I just cant see your 'full' profile.

 

[ToPleaseHim]

I just see I can follow you. I just cant see your 'full' profile.

Ah, I find that this drastically reduces the number of HNG’s (horny net guys) who send random PMs. There’s not much in my profile, anyway. I’m not here to date or find people, but I have made a lot of friends in the threads. That’s the best way to get to know people. (And spot the fakers like the dude a few posts up).

 

[Bidaddy84]

Im new to this part of lit. Ive been on here reading stories since high-school, but only the last few years have I started favoriting stories and writers and recently with being on here in the chat and the boards. The above mentioned individual would be the kind of person who would get constantly banned on kik groups for that sort of behavior

 

[barefootgirl69]

Im new to this part of lit. Ive been on here reading stories since high-school, but only the last few years have I started favoriting stories and writers and recently with being on here in the chat and the boards. The above mentioned individual would be the kind of person who would get constantly banned on kik groups for that sort of behavior

He's asked how he can stop his membership and was given that information. He should be mature enough to do that or log-off. (Not a euphemism)

 

[Purple_Fronds]

Well my marriage finally fell apart a couple years ago. He had gotten a prescription for Cialis and when he took it our sex life was great again. Then he’d stop and every time we TRIED to have sex I’d end up in the bathroom crying. I stopped looking for affection and sex. He ended up texting me one day to say it was over.

Sadly my sex life hasn’t taken off. Dating after being married 23 years is scary and then menopause hit and really screwed with my body/hormones. I miss the old me that always felt sexy and horny.

So all that said I’m glad the marriage is over. There was so much more wrong with it than just sex. I hope to once again have a great sex life and I don’t think I’m too old for that, I just gotta find the right guy.

If you’re that miserable in your marriage it’s probably time for a really difficult talk. While I hate the way my ex ended things I’m glad he did. Life is much better these days.

ETA I’m not saying everyone should get divorced and honestly I begged my ex to go to counseling and give our marriage another chance. Just saying if divorce is the answer life does go on.

Give yourself time, and be kind to yourself,

 

[stephen88]

Give yourself time, and be kind to yourself,

Keep your chin. Hang in there.