Well sure I gave up wanting a physical relationship when I had to do ALL the initiating and really why would I want to fuck someone who isn't interested in sex anymore?
I totally agree,
I'm with you same happened here and I just gave up trying
Things aren't always as simple as that, with my first marriage we grew apart and probably were both guilty of not putting in enough effort - meaning that love died and the marriage ended. So kinda fits your profile.
That's fair. However, the effort still applies to most cases I think.
Any idea why? My wife seemed to love sex when we were dating....now not so much
Hormones, ......what the medical field knows about them is in it's infancy.
The reasons are so vast and nuanced that any answers could be correct and not helpful all at the same time.
Consider being early 70's with the same fire and desire of a much younger male in addition to a sexless marriage for the past several years. I do believe the youngin's call it Incel. We just called it Horney. The sad part is she was my Fire and Desire. Once the spark is dead, it's called The End for that part of our relationship. AMEN for the internet. Used to buy mags, not any more. Lots and lots of toys out there to take the edge off let alone websites for individual tastes. Could be better, BUT, could always be worse.I am totally in a sexless marriage and have been pretty much for a few years! We’re out there but we are a bit like unicorns
I am a woman in her 50’s with the sex drive of an 18 yr old boy, that’s not normal I’ve been told by female friends the same age and male friends. I should be settling down for my old age with my hormones dying a slow death, but hell no!
I agree its true that "the effort" applies in an awful lot of cases (no idea if its most), people get comfortable and stop putting the effort in. We still have date nights, not on a planned schedule (as in every wednesday is date night) as we feel that is counterproductive. Until you've lived through a partner with medical problems which impact sex drive and general energy levels its hard to realise what it can be like (for them and their partner).
Isn't that one of the reasons that sites like this exist?
It does seem true that very often the one who doesn’t want sex isn’t investing anything else in the relationship either, but it doesn’t seem like that person has “given up,” because, the suggestion of ending it would usually spin them out to no end. They expect a commitment.
I've had a few try to blackmail me, luckily I keep I pretty nonexistent internet life so it would be difficult to find the real meI get that...luckily a lot of people can attest I at least am who I say I am...they've seen pics of my cunt now as well as other things. But it is hard to take risks and trust. I love a voice or pic of something to hope they are representing themselves accurately as far as sex and age. I had a friend tell me about a blackmail, attempt, some people are motherfuckers. Hope you find intimacy and happiness.
Love tig ol bitties.Hello my sexless married friends...wishing you a Happy Thanksgiving. I have been lucky enough to play with a few of you and wanted to say hang in there!
Any special requests for pics before I dissapear for the long holiday weekend? Tits, cunt, ass? All of the above? Let me knwo here - be brave or PM me as some of you normally do
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